My daily life with the Shiina sisters

Looking at Shiina Mahiru who was trying hard to suppress her tears, Imagawa Kaede actually thought of many ways to explain, but after thinking about it, he decided to hug Mahiru first.

Pulling Mahiru into his arms, Imagawa Kaede patted her back gently to comfort her emotions, without any hurried explanation or repeated apologies.

It is difficult to communicate with a woman when she is emotionally unstable, and girls tend to speak tentatively.

A more classic one is, look at this one (I want it).

Girl: “Do you think this one looks good?”

Man: “It looks good.”

At this time, the woman will most likely try something else. On the contrary, if a man asks a woman, the result will probably be a direct purchase.

Imagawa Kaede recalled what Mahiru had just said.

"Do you hate me?"

"Were you mad at me this afternoon?"

"What did I do not do well enough?"

"You've been acting so weird lately."

……

The above three questions can be regarded as nonsense. Even if you need to think about them, don’t hate them or get angry. You are doing very well.

Just look at the last sentence, Imagawa Kaede has been acting strange lately. This is the key point.

Imagawa Kaede couldn't quite figure out what was strange about himself, but naturally he had to compare himself with the past recently.

Combine that with dislike, anger, and doing something badly.

Imagawa Kaede also understood the problem. It was indeed his problem. Because of the system, Imagawa Kaede has been much more honest recently than before.

A lot less cough cough cough... And today, because Kaguya Shinomiya and he were alone for a while, it was normal for Mahiru to feel a little uncomfortable.

Don't think Mahiru is being pretentious. Just imagine that your partner used to look for opportunities to spend time with you as soon as he came back, but suddenly for a while he starts to deliberately keep a distance from you.

And a few hours ago, the person your partner used to love spent some time alone with your partner.

Moreover, your partner's family background is much better than yours, and that person is also well matched with your partner...

You have to stay calm...

But will Imagawa Kaede admit that he was wrong?

No, no, no

As Mahiru's emotions gradually calmed down, Imagawa Kaede noticed it and spoke:

"Indeed, this kind of Mahiru does make me a little angry."

"But even though this kind of Mahiru makes me a little angry, I don't hate her."

Imagawa wiped away the tears from Mahiru's face and continued speaking word by word:

"Because it's Mahiru, I get angry. Because it's Mahiru, I don't hate it."

……

After a long time, Imagawa Kaede spoke to break the silence.

"Feeling better?"

"Yeah, but please don't be mad at me, okay? I'll definitely ask for your opinion next time Shinomiya comes over."

? Imagawa Kaede was a little confused. He didn't know why he was angry about this kind of thing, but after thinking about it, he could understand why Mahiru thought this way.

But since Mahiru said so, he wouldn't deny it.

However, the entry point must be chosen well, and Imagawa Kaede needs to open up the situation.

"Actually, it's okay if you forget to say something like this, but that's not what makes me angry."

He gave her a chance to show his empathy. He probably guessed the real reason why Mahiru didn't tell him, but in his case, Mahiru forgot to tell him. And on the other hand, this also made the following words seem more true.

"Mahiru, I don't understand why you agreed to let her talk to me alone. I wanted to refuse directly. Aren't you afraid of losing me? It seems that you don't care about me at all."

"No, it's just that I feel..."

"What do you think? You're a good person, pushing your fiancé in front of another woman."

As Imagawa Kaede was acting, she turned over and faced away from Mahiru. (Actually, her expression was a little stunned.)

"It's all my fault, don't be angry..."

It's inexplicable and ridiculous. Imagawa Kaede has always felt that coaxing others is not as good as being coaxed by others.

It’s just like the classic excuse I mentioned before, you were late, so you bought a cup of milk tea on the way and said you were late because of the milk tea.

Analysis principle:

Being late = not paying attention to her

Buy her the milk tea she likes = you have her in your heart

This solves the problem, but wouldn’t the money spent on the milk tea be wasted?

Then you can definitely take a step forward and take the initiative.

"If I wasn't late because I bought... for you, you must... I understand..."

Anyway, have some tea, turn the tables and say she doesn't care about you or something.

Girls will most likely take a step back and try to coax you.

It is very easy for the woman to break this routine. Just deal with the matter at hand. It is a fact that he is late.

If the man argues with you, there is no need for you to move forward.

Similarly, if the woman is discussing the matter with you, then there is no need for you to develop the relationship further.

Sometimes it is very important to be able to take a step back.

Your starting point is to go on a date, and continuing to argue means that the other person is not willing to compromise in order to go on a date with you.

Of course, some people have more stubborn personalities, but how should I put it? Being with such people who like to argue about right and wrong will probably not be very comfortable, even though the other person may be more loyal.

(It’s not a blanket statement, it depends on whether you can bear it or not.)

Love is war. There are many variables in war, and the changes on both sides of the war are sometimes also great.

If the other person is a little dumber, it will be easier for you to control him.

Of course, there are still very few stupid people, and most of the stupid people are just willing to be controlled.

There is no right or wrong in emotional matters; it's all about doing it willingly.

When you use the advanced method to take the initiative, most people know that it is wrong for you to be late.

Being willing to coax you doesn’t mean I care more about your feelings than whether it’s right or wrong?

But there are many times when the wolf disguises himself as a sheep to confuse you in the early stage...

Uh... I haven't realized how much nonsense I have said.

The sea...hhh