Siheyuan: Stab at Louzi at the beginning

The meaning should be that you shouldn't be so polite to Xu Damao.

Li's mother said in a joking tone that she would give money to change her name, so Xu Damao didn't feel comfortable continuing to call them uncle and aunt.

This really treats him as a distinguished guest.

"Dad, mom."

Xu Damao shouted sincerely and also used "actor's self-cultivation" to ensure that people would feel comfortable listening to him, without any trace of acting.

Mother Li smiled happily and agreed readily.

This time, Father Li did not snort coldly, which was considered as a reluctant recognition of Xu Damao.

As soon as people entered the house, the food was served on the table and everything was arranged in an orderly manner.

I wonder how much higher this treatment is than that of Lou Xiao'e's family.

This comparison makes the gap even more obvious.

Of course, if you insist that family dinners must be made by hand, that’s fine too.

As soon as Xu Damao sat down, someone filled his glass with wine.

There is no room for refusal.

Good thing he can cheat.

Before eating, you should drink one or three cups depending on the situation.

It seemed as if Father Li was deliberately making things difficult for Xu Damao, and with just a few words he made Xu Damao drink three cups of wine.

At this time, Father Li finally smiled and had another drink with Xu Damao.

This opened up the conversation.

"You kid, I used to think you were not worthy of my Tianjiao, but who made my precious daughter fall in love with you?"

"But you are so ambitious. My daughter follows me and has the ability to judge people. It's a pity that she is a girl. Otherwise, there would be a vast world for her to go to and great things to do."

"I don't know how many times stronger he is than that useless martial artist."

Xu Damao still didn't understand why he was called over today.

I took the initiative to call him over, and he had the same attitude as before.

It’s hard to say.

So Xu Damao decided not to agree with him and to have his own opinion.

Otherwise, if you have any requests, it will be difficult to refuse later.

"It's a new era now. The distinction between men and women is outdated. Women hold up half the sky. Women can do the jobs that men can do, and they can also do the jobs that men cannot do."

"I think if Tianjiao wants to go out to work, I fully support it."

Father Li was somewhat dissatisfied with Xu Damao's statement, but he held back and did not express his opposition explicitly.

It's not that he agrees, but because he just said that it's a pity that Li Tianjiao is not a man. Now opposing Xu Damao's statement is actually opposing what he said just now.

Because Li's family is involved in guns, his cultural level is not high, so it is normal for him to have some old-fashioned ideas.

"Now she is working as the office manager beside you, which is good. It is better for a couple to work together."

"Yes, you are right. Tianjiao's work ability is beyond doubt. Usually, she handles all the work."

Li Tianjiao felt a little embarrassed by Xu Damao's words.

Xu Damao didn't like going to work, so she would go to work even less. She played in the courtyard every day.

At this point the conversation at the dinner table became normal.

It doesn't mean that you shouldn't talk while eating or sleeping, but it depends on the person.

After three rounds of wine and five kinds of dishes, Father Li was a little drunk, but Xu Damao was still the same.

Being able to cheat is different.

Father Li originally wanted to compete with Xu Damao, but now he gave up the idea.

At this time, it is normal for the father-in-law to test his son-in-law with his drinking capacity.

Not only is it popular now, but it will also be passed down.

As mentioned before, drinking too much liquor is bad for your health. Apart from its benefits such as relieving fatigue, liquor has another hidden advantage: a usually taciturn person can become talkative after a few drinks.

This also adds social attributes to the wine.

It should be said that since ancient times, ever since wine came into being, it has had social attributes.

Tea also has social attributes, but not as direct as wine.

Wine is character.

This can also be said to be part of the test.

"I heard before that you don't like to drink and your alcohol tolerance is not good. Today you really surprised me."

"Drinking too much liquor is bad for your health."

"You are wrong. Wine is the essence of grain. The more you drink, the younger you will be. Drinking more is good for your health."

Xu Damao didn't want to debate on this matter. As wine lovers, he couldn't convince them no matter what.

After picking up a glass, I naturally skipped this topic.

"Da Mao, all you need now is registration and a ceremony. Do you have any other ideas?"

Sure enough, it is this matter again.

Xu Damao naturally didn't have any ideas and kept making assurances.

"Tianjiao and I have reached a consensus on this matter. When I return from martial arts training, I will formally register."

"He's going to learn martial arts... He won't be back for a while. What if he's delayed for two or three years due to something? Can you wait for two or three years?"

Before Xu Damao could answer, Li's mother beside him spoke first: "Don't worry, I'm anxious to hold my grandson."

"Now you can go to the street office to register your marriage without holding a wedding ceremony. This way, even if you have a child, it won't affect you."

"It would be nice to have a wedding with children."

Xu Damao:......

Is this an attempt to urge marriage?

Holding a wedding with a child is such a rude thing to say.

This is not a marriage based on pregnancy, this is a marriage based on holding the child.

This is not easy to explain on a large scale. People who don’t know might think it’s a second marriage with a child.

Hey, there’s really no problem with raising a baby after a second marriage.

Xu Damao is already married for the second time, but he hasn’t had a baby yet.

"I have no opinion on this. I'll listen to Tianjiao."

Xu Damao handed the question to Li Tianjiao, but Li Tianjiao subconsciously looked at Xu Damao.

It was obvious that he was asking for his opinion.

This scene was also seen by Li's father and mother.

Where did the quirky and opinionated Li Tianjiao go?

How did I become such a love-brained person?

"I think Tianjiao listened to your opinion. What do you think?"

The topic returned to Xu Damao.

Xu Damao keenly heard the dissatisfaction in her tone, so he immediately assured her: "My opinion is to go to the street office to register tomorrow. I don't care whether the wedding ceremony is held or not."

"Now we advocate frugality. We are not allowed to hold lavish banquets for weddings and funerals. It's good to keep it simple. It's good for us to sit together and have a meal."

There is nothing wrong with complying with the current regulations, right? Xu Damao felt that he was right.

When he and Lou Xiao'e got married, they only set up a few tables and held the wedding in a very low-key manner.

The Lou family was very rich, but they did not dare to be extravagant.

Father Li said firmly: "No."

"You can register first, but the wedding cannot be shabby. You have been in the military for half a lifetime, and there are so many comrades. If you can't invite them to have a drink at the wedding, it's better not to hold the wedding."

Xu Damao:......

Then let Li Xuewu have a grand wedding.

There is absolutely no reason to make a big fuss about marrying off a daughter.

This kind of thing should be decided by the man’s family, right?

He's not a live-in son-in-law.

This is breaking the rules and crossing the line.