Siheyuan: Being a fisherman in 1962

Qin Huairu felt uncomfortable watching the old man busy educating Bang Geng.

Thinking of the help Sha Zhu had given them in the past, Qin Huairu's family was poor at that time, but full of warmth and hope.

Now, with Sha Zhu's departure and Chen Fei's change in attitude, she felt an unprecedented disappointment and loneliness.

I began to doubt whether I was too naive, thinking that as long as I gave my sincerity I would gain others’ understanding and help.

The Banggeng incident caused widespread discussion in the courtyard and made her very anxious.

Some people think that Qin Huairu should be responsible for Banggeng’s behavior, after all, he is her son; others think that everyone should have more sympathy and understanding, after all, Banggeng is still a child.

These arguments made Qin Huairu feel even more helpless and confused.

I began to reflect on whether there was really something wrong with my own educational methods, and whether I should unconditionally accept Banggeng's free meals.

At this critical moment, another elder in the courtyard, the second uncle, stood up.

He always maintained a detached attitude towards matters concerning the Siheyuan.

Seeing Qin Huairu's confusion and helplessness, and hearing everyone's debate on the Banggeng incident, he decided to step in to mediate the conflict.

The second uncle first found the first uncle, and the two had an in-depth conversation.

The second uncle believes that the issue cannot be dealt with simply based on fairness or sympathy, but should take into account everyone's actual situation and feelings.

It is suggested that the uncle adopt a compromise approach: to give Banggeng appropriate criticism and education, while also encouraging everyone to give him the necessary help and support.

The first uncle thought that what the second uncle said made sense, so he decided to adopt the suggestion and announce it at the general meeting of the institute.

I hope everyone can understand Qin Huairu's predicament and difficulties. At the same time, I also hope that Qin Huairu can strengthen the education and guidance of Banggeng.

It is also proposed to set up a courtyard mutual aid fund to help residents in difficult circumstances.

Looking at the old man's declaration at the meeting, Qin Huairu turned her anger into laughter.

Although the second uncle's suggestion was a compromise, it still touched upon the core of the problem.

She couldn't help but start to reflect on whether she had really fulfilled her responsibilities as a mother and whether she should educate Bang Geng more strictly.

At this moment, Fade Chen suddenly walked into the courtyard.

I heard the discussion at the whole hospital meeting and saw Qin Huairu's tired and helpless figure.

He felt guilty for being too tough and not considering Qin Huairu's situation.

"I'm sorry." Fade Chen walked up to Qin Huairu and apologized sincerely, "My attitude before was too much. I know Banggeng's behavior is wrong, but I also know that he is just a child. He should be given a chance to correct himself."

Qin Huairu looked at Chen Fei and breathed a sigh of relief.

She was a little surprised that Chen Fei would take the initiative to apologize.

However, what Chen Fei said was not completely unreasonable.

Bang Terrier really needs to correct his mistakes, and they really should give him a chance.

At this moment, Sha Zhu suddenly walked into the courtyard.

He had been avoiding the problem, but he couldn't keep hiding forever.

Seeing Qin Huairu, Chen Fei and the old man, he felt nervous.

"Shazhu, you're here too." The old man greeted Shazhu when he saw him. "It just so happens that we are discussing Banggeng. You should come and listen too."

Sha Zhu nodded and walked to the side and sat down silently.

Listening to everyone's discussion, it felt like a mixed bag of emotions.

He also bears some responsibility in this issue.

I have been working silently but have not received the due rewards.

I began to doubt whether I was not doing well enough and whether I should work harder to help others.

After the whole hospital meeting, Qin Huairu found Sha Zhu.

I thank him for his help and support over the years, but I also feel helpless and regretful for him.

She told Sha Zhu that she couldn't always rely on his help, and she also needed to learn to face and solve problems on her own.

Sha Zhu listened silently, feeling deeply moved.

Although this may sound a bit sad, it is the truth.

You can't always be a passive helper, you also need to learn to take responsibility and face problems proactively.

Qin Huairu stood in the corner of the courtyard, quietly watching Sha Zhu's departing back, feeling both grateful and guilty.

Thinking of Sha Zhu's help to them over the years and those days of silent dedication, she could never forget them.

As time went by, I seemed to have gradually become accustomed to his presence and even began to ignore his efforts.

Thinking back to Sha Zhu's shabby clothes and simple breakfast, Qin Huairu couldn't help feeling heartbroken.

She realized that Sha Zhu's life was not rich and his efforts were based on sacrificing himself.

But she never really cared about his life and never thought about repaying his kindness.

"A drop of water should be repaid with a spring of water," this ancient saying rang in Qin Huairu's ears.

I actually forgot the most basic principle.

I began to feel ashamed of my behavior and thought I should do something for Shazhu.

At this moment, Fade Chen's voice interrupted her thoughts.

"You should thank Shazhu. He has done so much for you, but you have never really cared about him. Aren't you afraid of being called ungrateful by doing this?"

After a moment of silence, Qin Huairu raised her head and looked at Chen Fei.

"You are right. I should thank Sha Zhu. I will remember his kindness and try to repay him. At the same time, I will reflect on my own behavior and try to correct my mistakes."

He didn't expect Qin Huairu to respond to him so firmly.

But he also understood that Qin Huairu's words were not empty promises, but her true thoughts deep in her heart.

From that day on, Qin Huairu began to work hard to change.

No longer ignore Sha Zhu's efforts, but truly appreciate his help.

I also began to reflect on my own educational methods and worked hard to create a better growth environment for Banggeng.

The residents in the courtyard also saw the changes in Qin Huairu and began to re-evaluate this woman who was once misunderstood.

After deep reflection and baptism, Qin Huairu began to look at herself and the world around her from a new perspective.

Stop avoiding problems and face them bravely and work hard to find solutions.

The previous incident of Banggeng stealing the chicken was like a mirror, reflecting her past negligence and ignorance.

On this day, Banggeng's chicken theft was exposed and everyone in the hospital knew the news.

Faced with everyone's accusations and discussions, Qin Huairu did not escape or make excuses, but just endured it silently.

This is her responsibility as a mother.

However, she is not alone.

At the critical moment, Sha Zhu stood by her side.

He didn't say any big words, but just supported her silently and gave her strength.

His presence made Qin Huairu feel extremely warm and comforted.

Qin Huairu decided to take action and began to work hard to change her and Banggeng's lives and try to guide him onto the right path.

However, life is not always smooth sailing.

The relationship between Qin Huairu and Sha Zhu is still a hot topic, and their relationship seems to have become a "handle" that people can't let go.

This is not a solution. We must find a way to get rid of the criticism.

So she thought of a solution.

Find Jia Zhang, the mother-in-law whom she has always regarded as a scapegoat.

Qin Huairu knew that although Jia Zhang was a little confused, as a mother-in-law, she was willing to share some responsibilities with her.

He confessed his mistakes and faults to Jia Zhang and asked her to help him take some responsibility.

Although Jia Zhang was a little surprised, she was moved by Qin Huairu's sincerity and determination, and finally agreed.