Siheyuan: Happy He Yuzhu

Newlyweds always want to stick together.

Especially the young couple have been in love for four or five years. This strong fire is not ordinary firewood.

So after Miss Yu felt uncomfortable at the beginning, she showed off her courage the next day and fought He Yuzhu to an undefeated victory.

As a result, when they returned home on the third day, the couple was in a panic.

He Yuzhu was okay, at least his waist was a little sore and the place on his back where the cat scratched him hurt a little.

But Yu Li was miserable, walking like a duck. As you can imagine, the fighting was fierce.

But as the saying goes, an ugly daughter-in-law has to meet her parents-in-law, let alone such a big thing as returning to her parents' home.

The return dates vary from place to place, but most of them are odd numbers, such as three, seven or nine.

But even for the number three, the algorithm is still different. For example, He Yuzhu starts from the wedding day, and in some places, the day after the wedding is counted as the first day.

Therefore, it is impossible to say it very accurately that the pronunciation is different in ten miles and the customs are different in hundred miles.

Returning to one's parents' home is also called Guining. As for why, some say it is a homophonic pronunciation, which is said in the Jiaodong area.

The ancestors of the Chinese people always like to use romantic words to describe various life events. And under the evolution, it has become various auspicious meanings.

Return to Ning, return to Ning, and what comes back is peace and harmony.

He was probably also afraid of a lose-lose situation like Yu Li's.

Naturally, Yu Li was injured first, and when Yu Li went out, she saw those inexplicable smiles on her neighbors' faces, so He Yuzhu was also injured.

His waist was bruised and bruised several times.

That's what He Yuzhu deserved, he was walking well. He Yuzhu wanted to brag to his neighbors, and his words naturally meant that the enemy army was too weak to win with force.

Naturally, you have to bring gifts when you return home. Usually there are four gifts. Of course, if you are in good condition, you can also bring more gifts. But they are basically even numbers.

At this time, the Yu family was naturally preparing. As for the homecoming banquet, today is the day when my uncle comes in to change his story and recognize his bride.

Logically speaking, Lao Yu's family should gather friends, entertain relatives, and introduce their son-in-law to everyone today.

This is also the reason why ancient times emphasized that marriage should be well-matched. The interpersonal circle is expanded through banquets.

But the closest relatives on Yu's father's side are in Shanxi, and the relatives on Yu's mother's side are not close either, so naturally they cannot come to attend the homecoming banquet of the eldest daughter of the Yu family.

For this kind of thing, the Yu family just pulls friends and neighbors to make up the numbers, waiting for He Yuzhu and Yu Li to come in with gifts or something.

In fact, it would be too troublesome if we really had to follow the rules.

For example, today it stands to reason that a matchmaker should be present to witness the event.

When the day ends successfully and you thank the matchmaker, the wedding is truly over.

But Aunt Gan had already gone to the south, and neither of the two families took the matchmaker seriously. Of course, there was no need to invite an outsider over, and finally I had to give her a gift.

Like changing his words or something, He Yuzhu just opened his mouth. Then Father Yu took his son-in-law and introduced him to his relatives and friends.

This is also important. Whenever Yu's father pulls He Yuzhu to chat with him for a few more words, it means that the relationship between the two families must be closer.

But if they just introduced each other briefly, their relationship is naturally not that close.

After all, human feelings and sophistication are all in words. Whether you can understand it depends on your personal understanding.

Don't think that this kind of socializing is useless, everyone needs to do things. If nothing else, when you go to the supply and marketing cooperative to buy something, you need to meet an acquaintance and build a relationship. ~You are so and so in my father-in-law’s family, what should I call you? ~Or just call someone! ~The treatment was immediately different.

Yu's mother took her daughter back to the room. At this time, Yu Li naturally pretended to be strong. From the outside, he didn't feel uncomfortable at all, but as soon as he entered the room, he was walking like a duck.

When Yu's mother saw her girl looking like this, she didn't feel sorry for her. Instead, she smiled like a flower.

What does this mean? This shows that my uncle is normal and the couple lives in harmony.

Naturally, there are always some secret recipes for Yu Li to heal her injuries.

There are also some private words to teach your girl how to protect yourself and so on.

When Yu's mother and daughter finished their private conversation, Yu Li looked outside furtively, and then took out two pieces of paper from her pocket.

Yu's mother was still surprised. Even if she gave personal money to her parents' family, it wouldn't be so big.

Besides, there are only two girls in the family, so what’s the use of stuffing them with private money?

Yu Li handed the piece of paper to her mother. Although Yu's mother was confused, she still took it.

Although she couldn't read all the words on it, Yu's mother still recognized the impression on it and the word "ticket".

Naturally, the thing that Yu Li was so serious about was not food stamps and oil stamps. Her men were relatively well-off at the food station for those things.

Yu Li whispered: "Mom, this is what Brother Zhuzhu asked me to give you, a bicycle ticket and a watch ticket. Just buy it if you tell my dad to buy it. Don't be reluctant to part with it. After all, we will be filial to you in the future." "

These thoughtful words made Yu Mu's eyes moist. ………

Originally, it seemed like a wealthy family would go to worship their ancestors if they were the legitimate daughter, but this kind of thing has gradually disappeared in modern times.

There are all kinds of rules, and after doing them all, He Yuzhu's face froze with laughter.

After lunch, He Yuzhu must have had too much wine today. But the Yu family didn't have any guests. Logically speaking, neither the girl nor her uncle could stay at her parents' house today.

The so-called "shuangshuangshuangfei" means that they come and go in pairs.

Of course, if your parents' home is far away, you still have to live there, but the young couple still have to live separately.

Yu Haitang must have been repaired on her sister's wedding day, so she is very good today.

He didn't do anything at all, except that when his sister and brother-in-law gave out wedding candies to the neighbors, they desperately stuffed candies into their own pockets, and ended up getting slapped by Yu's mother.

The two sisters of the Yu family have very different personalities. Yu Li is the kind of person who has opinions in her heart but is very easy-going on the surface.

However, Yu Haitang has a noisy temper and wants to compare with others in everything.

In the past, my father and mother doted on the younger ones and neglected the older ones.

But since the blind date between Yu Li and He Yuzhu, the changes in Yu Li, the changes in the Yu family, and the progress of He Yuzhu have naturally changed the attitudes of Yu's father and mother towards their eldest daughter.

If you like one, you will inevitably fall a little short of the other. So in this life, although Yu Haitang is doted on, she doesn't have to ask Yue Yue's family to carry a ladder for her.

After working hard for several days, the wedding was truly completed after the return gift from the Yu family was handed over to Liu Ping.

Therefore, major events in life really cannot be represented by a piece of paper.

There are various choices inside, the distance of relatives and friends, the expansion of social circle, and the ability to show one's heritage to neighbors.

They all truly demonstrate the meaning of the word "getting married" in "getting married".

Starting a family does not mean that the couple just get a certificate and sleep together and then they are married.

Starting a family is the most comprehensive way to show your way of doing things as an adult and how you behave in front of your neighbors, relatives and friends.

For example, He Yuzhu's way of doing things during this period of time made the neighbors in the old yard know about it~ He Yuzhu is not a person who does not hold grudges.