A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

Some people don’t want a partner or children, thinking that just making money is enough. But as people get older, having too much money may not be a good thing.

Just like the martial arts treasure in martial arts novels, in the hands of a master, it is a treasure, but in the hands of a person with low martial arts skills, it is a sharp weapon that can cause death. Because you have a treasure, many people will stare at you. If the strength cannot match the treasure, not only will the treasure be unable to be defended, but one's life will be in danger.

The same is true for frail but wealthy old people. If there is no inheritance from the next generation, the more money around them, the easier it is to become fat in the eyes of people with bad intentions.

For example, if you are 60 years old and enter a nursing home with funds, if you pay the full fee at one time, 200 million, and stay there until your death, will the nursing home hope that the old person will live a long life or a short life?

If you pay it month by month and have no children, who will have the remaining money?

Nursing homes, like kindergartens, are in the business of guardians. Elderly people without children and young children without parents are treated the same.

More importantly, some nursing homes do not accept elderly people without guardians.

Some people say that the inheritance can be given to other children in the family to help take care of it. To be honest, this requires the children to have energy and willingness. And not only are you older, but the parents of the child you entrust are also older. If you and his parents get sick at the same time, who do you think the child will take care of first?

If you tell him that after you leave, the inheritance will be his, do you think he expects you to leave early or late?

Moreover, how much inheritance can make other children willingly take care of you? Some people also think that it is not enough to interact with children more when they are young.

But most people who don’t want children do it to make life easier. They don’t want to be burdened by children, so how can they be willing to pay in a down-to-earth manner. The most you can do is bring your child over to play with him for a while when you are happy, and then send him back when you are impatient. It is difficult to build a truly deep relationship.

Moreover, if you don't want children, for marriage, both parties lack common interests, and the relationship will be relatively fragile.

Children mean hope, love, and the meaning of life's struggle. When raising children, you can also experience a different lifestyle, and your life experience will be more complete.

Whether it is utilitarian or not depends entirely on the individual. There are also unqualified parents.

Of course, everyone has their own ambitions, and things in the world are unpredictable. Having children and old age will not necessarily guarantee you, but if you feel that even your own biological blood is useless and cannot be trusted, let alone put your hope in strangers who have nothing to do with you.

Why do caregivers who are strangers wholeheartedly treat elderly people who are slow and think they are in pain? Being a caregiver is just a job, just to make money. There is no filial son at the bedside of a long-term illness, let alone others.

Some people think that I deserved to suffer a few years of punishment when I was old because I enjoyed it when I was young. Then I suggest you visit nursing homes and hospitals. If you are sure you can accept it, then you can be a DINK without any burden. .

There are many kinds of love in the world. The love of friends is rare and easy to scatter. The love of spouse is conditional and easy to care about. Only the love between children and parents is unconditional and long-lasting. The love of blood and family brings to people. , more of a sense of security.

Raising children is not only to be loved when they are old, but more importantly, to love them wholeheartedly and unconditionally when they are young.

After all, being able to give love and be loved is the ideal state of life.

The lives of most people are dull and boring. They have no big things to do, no noble ambitions to be obsessed with for life, and they can't make much money. Moreover, as they grow older, their material desires will fade away. After reaching a certain age, you will have the feeling that "living is meaningless".

At this time, if you have a child, you can transfer the things you are no longer interested in to him, such as giving him the food you are tired of eating, taking him to see the scenery you are tired of seeing, and playing the games you are tired of playing. , provide him with some useful guidance on his life when you feel that "living is boring", and see the surprise and joy on his face when he sees new things, you will also become happy, which originally felt too boring. Life also took on new color, as if I had a new life.

Li Yuan seems to be in such a state now. One second she was talking to Zhang Lan about worrying about her daughter's future life, and the next second she was already pulling Li Xinning to talk about her childhood.

She talked about how she was domineering in school when she was a child, and told Li Xinning that if she felt unhappy here in Kyoto, mother and daughter could go back to the shopping mall.

Being isolated here in Kyoto, my mother has few options. When we get to the shopping mall, if anyone dares to do this, my mother will go with you to beat them up.

Li Yuan suddenly became lively, as if she had suddenly figured out something. When I got on the high-speed train, I sat on the seat and hugged Li Xinning, and kept sharing interesting things about my youth with my children.

Even later, Li Xinning, who was originally a little melancholy, turned into a face full of helplessness. She broke away from Li Yuan's arms and sat on the other side of the seat. She asked Li Yuan to help her flatten the seat and put on a blindfold, signaling her about to rest.

After Li Xinning put on earplugs and eye mask and started to rest, Li Yuan breathed a sigh of relief. After coming back to his senses, Zhang Lan chuckled and said: "In the past, I really didn't understand why my mother asked me to keep the child and fight with my ex-husband's people for custody of the child. Now I feel, Sometimes the old man’s ideas make sense, even if there are all kinds of worries every day.”

After hearing this, Zhang Lan smiled, pulled out the dining board from the armrest, took the free snacks, chose one that suited his heart, tore it open and said to Li Yuan with a smile: "Children are from God. The most beautiful and best gift for every family.”

In addition to the obvious benefits of going with the flow on key life events, you don't need to be subject to additional pressure from external public opinion. There is also a hidden benefit, which is to avoid the torture of confronting certain human weaknesses.

Nine times out of ten things go wrong, and life is very difficult. No matter what choice they make, most people will encounter setbacks, difficulties and hardships.

People who go against the trend in key events in life, if they don’t have a clear eye, can easily make mistakes and fall into huge self-doubt. If I hadn’t chosen this way, wouldn’t I have suffered all this?

Once you start thinking this way, the most vicious snake among negative emotions, regret, will begin to torment you.

Bodhisattvas fear causes, and sentient beings fear consequences. Being able to take responsibility for every choice you make, face any consequences calmly, and embrace your future life bravely and positively are inherently valuable qualities.

It is rare because it is "impossible". It is safe to follow the herd, even if you blindly follow this false sense of security, it is also a sense of security.