Military marriage, the last big man married the soldier king, the stronger the stronger

Jiang Yan was amused by Si Xinnian's words, "Whose family looks so gray after giving birth? I'm sorry to show you. After a woman gives birth, she will have the radiance of motherhood and her own halo!"

"It's not like I haven't seen other people's wives who look really depressed after giving birth." When it comes to this matter, Si Zhen feels that she has a say.

"A colleague of mine had a baby six months ago and returned to work not long after she finished her confinement. I almost didn't recognize her."

Jiang Yan's attention is on the two children. Today is a day off, and it's a rare occasion that Si Zhen and Si Lu are both on vacation, so she can help take care of the children at home.

It's the end of the year, and Ning Yu is thinking of going to the department store with Si Xinnian to pick out some clothes for the whole family to wear during the New Year. The two of them can also give themselves a break and relax.

"Although I have gained some weight, my complexion is not good at all. I feel weak and out of breath after walking a few steps. If I grab a handful of my hair, it will fall out."

"Really?" Jiang Yan was also a little confused. She instinctively reached out and grabbed her hair. Well, she successfully grabbed a strand. She didn't seem to have this problem.

"Yes, and her eyes are dark blue, which shows that she didn't get enough rest." Si Zhen came close to Jiang Yan and whispered, "Her breasts were swollen at noon and her clothes were wet. Her mother-in-law even came to her with the baby in her arms to feed her, which made her feel so embarrassed. When she took the baby out, her eyes were red."

Jiang Yan felt a sense of powerlessness in her heart. What Si Zhen said was not surprising at all. It was too common.

“She might be tired!”

She had just given birth, her hormone levels were unstable, and her body hadn’t recovered yet! Psychological problems reappeared. The mother-in-law, the aunts, the uncles, the baby cried and was hungry, hungry and crying, how many people could really help her hold on?

Most women will have some psychological problems after giving birth, right? More or less.

In fact, these things don’t have to happen and are unavoidable.

The emotions of a mother need to be cared for and seen, and all kinds of emotional problems after childbirth can be solved through care and love.

If the child is making a fuss, just let someone else take care of her and let her have a rest.

If you don’t have enough milk, just buy some milk powder. Don’t say things like “how come you don’t even have milk”. What’s the point of saying these things?

At night, the man changed her diapers twice, let her sleep a little longer, and fed her milk powder twice.

The mother-in-law should do more work, talk less, and avoid getting involved with messy relatives. Which woman would be depressed when she becomes a new mother!

Hormone levels won't always be weird, they will eventually return to normal over time. The most difficult days will be over, and she will be grateful to everyone who has helped her.

But not everyone is as lucky as she is. She has parents-in-law who love her, a husband who cares for her, and a reasonable aunt and sister-in-law. Her family is also around. They are afraid that she will be too tired and that she will have to work hard because of the two children. So all the usual things are covered by them. She just needs to rest, rest and rest again to adjust herself to the best state...

Jiang Yan keeps all of this in mind and is grateful to everyone.

While Jiang Yan was stunned, the two babies woke up.

They didn't cry or make a fuss. Their big black eyes seemed to be looking for something and their little feet kept kicking, which made anyone's heart melt.

"Oh, the baby is awake."

Si Zhen kept Ning Yu's words in mind. Don't hold the children when they are not making a fuss, otherwise it will be difficult to raise them in the future. If no one holds them, they will cry.

Babies who are only two months old cannot see things that are too far away from them, so you have to get close to them and tease them so that they can see clearly.

Si Lu turned on the radio, found a music channel, and let the child listen to some different sounds.

After a while, the brother and sister started to grunt and their faces turned red.

"Did you poop? Let auntie take a look."

Si Zhen naturally reached out and touched it, and quickly changed the child's diaper. Si Lu naturally took the changed diaper and poured warm water for the two children.

Wash them, wipe them clean, apply some talcum powder, and finally put on new diapers for them.

To be honest, I'm really tired. My waist is sore after changing two children's diapers.

But the two little guys didn't calm down. They were hungry again after pooping, so I had to make milk powder for them and test the temperature without stopping. By the time I put the bottles into the two kids' mouths, I was already covered in sweat.

Fortunately, they were well-behaved and went to sleep after feeding. However, they only slept for less than twenty minutes before they immediately became wet. I had to change their diapers, wash their butts, and apply talcum powder.

I'm so busy that I'm dizzy.

"Sister-in-law, Grandpa has already picked out the names for the children, but you two haven't picked out nicknames yet?"

The eldest is a girl and was named Si Jiang.

The old man is really romantic. He put two people's surnames together. It has a good meaning and sounds nice.

The second child is a boy, named Si Shiyan. At first, the character Yan was not used. The old man wanted to use the character Yan from Jiang Yan. Both children's names contain Jiang Yan's name, which sounds unusual.

But Si Lu said that it would be better to use Yan instead of Yan for boys. Shiyan sounds like a girl, so in the end it was changed to Yan.

The two children’s household registrations have been completed, but their nicknames have not yet been chosen.

"How about calling me Jiang Jiang or Yan Yan?" Si Zhen laughed first after she finished speaking. She was afraid of disturbing the children, so she covered her mouth and laughed, "I just said that, you can do whatever you want."

The sunlight poured into the room, shining on the children's cribs. The two children were sleeping soundly and no extra sounds could be heard in the room.

Jiang Yan reached out to touch her daughter's hand, but Si Jiang grabbed her fingers and held them tightly.

Jiang Yan's heart suddenly became soft. The little person was connected to her by blood, and it was really hard to let her go. Although she had never breastfed the two little ones, her love for them did not diminish at all.

Si Lu hung the washed diapers all over the yard and hugged Jiang Yan from behind, "I think diapers are better." Those things are amazing, you only need to change one every night, but they can't be shown in the house openly.

Sometimes Si Lu took care of the kids alone at night, and Jiang Yan felt sorry for him, so she used diapers for the kids and threw them into the space after use. Anyway, they could be cleaned up at any time.

"Keep your voice down and don't wake the child."

"I've thought of so many nicknames, but none of them satisfy me. How about listening to their aunt and calling them Jiang Jiang? Yan Yan?"

Jiang Yan glared at him unhappily and said, "I can think of two, they're not bad."

"tell me the story."

"Have you heard of that poem? If love lasts forever, why should we be together day and night?"

"So, call me Chao Chao and Mu Mu?"

"Doesn't it sound good?"

"It sounds good."

Si Lu's eyes fell on the two children and he couldn't help but laugh, "Chao Chao Mu Mu."