A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

Of course his wife was not willing. The couple had worked hard for so many years and finally bought a house in a big city to settle down. Their children had started going to school. How could they give up so easily.

But after repeated thinking, Zhang Jiaqiang has figured out that if it's mud, don't push hard against the wall. If you push hard, the wall will also find it very troublesome.

Ordinary people may not achieve great achievements no matter how hard they work. If a child is smart, he or she will not hire a tutor from the first grade of elementary school and attend various interest classes. Until now, there is nothing particularly outstanding.

What Zhang Jiaqiang complained about in his words was that now he has completely looked away. There is wine now and there will be wine now, and happiness is temporary.

It is his ability to get into a good school and find a good job in the future. Otherwise, it would not be a big deal to live an ordinary life.

It’s not a big problem to be playful and noisy. It’s normal for children to be playful. As for being playful and causing problems in the future, an ordinary person can miss any big things. After relaxing his mentality, everything will feel peaceful.

As for his wife, whether she agrees or not, Zhang Jiaqiang is ready to come back, and the worst possible outcome is a divorce.

When Zhang Jiaqiang threatened to divorce, Zhang Lan couldn't help it. This was too extreme. Moreover, his father died of a sudden illness in his hometown. What does this have to do with his wife?

Don't say that because he and his wife settled in Jinling, Zhang Jiaqiang's father worked hard for his children all his life and finally died alone.

As long as you are really determined, even if you are not financially well-off for a while in Jinling, you can always get your parents to have physical examinations every year. The couple's income of nearly 20,000 yuan a month is extremely difficult. .

It is understandable that consumption and expenses are high. I have lived in a big city, and with the addition of raising children and paying off mortgages, daily consumption is a bit difficult.

But what does this kind of thing have to do with his wife? Just like Zhang Jiaqiang now threatens to live in his hometown in the future, if a person really makes up his mind, nothing else can stop him.

He kept saying that he would get divorced if his wife disagreed, just because he felt that his wife's opinions were inconsistent with his on this matter, and he planned to use this method to convince himself or others.

Life is lived by oneself. Zhang Jiaqiang's father died unexpectedly at home alone. After the incident happened, others felt a little sorry.

Zhang Lan could also guess what some people were saying. He had raised such a promising son, but in the end he was gone and he couldn't even see his son for the last time.

I originally planned to persuade him, but then I thought it was not necessary.

You live your own life. If you are not a close relative, don't interfere with this kind of issue about future life choices. Even if you are a close relative, don't force the other person to follow your favorite path.

Let go of the need to help others and respect the fate of others. Do not participate in other people's cause and effect, and do not disturb other people's Qi.

The doctor doesn't knock on the door, the teacher doesn't follow the way, the Dharma is not taught lightly, and the doctor doesn't ask or tell. Where there are so many people who need to be saved, all that can be saved is through one’s own efforts.

In the adult world, there is no screening, no education, only choice, no change. In life, a person's thoughts are summarized from his experiences along the way. Everyone has different experiences and creates different opinions.

The world is a huge and complex place, and what everyone sees is just the tip of the iceberg.

Don't urge others to do good things if you haven't experienced others' suffering. If you have experienced my suffering, you may not be kind to me. The difference between people actually lies in their different experiences from childhood to adulthood. If you don't participate in other people's world, you will never be able to understand other people's feelings.

If you participate in his world, you may not be as kind as him. Life is actually like a ship sailing on the sea. Everyone has his own ferry and his own destination to reach.

In a few words, let the other person follow the path they want. The so-called doing it for your own good is actually completely unnecessary. The so-called friends are destined to meet each other along the way. The meaning of meeting is to illuminate each other, otherwise, drinking tea alone can be very romantic, and blowing the wind alone can also be sober.

Everyone you meet in life is not there to change, but to make each other successful. Allow others to be others and allow yourself to be yourself instead of imposing and consuming each other.

Zhang Lan doesn't want to say too much. Zhang Jiaqiang is free to do whatever he wants. Even if their relationship as a couple was very good, nothing is permanent, and it doesn't matter how they got separated.

They all say they are trying to persuade you to make peace but not to break up, but no matter how sober the person standing next to you is, no matter how kind your words are to him. But for those who are deeply trapped in this kind of advice from sober people, they will instinctively defend and resist.

Because most people are unwilling to admit their mistakes and are trying to prove that their efforts are right and their dignity cannot be violated.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to get divorced. You are already at a fork in your life, and no one can see how good or bad your life will be in the future.

Zhang Lan kept silent, but Xiao Bin next to him was trying to persuade Zhang Jiaqiang to think carefully and not to make decisions blindly.

Now is different from the past. It is not easy to meet a daughter-in-law who shares the joys and sorrows with you and works hard with you. For example, he himself has been married for so many years and his children are in junior high school. But later on, if he changes his mind, he will change his mind and he will no longer be with you.

What can you do about this? No matter how hard you try to stay, you will get divorced in the end. His mother still wanted to keep Xiaobin in touch with people all day long when she was fine.

In the eyes of the older generation, even with two children, they are still so old, and they will eventually come back after going round and round.

But Xiaobin doesn't think so. If you change your mind, you've changed your mind. The so-called going around in circles and coming back is nothing more than feeling that after wandering outside for a few times, life after coming back is not as good as before.

As long as life is better than before, it is impossible to look back for such a change of heart and divorce.

Xiaobin felt that he was not a rag picker, and he felt a little confused when he got divorced at the beginning. He wondered if he had really done something wrong. Later, when I thought about it, I realized that some people cannot change.

It's not easy to meet someone you want to be with, and it's not a big mistake. Just because you think about returning to your hometown to live, if the other party objects, you will divorce them. In Xiao Bin's opinion, Zhang Jiaqiang is too immature. After working outside for so many years, does he have such simple thoughts?

"Binzi, you don't understand." In response to Xiaobin's persuasion, Zhang Jiaqiang smacked his lips and shook his head.

Then Zhang Jiaqiang explained that over the years, whenever he returned to his hometown, he felt that he was a person. After working alone outside for so many years, I settled down in a big city. But in the end, I realized that after hanging around for so long, I couldn’t even respect my parents well.

That kind of realization after suddenly waking up makes Zhang Jiaqiang feel extremely regretful every time he thinks about it.

Especially after returning home, I heard someone say that his father was lying on the ground with a mobile phone in his hand, but he could not make a call. He couldn't imagine what it felt like when his father suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, lying alone on the ground waiting to die.