I am a freeloader in the anime world
Chapter 180 The first commission (1)
Of course, for high school students in the Land of Sakura, the solution to this dilemma is not complicated. The key lies in individual self-adjustment and adaptation.
By trying to integrate into the environment, they can avoid being isolated and excluded, and thus expand their interpersonal relationships and social circles.
Although seemingly invisible, atmosphere is a powerful force that reflects the mood and attitude of a group like a mirror.
In such an environment, individuals are often expected to conform to the majority, as if only in this way can they gain recognition and acceptance.
When people around you are sad, you should also learn to feel the heaviness; when they are filled with joy, you should also try to share the joy. Although this behavior of following the crowd seems simple, it often ignores the unique emotions and thoughts of individuals.
In the national high school of the Land of Sakura, as long as you can deeply understand and adapt to the surrounding atmosphere, you will naturally meet the right girlfriend.
Many things that seem simple actually contain unfathomable complexity.
Chameleons have a unique ability to skillfully adjust their color to blend perfectly with their surroundings. This is the golden rule for their survival, which is simple and efficient.
Therefore, chameleons only need to cleverly adjust their own colors to cleverly escape the pursuit of their natural enemies.
However, some chameleons always make mistakes when adapting to the environment, such as mistakenly turning brown when the trees are obviously white. Such mistakes make them exposed and eventually become food for their natural enemies.
In the delicate arena of interpersonal communication, insight into the atmosphere is like a key that can unlock the door to harmonious coexistence.
Without this keen perception, a person may inadvertently step into taboo territory and unconsciously break the tacit understanding among everyone.
It is like in a heated discussion about a student's brilliant achievements, if someone suddenly interrupts with a private matter about the student's family tragedy, such an abrupt act will often make the atmosphere suddenly solemn, as if an invisible force is isolating him from the group.
Such behavior may cause individuals to feel excluded and misunderstood on a social level.
In such a situation, a person may feel like he or she is in the middle of a storm, unable to find shelter.
The reason why most people are annoyed by the atmosphere is often because of some unique personal reasons of their own.
The reasons may be that their behaviors, verbal expressions, attitudes and ideas are very different or conflicting from those of the people around them, making it difficult for them to integrate into the collective atmosphere.
It may also be that they lack social skills and are unable to establish good interactive relationships with people around them, making them seem out of place in social situations.
After the lunch break, Mujimakawa, a boy weighing more than 300 kilograms, sat in front of Su Yang and Yukinoshita Yukino. His body almost filled the entire seat, and the largest school uniform tightly wrapped him, making him look a little uncomfortable.
In such a situation, Su Yang and Xue No almost immediately realized why the other party became marginalized figures in the group.
In this world where appearance is everything, Kijima's body shape has become a symbol of his incompatibility with his surroundings, and this difference is the root cause of his rejection by the invisible atmosphere and the main reason for his bullying.
Humans are born xenophobic, and this instinct is ubiquitous in our daily lives.
Humans tend to be more accepting of people or things that are similar to humans, while they may be suspicious, rejecting, or even hostile to those that are different from humans.
This exclusivity is not only reflected in our attitude towards people and things, but also in our aesthetic concepts.
Appearance plays an important role in human society.
Humans tend to like people or things that are beautiful in appearance, but we may unconsciously reject those who do not meet our aesthetic standards.
This rejection mentality is not out of malice, but a natural self-protection mechanism of human beings.
When humans are faced with something unfamiliar, our natural reaction is to remain alert and avoid potential risks.
However, this appearance-based exclusion also has some negative consequences.
It may cause humans to ignore people or things that may not be outstanding in appearance but have excellent inner qualities, thus missing some valuable opportunities.
In addition, it may also exacerbate discrimination and unfairness in society, causing those who do not meet mainstream beauty standards to be excluded and discriminated against.
In short, humans are born with the instinct to be exclusive and to value appearance.
Although most people know that it is not worth focusing only on a person's appearance, in real life, there are very few people who can truly put aside appearance and pay attention to inner qualities.
Although it is generally believed that it is unwise to focus only on appearance, in real life, many people still find it difficult to get rid of their attention and prejudice on the appearance of others.
This phenomenon also reflects, to a certain extent, the innate visual instinct of human beings, that is, people are more easily attracted by appearance rather than delving into the inner qualities of others.
However, focusing solely on appearance often leads to neglecting more important things.
Appearance is only an external feature of a person, it cannot determine a person's true value and inner beauty.
A person's character, wisdom, morality and other aspects are the factors that truly determine his or her value.
However, although people know it, very few people can actually do it.
After all, for strangers, especially in national high schools, in actual communication among students, appearance is the cornerstone of closeness between the two parties. This is why people with good looks always have groups of people around them.
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