Siheyuan: Married a female spy at the beginning of 1944

Qin Huairu and Xiao An have basically the same ideas when it comes to looking at men.

Or rather, women all over the world for five thousand years have thought this way.

Only in the next thirty or forty years, because most people are equal, will women choose honest men as their husbands.

However, this is mainly because the reputation of honest people will be extremely good in the next few decades.

Since everyone's material conditions are similar, choose a man with a good reputation.

He is considered a strong man.

Therefore, women have not changed from ancient times to the present.

They will follow whoever has money.

As for love, it's all a lie.

Didn’t Eileen Chang say this?

Guidance is the highway into a woman's soul.

Love will develop over time.

Then what’s the point of talking about love?

However, women are also the most hypocritical.

The constraints of social morality make them dare not express their true thoughts.

So Qin Huairu looked at Xiao An with contempt, and then said

"Aunt, what you said is not right. Being someone's lover? Being a concubine? That was the exploitation of women in the old society.

Now it's a new society. Who would be willing to be someone else's concubine or lover?

Your thinking is too backward and too feudal. "

Xiao An doesn't care about feudalism or not.

She had already seen that Qin Huairu had some feelings for He Daqing.

"What kind of exploitation? If I marry Lao Yi, I won't be exploited?

If I marry Lao Yi, I won’t eat well, won’t dress well, will have to work every day, and will also have to sleep with him.

If you become a rich man's concubine, maybe you don't have to work every day?

Eating well and dressing well is better than following a poor guy, I think.

Huairu, I'm not saying anything bad about you, but you're so beautiful, why did you marry Jia Dongxu?

For someone like you, it would be a waste if you don't marry an official."

Xiao An's words touched Qin Huairu's heart.

She always felt that she was wronged for marrying Jia Dongxu.

But after all, she has married Jia Dongxu, and she can't follow outsiders in saying bad things about her husband.

"My Dongxu treats me very well. Although our family is a little poor and he doesn't have much ability, we live a stable life."

When Xiao An heard Qin Huairu's words, she was sure that Qin Huairu was indeed dissatisfied with her husband.

"What's the point of a man being nice to you? Are you marrying him because you need a father? Or a son?

A man must be capable, able to protect us and bring us happiness.

What's the point of a man who surrenders in three strikes? You might as well marry a cucumber.

Besides, is your Dongxu good? That's cowardly.

Which capable man would listen to his wife?

What else do you need a man who listens to you in everything?

A man who is easily influenced by others is either incompetent or a waste."

Qin Huairu felt that Xiao An's words became more and more pleasant to the ears.

Indeed, if a man is capable, why would he listen to a woman?

“That’s not the way to say it. Dongxu doesn’t listen to me on everything. It’s just that what I say is more correct.

We both discussed this, and we'll listen to whoever is right!"

Xiao An looked at Qin Huairu's insincere expression.

I knew that Qin Huairu could still be persuaded.

"Well, you're fine. No matter what, Dongxu is still a young man and there are still opportunities in the future.

Unlike me, the man in my family is not only unpopular, but also quite old.

I have no hope in this life.

Tell me, if I go with He Daqing, can He Daqing take me with him?"

Qin Huairu almost laughed out loud when she heard Xiao An's words.

In Qin Huairu's opinion, Xiao An is old and ugly.

He is not even half as good as me, yet he still wants to throw himself into the arms of He Daqing.

"Aunt, just live a good life with Yi Zhonghai. I think if you don't live a good life, Yi Zhonghai might not want you anymore one day."

Of course Xiao An also knew that Yi Zhonghai didn't have any deep feelings for her.

If Yi Zhonghai had any other choice, he would definitely not choose me.

"Well, I'm just saying, I know I'm not worthy of He Daqing, but Huairu, you can.

Look at Tanya, she is capable, has status, and is not bad looking too.

Apart from his slightly older age, what else about him doesn't make him outstanding?

Tell me, why is she willing to be with He Daqing?

Still without a name or status?"

After hearing what Xiao An said, Qin Huairu fell into deep thought.

Yeah, why?

In Qin Huairu's eyes, Tanya was already an unattainable person.

Capable, prestigious, elegant and beautiful.

Except for her age, she is a perfect woman in other aspects.

Why is such a person willing to be He Daqing's mistress?

After much deliberation, there was only one possibility.

Either He Daqing's status is higher than Tan Ya's.

Or maybe He Daqing is just strong in that aspect.

But no matter which situation it is, Qin Huairu is quite envious.

Why do women always like to hook up with their best friend’s men?

It's mainly blind obedience.

They subconsciously think that if someone wants something, it must be a good thing.

The more people who want it, the better it is.

The same goes for men.

The more girls a man has been with, the more women will throw themselves at him.

Qin Huairu is now a little blindly obedient.

She felt that since Tanya was so powerful, she was willing to be with He Daqing.

Then He Daqing must be a treasure.

But this treasure is hidden quite deep, and she needs to explore it slowly.

"The two of them had known each other for a long time. Tanya was He Daqing's former boss, and later they both joined the revolution.

Fighting against the Japanese together, we developed a deep bond. "

Xiao An originally wanted to continue persuading Qin Huairu.

But then I thought, if I talk too much in one day, it might cause Qin Huairu to rebel.

It is better to seduce her little by little step by step.

"Yes, you are right, there is no hope for us in this life, so let's just live a hard life.

Anyway, I'm used to it, and I don't have many years of good life left.

Unlike you, who are so young and whose life has just begun.

If I were you, I would find a rich and capable man no matter what.

I also want to live in a bigger house, wear better clothes, have a car to go out, and have someone to serve me when I get home.

I heard that He Daqing is a big capitalist in Hong Kong and his family is very rich.

Even if I become his concubine, I shouldn't suffer much as long as I go to their house.

Moreover, if she could give him a son, he would have a happy life for the rest of his life."

After Xiao An finished speaking, he patted Qin Huairu on the shoulder.

"Think about it carefully. I'm leaving now."

After Xiao An left, Qin Huairu's mind began to wander.

Thinking about the happiness of being with He Daqing.

I thought I could become a wealthy wife after going to Hong Kong.

Thinking of Tanya's gritted teeth as she watched her, but she seemed helpless.

Thinking that she had a son with He Daqing, and that this son was very outstanding and inherited all of He Daqing's property.

As she thought about it, Qin Huairu couldn't help but laugh.