After the evil mother-in-law was reborn, the whole family collapsed

Ling's mother is not really a vicious stepmother. At most, she cares more about her own biological daughter, Ling Qinxue. This care is reflected in the fact that she has strict requirements for Ling Qinxue's studies and never relaxes.

But when it comes to Bian Yuhan, it is difficult for her to strictly discipline her.

One reason was that when she married Mr. Bian, their two children were already in elementary school and were no longer particularly young girls. If she were to control them too much, the little girls would complain to Mr. Bian, saying that she was "mean."

Mother Ling didn't want to cause trouble for herself. The little girl didn't want her to take care of her and was always finding fault with her. If she had any problems, she would tell Father Bian and let Father Bian take care of it himself.

This guy, Bian Dad...

He doesn't have any major problems, doesn't smoke or drink, goes to work honestly, and goes home after get off work. He can be said to be a "good man" in the eyes of most people.

Such a "good man" does not really like his stepdaughter. It is just that she has good grades and wins awards, which makes him proud. He tells everyone about it and praises her.

As for his own...

Father Bian must have been dissatisfied at first, thinking that if Ling Qinxue could do it, why couldn't his daughter do it? He didn't ask Bian Yuhan to study and dance like Ling Qinxue, so could she do one?

No?

It must be that Bian Yuhan didn't study hard and was lazy.

The stepmother is indeed a stepmother. She only cares about her own daughter and not his daughter.

In his heart, Father Bian was somewhat dissatisfied with Mother Ling, thinking that she only cared about her daughter and not his daughter.

Ling's mother: "..."

You go to work, and I go to work too. When I come back I have to do the laundry, cook, clean, and take care of the whole family.

My daughter listens to me whenever I say something, but your daughter said I was mean to her after I talked for a long time and she ran to you to complain. You were also unhappy and suspected that I was secretly "bullying" your daughter.

what can I do?

Of course I let go and don't care.

As a result, I have let go now, and your daughter's academic performance is not good. You don't pay attention to it and take good care of her, but instead blame me for not helping you to do it well?

However, the marriage had already taken place and there were no major conflicts between the two, so they just put up with their lives and continued to live.

Until later, the plot of "Only Love" began.

……

Liang Shishi, who has little experience, said: "Aunt Xu, can someone like Father Bian be called a 'good man'? Isn't everyone's standard for a good man too simple?"

"Is it simple? If he can make money to support the family and doesn't indulge in drinking, gambling and whoring, how can he not be a good man? If you add this standard, many men can't do it." Ruan Yaoyao said that even her husband can't do it just because of the "lust" standard.

If it weren't for the money that the man could make, she would definitely not have endured for so many years.

Liang Shishi was shocked.

Since a man like Dad Bian is already a "good man", why does he still live like that?

Is getting married really that scary?

"You don't know where the problem lies, right?" Ruan Yaoyao saw the confusion of the two young girls and said, "Actually, the problem really lies here."

She asked Liang Shishi and Ruan Zhihe, is it true that from ancient times to the present, people have only one requirement for men - to be able to support the family?

As long as a man can support his family, does not indulge in drinking, gambling, whoring and returning home on time, can he be called a good man?

So, what do they require from a good woman?

She should be able to bear children, respect her parents (these parents refer to the man's parents, not the woman's biological parents), take care of all the housework, and allow the man to make money outside without worry. If the man does not earn enough to support the family, the woman should stand up and work with the man to earn money to support the family.

So what does this “office work” include?

In addition to housework such as washing clothes, cooking, and cleaning, there is also the outsourced "filial piety" and the baby who is under the mother's care after birth - which are also the things that require the most worry, including but not limited to eating, drinking, defecating, urinating, daily education, academic tutoring, etc.

"See? When a woman gets married, she not only has to give birth to a child and help the man take care of his parents, but she also has to give birth to a child. After the child is born, his eating, drinking, defecating, and daily education are all yours. If he teaches well, it's the credit of him as a father. If he doesn't teach well, it's the mother's fault for not being able to teach a child well..."

"Women have to juggle many roles, but they are supported by men. Not only do they have no achievements, but if they don't do any job well, they are not good women."

"A woman must be a superwoman, able to handle the living room, the kitchen, and beat up thieves. She must be filial to her parents, educate her children, and serve her husband well, reflecting her emotional value."

……

Ruan Yaoyao said that the Bian family is very typical. Father Bian is only responsible for making money, and everything else is the responsibility of Mother Ling. If she is the biological mother, it's okay. No matter how bad she does, she is still the biological mother, and you can't blame her.

But just because she was worried about being a "stepmother" and didn't do a good job of "educating" Bian Yuhan, then everything she did before was 0. It seems that there is an answer to why Bian Yuhan is not as good as Ling Qinxue - because she is a stepmother and she is partial.

"But she is a stepmother. Isn't it normal for her to be partial? The biological father doesn't care about his own daughter and just wants to be a hands-off boss who reaps the fruits. Why should he expect others to pay attention to everything and educate his daughter to be like Ling Qinxue?" Ruan Yaoyao said sarcastically, "Even if Ling's mother wants to, Bian Yuhan has to give her a chance. Even if it's a dragon, it has nine sons, and each son is different. What's more, these parents are not sisters from the same family."

Ruan Zhihe immediately thought of herself and her sisters. It was hard to explain. They were born of the same parents, but they were different. What could she do?

Even if her parents didn't favor boys over girls, there was nothing they could do about it.

Liang Shishi: “…”

My brother and I are different!

It can't be that just because he is a man and I am a woman, we are different, right?

That’s definitely not the case. Both she and her brother were good at studying, but her brother was smarter and later entered the Academy of Sciences. She took after her father, with a super strong physique, so she joined the army.

But if you want to know whether her father is a good man or her mother is a good woman...

Sorry, her parents are very busy at work, and they are usually not around. It can be said that Liang Shishi actually grew up with her grandparents, and only saw her parents occasionally.

So, they may be "excellent", but strictly speaking, they are not "good parents".

Liang Shishi's eyes fell on Ruan Yaoyao involuntarily, thinking that in a sense, Aunt Xu was more qualified than her parents because she had never been "absent" during the growth of her children.

Ru Anzhi was an "accident". Xu Chengyan's occasional temper showed that he was well raised by Aunt Xu. He had a temper because he had lived in such good conditions since he was a child. But he was not incapable of hardship, otherwise he would not have started a business.

He must have the ability, otherwise he wouldn't have started his own company.

The three views are definitely correct. It seems that none of the children raised by Aunt Xu have incorrect views.

Sometimes, he is a little childish and would compete with his brothers and sisters for favor. He is in his twenties and is the CEO of a company. He is so majestic outside, but when he comes home, he will be "jealous" with his brothers and sisters?

With this setting, who wouldn’t sigh at their good family atmosphere?

If it weren't for that accident, Ru Anzhi would probably be like this.

However, Liang Shishi does not think that the current Ru Anzhi is bad. He grew up under the care of Ru's father and mother, and he is also a good person with a very positive outlook. Compared with Xu Chengyan, he seems more mature and resolute, and he does not have such a strong sense of pampering and temper.