Excellent little farmer

The blind date is scheduled for Saturday afternoon, but I still don’t know the other person’s situation, which makes me a little annoyed. Fortunately, I have a perfunctory attitude, but I can’t let Huang Wenhan see that I am perfunctory with him. , you have to dress up carefully, and then pretend to be human and dog-like, and take it seriously.

Take Huang Wenhan's words as an example, you have to be energetic, show off the charm and momentum of a mature man, and shock the other person. This actually made me a little confused. It didn't look like a blind date. It's more like a demonstration. Could it be that the other person is really a person with special hobbies, like a queen, who needs to be noticed to be able to make friends with her?

Thinking of this, a chill ran down my back. If this was the case, I would have to mess up this blind date anyway. If I really got on the pirate ship, it might be difficult to get off. At this time, I could only I want to see Huang Wenhan earlier and ask him in person.

I fiddled with the photo in my hand in confusion. The style of the photo was very simple. It was a clean and simple photo. I could only roughly see the outline of the face. It was probably not a recent photo. How could I see the background? They all have a bit of a foreign flavor.

"Uh!...Brother Huang, what is this?" I raised the photo in my hand and asked in confusion.

"Your blind date."

Huang Wenhan seems to be a few years younger than he was in Yuzhou. I don't know if he has cultivated himself during his time in the capital, or if he is working too easily. I can see that he is full of leisure and comfort in his bones. ,Um! There is also a trace of passion and vitality.

"My blind date? Brother Huang, is this... too hasty? Just give me a blurry photo and ask me to go on a blind date with this woman, and I know nothing about this woman. Huang Brother, even if it’s an arranged marriage, it’s not as arbitrary as you are, right?”

I screamed strangely and yelled: "Brother Huang, if you are really entrusted by someone, you must find a scapegoat to shoulder the responsibility. I will grit my teeth and shoulder it for you. However, if you are just because of your colleagues, , colleagues, if you want to help me, then I have to tell you that it is really not necessary, and it is impossible for me to accept such a marriage."

"You want to know the situation? She currently works in the Africa Department of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs. She is twenty-five years old this year. She worked in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs after graduating from the National People's Congress at the age of 21. A year later, she went to Princeton University's Wilson School of International and Public Affairs for further study. Now she is working in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs Work in the Africa Department." Huang Wenhan frowned slightly, considered his words before speaking slowly.

No one likes this arrangement, and I'm afraid it's the same over there. If it weren't for the pressure from Wang's family, I'm afraid the other party wouldn't reluctantly agree to meet.

"Oh! Or is it Ivy's return turtle?"

I smiled slightly and said: "With such excellent conditions, why do you have to choose a country bumpkin like me to go on a blind date? Brother Huang, isn't this a bit too good of a match?"

I know what Princeton University is, and the Wilson School of International and Public Affairs is a cradle for cultivating senior diplomatic talents. China is gradually integrating into the international community and learning the principles of international relations. It is inevitable that it must learn to understand and adapt to a powerful country like the United States. basic concepts.

A young girl who is twenty-one or twelve years old can be selected to go to the Wilson School of International and Public Affairs for further training. Even a fool can imagine that this girl must have an unusual background. But why she chose to engage in diplomacy, I am puzzled. Feeling a little curious.

Huang Wenhan sighed. He had seen that girl before. In a word, she was also a maverick. If she met an unruly character like me, would it be like Mars hitting the earth?

"Qingquan, you are not young, why are you still so confused? A stable family will help your career development..."

Huang Wenhan was about to say more, but I waved my hand and interrupted: "Brother Huang, tell the truth, do you think this girl, uh... is she suitable for me? Or is it just helpful for my career development?"

Huang Wenhan choked and looked at me provocatively.

The person sitting across from me, in his mind, is actually a complex character with multiple positions. In some aspects, I am like an object for discussion and communication. In some aspects, I am like an elder brother who needs to remind the other person at any time. Sometimes they seem to play the role of an elder.

"Qingquan, I don't want to say anything more. I can only say that this girl is quite outstanding. I think her experience, even if it cannot represent everything, can at least explain some problems. Although marriage is about fate, it is fate. What is it? Maybe an accidental encounter is fate, but when sparks collide in the relationship, doesn't it count as fate?" Huang Wenhan struggled to find the right words in his mind. At his age, he still has to deal with it as if it were his first time. Qinghe generally talks about the feelings of love and marriage, which even he himself finds a bit funny.

I looked away from the window with an expressionless face. After thinking deeply, I said with a grimace: "Brother Huang, do you think it makes sense to have a boyfriend like this? In other words, does she need this, or does her family need this? A blind date, or do you think I really need such an opportunity and fate?"

Huang Wenhan was speechless again. My words were very sharp. Although he did not reject himself directly, the opposition and resistance in his words were clearly revealed. He must walk his own path and rely on external forces, especially this kind of For sensitive men, it seems that they are a little shy about marriage relationships to achieve certain goals, which is a bit unacceptable to me.

Huang Wenhan doesn't think so. Marriage is just a formality. For those who want to make some achievements in their career, the importance of marriage itself seems a bit insignificant, especially in Huang Wenhan's mind. He is not a traditional so-called loyal character, but he cannot say these words. Only with the passage of time and the growth of experience will he gradually appreciate the true meaning of it.

"Qingquan, I don't think there's anything wrong with meeting at least once, right? Whether by fate or not, young people can chat and exchange ideas together. I don't think there's any difficulty in this, right?"

Huang Wenhan took a step back. In fact, he didn't have much confidence in this blind date. If he hadn't mentioned me by chance, and the other person's eldest relative happened to be a colleague with whom we got along very well, and was very interested in this matter, he wouldn't have. Recruiting me so eagerly for emergencies is really a sign of consent to the other party, and since the other party has repeatedly asked me about it, I guess the other party is also worried about the marriage of this woman in his own family.

I immediately laughed, nodded, and said, "No problem, as long as Brother Huang doesn't have too high hopes, just treat me as a teacher."

Huang Wenhan sighed. The other party went on a blind date with this mentality. How could they build a good impression?

Think about it, the living environment and background of the two people are completely different, and the working environment and scope of their current work are also very different. How can they have anything in common? Moreover, in what era are we now, are we still using this method to arrange marriages for young people? Thinking about it, it seems ridiculous, so we should treat it as a one-time task.

"Qingquan, you have become the secretary of the county party committee, and you should be more careful in your words and actions. When you take the position of secretary of the county party committee, you will truly have a place of your own on the political map of the land of China. The secretary of the county party committee, the official position can be said to be big or small. In ancient times, he was called the order of extermination. Although this sentence sounds a bit exaggerated now, it is enough to prove the power held by the parents of a place. "

Huang Wenhan stretched his body a little and solved the troublesome matter. He felt more relaxed and asked softly: "How do you feel after being the county party secretary for this month?"

"Yeah! From a planner and operator of specific affairs, I gradually transformed into a direction leader." After thinking about it, I summarized it in one sentence.

"Hmm! Almost, it seems that I finally understand the difference between the work of the county party committee secretary and the county magistrate. The main leaders of the party and government sound like the main leaders, but there is a clear difference between what the secretary is responsible for and what the county magistrate does.

However, the relationship between the two cannot be separated. How to handle this relationship well is also a work art that a county party committee secretary needs to learn. You must remember four words: control and control. This is the main responsibility of the county party secretary. If you can control the situation with ease, control the situation, and run in the direction you set, you, the county party secretary, will be successful, but how to do it? At this point, organizing personnel guarantees, or to put it more simply, making good use of cadres, is the key. "

Huang Wenhan's sentences are truly golden, and every word and sentence made me chew on them for a long time.

"Okay, I won't say any more. You are now in this position. I believe you know how to be cautious in your words and deeds, not to be confused about important matters, and to think more when encountering problems. For you, this is nothing Difficult matter."

When Huang Wenhan saw the thoughtful look on my face, he stopped talking. Many things are difficult to explain clearly in words alone. He has to let him experience it in actual work and slowly ponder and experience it, so that he can truly mature. stand up.

"Brother Huang, do you have any plans to go to Africa next month?" I am also very concerned about Huang Wenhan's role in the trip to Africa.