A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

At the beginning, Xu Jianfei asked his mother to come over. At that time, he just felt that he always had no living money on hand and was always tight. He wanted his wife to go out to earn money and have extra pocket money.

So later, when his wife went out and asked about it, she found out that it only cost 3,000 yuan a month and she had to work ten hours. Xu Jianfei thought that he should let his wife take care of the children.

In addition, children need tutoring when going to school. Sometimes the teacher assigns homework and other things, and even after the mother comes over, she still has to tutor the child.

The most important thing is that Xu Jianfei has always been a successful person in his hometown, and his parents are in his hometown because Xu Jianfei has a good reputation. Now he suddenly asked his mother to come over to cook for him and his wife and take care of their children. Although Xu Jianfei thought so, but If you still feel like you can bear it, then bear with it.

Some people's happiness comes from comparison, from contrasting with other people. After Xu Jianfei graduated from college, he has been raising his family alone.

Although his wife knew that Xu Jianfei's income was declining, she had basically not worked in society since she graduated from school, and she was still naive most of the time.

And Xu Jianfei didn't want his wife to be troubled by this. While he is a scheming man, he is also very chauvinistic. As long as he still has some ability, he will not ask his wife and mother to help him with anything.

Xu Jianfei's daughter-in-law was well aware of the decline in family income. She had never been beaten in life, so she and Xu Jianfei proposed that they save money, and then she also went out to find a job to contribute to the family.

Xu Jianfei, who has been working in the workplace as a salesperson, is well aware of his wife's abilities and will not stop her from finding a job. He feels that after hitting a wall a few more times, his wife's thoughts will calm down.

After Xu Jianfei resigned from the factory, the life of the small family changed drastically. No matter how much you save money, the monthly mortgage payment and living expenses are inevitable.

After resigning, Xu Jianfei wanted to find a suitable job, and some necessary entertainment was indispensable. When money keeps going out but not coming in, it will be spent very quickly.

Moreover, because of the replacement of housing in the school district, Xu Jianfei did not have much savings. Later, I began to use credit cards to repair the wall.

When he first left his job, Xu Jianfei wanted to find a new job soon. He didn't take the family's debt seriously. He didn't need to worry about owing some money.

But when the economic situation changes, once you are kicked out of a job with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands, it will not be easy to find a similar level of income.

And there are also reasons for age and education. Sometimes you don't care about your academic qualifications when you are in a high position, but when you are looking for a new job again, your academic qualifications become an insurmountable hurdle.

In fact, even if the salary level is not as good as before, if Xu Jianfei can let go of his mentality after leaving his job, it will be easy to join a new company.

After all, he resigned as a sales manager. In many cases, people in this industry know your level better than people in your company.

It's just that the salary is less, but with similar working environment and content, Xu Jianfei can stabilize his life.

But after Xu Jianfei left his job, he chose to start a business under the persuasion of a client in the industry. He feels that he has been in sales for so many years, and he knows all the upstream and downstream channels in the industry, and he also knows how much profit can be made in the middle.

Although the current environment is not very good, the situation has been bad for several years since he resigned, and he believes that it has already reached a low point.

After that, we teamed up with the upstream and downstream customers we met during our previous work and established a company together as a partnership. For the shares of the new company, Xu Jianfei spent almost all his money. He thought that other partners had products and he had acquaintances in the channels. Not to mention earning more money, supporting his family would definitely not be a problem.

Xu Jianfei was too optimistic. Sometimes, doing it yourself and working for others are two completely different concepts.

Especially when it comes to sales, the most important thing is whether there is a boss above and how much loss you can endure.

And most importantly, as the economic situation changed. The big companies on the market have begun to take the initiative to lower their profile and focus on profits that they did not care about in the past.

In the past, the small company founded by Xu Jianfei and others would have been able to do well. After all, the boat is small and easy to turn around. As long as you are willing to sell goods, it is easy to support a company when everyone in the market has money.

But after the general environment was not good, each dealer focused on selling your goods to run their own business. Originally, there was talk of down payment, but when the big companies later had a hard time, they started to Make money on hot-selling items, and actively distribute unpopular items.

Large companies can accept the following dealers' account terms of three months or half a year, and they also have enough hot-selling products. What about your small company? Can you afford to have tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands of goods withheld for several months?

The most important thing is that even if a place costs 10,000 yuan, a lot of funds will be occupied in large cities across the country.

You won’t know some things if you don’t do them. But after you do them, you will understand that many things are not as easy as imagined.

At this time, the problem of Xu Jianfei's weak financial resources was exposed. Partners can accept losing tens or even millions within a year or two to develop a brand and market, but Xu Jianfei is thinking about how to get his money back and how to make money.

Under heavy pressure, the originally harmonious family began to have conflicts.

Xu Jianfei's daughter-in-law and his mother also quietly had conflicts.

In the eyes of Xu Jianfei's mother, her son is very capable. He used to be a senior executive and is now a big boss. Even after receiving an invitation from her son to help her daughter-in-law look after her grandson, Xu Jianfei's mother felt that she was here to enjoy her son's filial piety and take care of the child at the same time.

Xu Jianfei's wife knew that Xu Jianfei's financial situation was getting worse and worse, and she had begun to use various credit cards to maintain her basic life.

Xu Jianfei's mother didn't think so. Sometimes she even felt that Xu Jianfei's daughter-in-law was deliberately treating her harshly.

I came here to take care of my grandson to enjoy the blessing, but as a result, I don’t have enough food every day. Is it so difficult at home?

When a family has no money, all kinds of conflicts will appear, especially conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When Xu Jianfei's mother later learned about Xu Jianfei's plight, there were even more conflicts in the family.

Xu Jianfei's mother knew how to live a poor life in the countryside, but Xu Jianfei's daughter-in-law felt that even if she was poor, some necessary things and education for her children were still indispensable.

Both women know that the family should save money, but they have different views on how to save money and how to save money.

What followed was the accumulation of quarrels and conflicts day by day.

As time went on, Xu Jianfei's financial situation did not improve, and the conflicts in the family became deeper and deeper.