Siheyuan: Happy He Yuzhu

There is still a problem next, which is the whereabouts of Liu Ping.

He Yuzhu must have wanted Liu Ping to stay. As soon as He Daqing left, Liu Ping chose to leave. I don't know how to spread the gossip.

If Liu Ping were He Yuzhu's biological mother, this worry would be less.

But it happened not to be the case. After finishing He Daqing's affairs, Dandan discussed with He Yuzhu about taking Liu Ping to Jinling.

Liu Ping sat silently on the edge, as if she had lost her soul. She looked more than ten years older.

He Daqing was very different to her. He was not only Liu Ping's husband, but also the hero who saved her from suffering.

If Liu Ping hadn't been for He Daqing, even if she was alive now, she wouldn't be living well.

After so many years of happy life, the fate of the entire Liu family changed because she married into the He family. Although Liu Shitou is in chaos now, it was Liu Shitou who sought his own death and had nothing to do with the He family.

Now that He Daqing is gone, half of Liu Ping's life has been lost.

Dandan is different now from when he was a child. At that time in the He family, He Yuzhu protected him, so Dandan's character was a bit weak.

But now Dandan is different. He has a bronze complexion and a resolute face, and he looks very reliable at first sight.

Unlike He Aimin, the second oldest child in the He family, he still looks like a scoundrel even after serving in the army for so many years.

As the saying goes, a country is easy to change, but a person's nature is hard to change.

In the team, the second eldest brother is still the biggest thorn in the side, and of course he also has the best personal qualities.

For example, some time ago, I followed the troops in rotation and went to the monkey side. With a platoon under my command, I ran to the rear of someone's house and gave them a hard time.

Then as soon as we got down the mountain, we were transferred back to our original station due to some mistakes.

According to his unit leader, this kid is willing to use his brain and has courage, but he can also get into trouble.

Not to mention the leaders of their army, even He Yuzhu himself looked down on He Aimin's standing and sitting postures.

Unlike Eggy across from him, he looks like an excellent pacesetter at first glance.

He Yuzhu still looks like a wild man with a shaggy beard. He is not good-looking himself, but he ends up with a hairy beard.

He Yuzhu is even more wild now.

As the saying goes, one must observe filial piety for three years, which means that if the rules are followed, He Yuzhu can only wear plain clothes for three years, and his hair and beard cannot be combed.

Of course, this one was considered castrated, otherwise He Yuzhu would have had to build a thatched shed in front of He Daqing's tomb and eat a vegetarian diet for three years.

As mentioned earlier, Chinese rules have always been flexible.

Those who stick to the rules and refuse to change them have something seriously wrong with them, or they may have their own agenda.

For example, if Dandan is on the team, the team should be focused on energy. If Dandan didn't have a haircut or shave for three years, that would be a deliberate push.

But He Yuzhu had to accept part of this rule, because this was an opportunity for the He family to transform.

He Daqing's funeral had just passed, and so many people were staring at the He family.

Logically speaking, He Yuzhu must be cautious in his words and deeds and cannot escape.

In fact, He Yuzhu didn't care. He was not particular about his outer clothing.

At this age, it doesn't matter whether he gets a haircut or shaves his beard. Anyway, he doesn't rely on his face to make a living.

To put it bluntly, keeping filial piety is in the heart but not in the form. He Yuzhu felt that he could do it himself, and he didn't mind doing something formal for outsiders to see.

If it can't be done, He Yuzhu will change it without hesitation.

The second generation of the He family and Liu Ping were both there, and Dandan didn't have much time, so he said directly to He Yuzhu: "Brother, I'm thinking of asking mom to go to the south with us."

He Yuzhu smacked his lips and said, "Logically speaking, it's a good thing to let Mom go over there and relax.

But aren't you going to the south with the army soon? Who will take care of her when her mother passes away?

At least you have your sister-in-law here and your sister to pass the time with. Besides, the living habits of the two sides are also different. Mom may not be able to get used to it. "

In front of others, He Yuzhu still gave Liu Ping face, and always called her mom.

In this regard, He Yuzhu's heart is still very divided.

Dandan hesitated for a while, but then said: "My wife is a civil servant and will not go to the south this time. There are still children at home, and they can stay with mom.

If Mom gets tired of living there or is not used to living there, she can always go back to Sijiu City. "

He Yuzhu paused but said to Liu Ping: "Mom, what do you always say?"

The most troubled person is Liu Ping.

This is really a tangled choice for Liu Ping, who has just lost her husband.

In terms of her nature, although He Yuzhu now calls her mother, she also knows that her biological son only has one egg.

After her husband died, she must have wanted to live with Dandan's family in Jinling.

But the fact is the same as what He Yuzhu said, she has become accustomed to everything in Sijiu City.

She also has family here. Not to mention the younger generations of the He family, she can't let go of the Liujia Village.

There are also so many old sisters having fun on the street.

What's particularly special is that Liu Ping knows what her choice represents.

If she stays here in Sijiucheng, the He family will still be a big family, and He Yuzhu will treat Dandan as a biological brother.

If she chooses to go to the south, the relationship between the brothers will always be somewhat distant.

Maybe they won't be alienated, but Liu Ping doesn't dare to gamble.

Everyone has their own calculations. It doesn't mean that those who have calculations are bad people, but good people don't have calculations.

They all do. The difference is whether this kind of calculation will hurt others as a means to achieve one's own ends.

Just like Liu Ping plotted for Dandan,

She felt that Dandan could not stay in the army for the rest of his life, and there would be a day when he would enter the society.

He Yuzhu may not be able to help Dandan with anything related to military matters.

But if he enters the society in the future, whether he enters the workplace or goes into business, He Yuzhu will always be a person worth clinging to.

After thinking about this, Liu Ping finally made up her mind and said to Dandan: "Old son, if you have a mission, do it. Serving the country is more important.

Mom has lived with your eldest brother for half her life and is used to life here.

It's passed, and I'm really not used to it.

When you come back, ask your elder brother to send me there. If you have the chance, bring Xiang Xiang (Dandan’s son’s name) back to live there. Anyway, we have plenty of houses at home. "

Dandan has probably thought of this matter a long time ago. In fact, this kind of thing is just a matter of procedure. Dandan must say it, and if he doesn't say it, it would be unfilial.

As for the relationship with He Yuzhu, Dandan is not as far along as he thought.

For Dandan at this time, now that he is in his prime, he must be in the army.

When I get older in the future, I will go directly to school and hand over my experience to new fighters.

So the biggest problem of the He family was finally solved.

Back in the backyard, the He family's small home also has problems.

For example, He Aimin doesn’t want to be in the team.

For example, He Yuanyuan has received her graduation certificate and has to decide where to work.

If something happened to He Daqing, He Xiao's marriage would have to be postponed again.

There are also He Jingli, He Jingping, and He Yuanyuan who have all reached the age. They should get married and talk to the right partners.

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Why do people always think about longevity?

It is because most of the human beings do not live for themselves.

There are too many concerns.

Three female children are actually easier to deal with. Most of the time, mourning is a matter of children and grandchildren.

For daughters and granddaughters, it is a little more relaxed.

If it's a big deal, just make it a little simpler so that others can understand.

What's more, He Yuanyuan is still ambitious and wants to create a big fashion empire.

I have no intention of falling in love at all.

But He Xiao's marriage is really a problem.

He Yuzhu is someone who has been there, and knows that young lovers stick together every day, and it is difficult to avoid things like gunshots and misfires.

It was originally planned to drag the game console industry to the same day that America was launched, so that they could get married and get married, which would also be considered a commemorative event.

As a result, something like this happened to He Daqing, which was quite embarrassing.

What if a young couple is careless in their passion and ends up losing their lives. That would be a shame for Liang He.

But it would be embarrassing to say that you should get the certificate first and not hold a banquet.

King D came over to pay his respects some time ago, and even stayed for two more days to discuss the matter with Lou Xiao'e.

According to D Wang He, let the two of them go to Europe to find a place to get a certificate first. In case of an accident in the future, there is an explanation.

It is estimated that King D also discovered the problem of his daughter stealing food.

Lou Xiao'e also agrees with this statement. She wished she could hold her grandson tomorrow, so she didn't stop the young couple when they were together.

But as the successor of her house, He Xiao is also considered the face of the He family, so there are some things that we really need to pay attention to.

When a person reaches a certain position, he has to face the issue.

It does not mean that wealth leads to conscience. It really means that as long as people have money, they will have conscience.

But when people have wealth and power, they must abide by certain social ethics.

Even if you talk about benevolence, justice and morality, but are full of male thieves and female prostitutes, you must do a good job on the surface.

Otherwise, people of the same class will not take you to play. They will treat you as someone else, and then they may deal with you.

So this society is very fragmented.

In later generations, I often see videos that are duplicitous and superficial.

In the TV series, there is also a bowl of clear noodle soup with a few cloves of garlic, but it is a person who dare not spend a penny of red money.

That is equivalent to illustrating the above sentence. When a person reaches a certain position, he must put a smooth skin on himself.

There is also the problem of his second son He Aimin.

He Yuzhu had nothing to say to this naughty kid, and He Yuzhu didn't care whether he was already the father or not, and just greeted him with a belt.

According to He Yuzhu, the He family can succeed and retire, or they can do nothing.

But you can't choose to be a deserter when the country needs you.

Even if it wasn't because of fear, quitting at this time just wouldn't work.

Of course, He Yuzhu beat his son behind Yu Li's back. This thing, if Yu Li knew that the second child was coming home, it would be something she could never wish for.

Last time the second child went to the monkey, he went with his family on his back.

After returning to Jinling, his wife told He Yuzhu about He Aimin going to the monkey.

In this way, Yu Li also flew over and made sure that He Aimin was okay, then she felt relieved.

Of course, plane tickets were He Yuzhu’s idea.

Yu Li is not qualified.