A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

The one who first made the figurines has no descendants. Do things first, and don't regret that someone will pick up the blame in the future.

As for Zhang Lan's classmate, apart from resenting his father and lying down, he has never thought about any change in these years. Occasionally when I cheer up and want to get married, I think about the bride price during the blind date and the rapidly rising housing prices in recent years, and in the end I just complain.

It stands to reason that after a person reaches a certain age, it is never too late to do anything as long as he wakes up.

But in fact, there are some things that when you get older, no matter how hard you try, the height ceiling gradually decreases.

Take part-time work as an example. Unless it is an iron rice bowl, the meaning of part-time work for ordinary workers gradually decreases as they grow older.

When you are in your twenties, you can say that working part-time is for growth, the salary can be less, and the important thing is to learn a skill.

When you are in your thirties, you can say that you work for your ideals, and you don’t have to worry about the salary, but you have to do the work you like.

When you are forty years old, when you talk about working at this time, it is just to settle down and earn money to support your family.

You are old and young, and you can no longer afford to eat pie after pie. Of course, if you were the kind of person who followed the company's listing to gain financial freedom before this, then naturally you don't have to think about anything.

When all your time is filled with work, you start preparing for today's work from the moment you go out in the morning. After a busy day's work, you are often exhausted. What exactly have you been busy with throughout the day?

Working overtime and staying up late 996 hours, the only way to relieve stress is to eat and play games. From work to get off work, apart from mechanically dealing with some tasks that had to be arranged, I basically didn't think about it.

Several years have passed, but the same day has been repeated a thousand times. All the time that should have been spent growing, harvesting, or enjoying leisure and happiness was spent in exchange for that meager income, but this was the only stable source of income.

How carefree you were when you were young, but when it’s time to take on responsibilities, you’ll feel embarrassed when there are seniors above and small burdens on juniors.

The essence of part-time work is to de-qualify, because more than 90% of the positions in the company actually only require an obedient tool person. Some people say that my boss not only gives me PUA every day, but also makes me have the ability to solve problems.

But in fact, except for a few rare talents, all the words your boss says to you, whether encouraging or strict, and all the demands he makes on you, whether reasonable or nonsense, are just to control you and make you You just finish what you are supposed to do, and there are no expectations beyond expectations. You don't treat the company as your home, and your boss doesn't really treat you as a family member.

The stability of part-time employment and the future of income. The changes that will come depend on the industry, the market, and the boss and leadership of the company, but it hardly depends on you.

This is the saddest, but also the most realistic. There was once a highway toll collector who cried loudly when he was fired. I have been collecting tolls for more than 20 years, and I know nothing except toll collection.

Working part-time is like a screw in an organization, which will make you dependent and lose your ability to face and solve problems independently. As long as you are still working, you have the opportunity to shirk your responsibilities, or you can find other people to shoulder the responsibility. As long as it is not a huge fault, the company will not give you fatal punishment, because your boss is just a senior part-time worker. You're just a human being. If you don't have personal vendettas, there's no need to mess with you. And the so-called most deadly punishment is just to fire you.

So the workers’ favorite saying was, Damn it, I’ll quit working in the worst case. A viable entrepreneur must rely on himself, and he can only rely on himself. To put it exaggeratedly, sometimes even a single failure results in devastation, or even catastrophe.

At first, Zhang Lan just guessed that the relationship between this classmate and his father might be different. Later, after finding out through magic that the two people were not related by blood, Zhang Lan suddenly realized the reason and didn't say anything else to the others. .

Until later, Zhang Lan heard that this classmate and his father had a quarrel for some reason. He heard that it was because they were not talking to each other. His father said that he had no future. He said that other fathers knew how to buy houses and cars for their sons. , you didn’t buy me anything, and you even killed my mother. If my mother had been here, I wouldn’t have lived such a miserable life.

The two father and son had a big fight, and his father almost got involved. Then he ran away from home and stayed at a friend's house for more than half a month. His father called him, but he hung up. His father called the friend and told him that he had something very important to talk to his son and asked him to go home. After the conversation, he could do whatever he wanted.

After the father and son had a heart-to-heart talk after returning home, Zhang Lan's classmate disappeared from the village. It was said that he was working hard outside to earn money. People in the village who were close to him wondered why he had such a big change, but they didn't hear him tell him the reason.

It wasn't until the Chinese New Year at the end of last year, when he returned home and some friends sat together to drink. After drinking too much, the relationship between him and his father was brought up, and he couldn't help but say it out.

It turns out that his mother committed suicide not because his father was outside, but because his mother was discovered by his father outside. And the most important thing is that he was not his father's son at all, but his mother and that concubine. of.

When his father discovered this incident, the atmosphere in the countryside was still relatively conservative at that time. His mother felt that she could not see anyone, so she committed suicide.

After the incident happened, his father didn't tell anyone about it. Even when his parents came and beat him up, he never said anything.

He kept this matter in his stomach until Zhang Lan's classmate said something that touched his father's heart when they were arguing that day, and then he told him the inside story.

After his father told him the inside story, he said that the situation at home was like this. Over the years, this matter had been pressing in his heart. He had wanted to make it clear long ago, but he had been unable to make a decision.

After the quarrel that day, his father thought about it and felt that there was no need to keep the two of them in an atmosphere full of hatred. After so many years, he felt tired of keeping this secret. More importantly, he was Parkinson's disease and some Alzheimer's disease were detected in the hospital, and he was worried that he would no longer be able to remember.

After that, Zhang Lan's classmate went to work hard outside. The reason was that after learning the news, he suddenly realized that he was under such heavy pressure.

When his father becomes seriously ill in the future, he will still have to bear the burden of the family. Later, when Zhang Lan's classmate came to see Zhang Lan, he asked Zhang Lan if he could take a look at his father. Zhang Lan told him to come back to him after the symptoms became obvious.