A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

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The same is true for spiritual practice. Even if you find a guide, he or she will usually just lead you to the threshold. Once you’re inside, how you practice, what path you take, and what results you achieve all depend on yourself.

As for the kind of person who is led into the door and then supported by the master all the way and takes care of all things for him, that is not master and apprentice, that is father and son.

Just like playing a game, when you reach the end of a single-player game, the only thing that accompanies you in the end is loneliness.

After completing the game, you control the protagonist, ride a horse in the game to watch the sunrise and sunset, walk through the vast land, and think of the towns you once conquered, but there is no one around, and all NPCs are just NPCs.

Without the partners, lovers, and even enemies, I no longer mess with them. I may occasionally go on a side quest to experience new plots and characters, but the passion I once had is hard to reappear.

Most of the time, maybe this is life, a game that seems to have a high degree of freedom and infinite possibilities. But the main line is clear, and no matter how many branches there are, they only deepen our understanding of this world.

The main plot of life is simple and crude, which is birth, aging, illness and death. Everything cycles in this order. In this process, other parameters, such as personality, IQ, appearance, health, family background, etc. are all made-up variables.

Many people say that gods are fair. The greatest fairness is that no matter what the parameters are, everyone will experience birth, aging, illness and death, just at different speeds. Emotions do not affect the cycle, it's just that humans trample on each other.

Happiness or misery, intelligence or stupidity, only affect social status, not birth, aging, illness and death. Liveliness is the process of the game, loneliness is the inevitable end of the game.

There are two sets of rules in the game, the Way of Heaven and the Way of Man. The Way of Heaven is the main line, birth, aging, sickness and death, which cannot be changed. The Way of Man is a side line, which can be changed. No matter what, the Way of Heaven will end.

There are many choices for humanity, and there are as many ways to experience as there are people, and the experience is divided into several categories. The classification affects the experience, but the essence does not change much. Being played or playing others depends on the grasp and use of human nature.

Sometimes the side quests are so exciting that people temporarily forget the main quest, but God will always pull people back to the main quest, allowing them to experience birth, aging, sickness and death, and kneel down at the feet of God.

Therefore, when there is no reminder from the heavens, try to experience the game world as much as possible. Life may seem free and complicated, but it is simple in essence. Experience more branches, enrich your understanding of the world, have fun, and leave without regrets.

Do what you want to do, drink what you want to drink, love who you want to love, strive for the life you want, no regrets, no fear. Not regretting the branch you choose is the best result when the main line reaches the end.

Even if you are slapped in the face by reality, it is still an experience of the game. Those who do not regret, when the deadline comes, do not need to linger. Because if you open another account, no one knows whether it is still yourself.

When playing games, the focus is not on winning or losing but on the meaning and value of the experience. We should maintain a playful mentality. The purpose is not to get something, nor to control something, nor to eliminate those unpleasant things. What we really need to do is to play the role at the moment and feel the wonderful and beautiful parts of the game, rather than focusing on the unpleasant parts. When we always see the beautiful things, we can always be surrounded by the feeling of happiness and joy.

Some people may say that they are not good enough and cannot be happy. Yes, we have a lot of reasons to be unhappy, but as long as there is a reason to be happy, we should be happy.

It can also be said that life is a game of finding good and sweet fruits.

Many of us were not born with good cards. The game of life is full of difficulties. There are a lot of bad or sour fruits mixed with a few good and sweet fruits. However, if you are smart enough, you should know how to find the few good and sweet fruits from the pile of bad fruits and eat them, instead of eating the bad fruits with a sad face.

For example, if someone is unfortunately disabled, does he have to be angry with the disability for the rest of his life? If he doesn't solve the disability problem, will he be unable to be happy? Obviously not! There are countless other beauties in life. Feel them, embrace them, and have fun playing games, and you can also have a successful life.

In fact, the game of life is not about us pursuing perfection and ultimate, but about us experiencing the meaning and value of life in the game. What we need is not victory and success in the game, but growth and progress. What we need is to discover our strengths and weaknesses in the game, find our direction and goals. What we need is to learn to face difficulties and setbacks in the game, and learn to cherish everything in front of us.

In addition, there are also bad friends who only care about eating, drinking and having fun every day, colleagues who ask people for help without giving anything in return, and relatives who use emotional blackmail to extort money for gifts.

It cannot bring nourishment to others, but only consumes evil spirits. The essence of a person who has accomplished nothing is that he always feels that his life is worthless, so he can be taken away by all kinds of people with all kinds of excuses.

When others make you a selfless and good person, it becomes natural for you to ask for things. When you want others to pay a price and respect your work results, you become an unforgivable evil person.

Everyone is a product of the environment. The environment shapes a person's values ​​and forces him to adapt to the living environment. The environment, in turn, shapes his cognition.

If you want to change your fate, don't put your hope on changing others. What you need to do is to move to a new place and stay away from bad people and things. Environmental erosion is endless.

No matter how powerful a person's abilities are or how advanced his wisdom is, as long as he does not leave the toxic environment and solve the problem from the root first, no matter how hard he tries, it will be like scratching the itch with a shoe and drinking poison to quench thirst.

The virtue of an adult is to be 100% responsible for his or her own life. There are two kinds of people in this world: those who bring benefits and advantages to others, and those who are pure consumption. The former makes life brighter and brighter, while the latter will only drag people into the abyss.