Siheyuan: Happy He Yuzhu

Chapter 191 Chapter 189, Adulthood and Marriage

He Yuzhu feels a little regretful now. If he had known it, he would not have bought those things years ago.

These big guys are sending you good stuff!

No valuable items were sent directly, but some things were indeed very valuable.

This was also He Yuzhu's advantage. Not long after the ticket system was implemented, the leaders didn't pay much attention to the tickets in their hands.

So most leaders' gifts are a hot water kettle or a washbasin, plus a ticket.

For example, the old secretary of the steel rolling mill asked someone to bring him a sewing ticket, and others also gave him several bicycle tickets and watch tickets.

Even Director Wang of the sub-district office felt pity for He Yuzhu as a motherless child, so he specially sent a bed quilt to him in his private capacity.

He Daqing still refused to give up and set up two tables for his son in the small courtyard.

Of course it's not in the name of a wedding banquet, but in the name of a coming-of-age ceremony.

The coming-of-age ceremony may seem like an imported thing, but in fact we have had this etiquette since ancient times.

Not only men, but girls also have coming-of-age ceremonies. When a woman comes of age, she is called Jiji, and when a man comes of age, it is called Guanli, also known as Weak Guan.

When a girl reaches the age of hairpins, that is, she is 15 years old, her mother will also hold a banquet for her daughter and invite all the female relatives. Then it’s time to change hair accessories and add hairpins to style your hair.

This also tells relatives and friends that their girl has reached adulthood. Any handsome young man in your family can be the matchmaker.

Of course, before this, every age group had etiquette to celebrate the healthy growth of their children and to wish them good luck in the future.

For example, when I was a toddler, I had two small bags tied on my head. When I was a child, my hair was droopy without a hat.

There is also a woman's cardamom years, which refers to the beautiful years when a girl is thirteen or fourteen years old.

Men just tie their hair and go to school or learn a trade. This age group is about fifteen years old.

The prerequisite for all these things is that you have a rich material life and have the leisure to do these things for your children.

But the weak crown, that is, the crowning ceremony, is something that every family, rich or poor, will pay attention to.

This represents a man's adulthood, that is, he has reached the age where he can start a family.

The etiquette process in ancient times was naturally complicated. Divining auspicious days and times, and then worshiping ancestors were all very solemn etiquette.

There are also the obeisances of parents, thanking them for their upbringing. Parents tie up their children's hair in buns, crowns, or hats. As for whether the hat is cloth, silk, or a crown made of gold and silver threads, it depends on the family's origin.

Furthermore, when the crown is weak, it is time to pick the word.

The word is not chosen casually, it basically represents the elders’ lifelong wishes and plans for their children.

Of course, this thing also depends on the size of the family, as well as the inheritance and heritage of the ancestors, which has a direct impact on the process of this kind of thing.

In modern times, relatives and friends are invited over, and in front of everyone, they kowtow to their father and mother a few times, and then the father puts a hat on his adult son.

Then a few strings of firecrackers are set off, and relatives and friends give gifts.

Eating and drinking, the father took his son and introduced him to interpersonal relationships.

Etiquette Etiquette is a ritual passed down from ancestors, and it also has social connotations.

Like He Daqing, originally he was the only one sitting there and receiving the kowtow from He Yuzhu.

Unexpectedly, He Yuzhu helped Liu Ping and sat on it, "bang bang bang" and knocked her head down.

We get along well, so why do you do those embarrassing things?

In front of everyone, he kowtowed three times to He Daqing, and kowtowed three times to help Liu Ping up.

He Yuzhu didn't put much effort into it, but it made Liu Ping red-eyed.

This means that He Yuzhu officially recognized her identity as a stepmother in front of everyone.

It also means that He Yuzhu thinks Liu Ping, the stepmother, has done a pretty good job.

In fact, He Yuzhu didn't think much about it. He just felt that whether he recognized it or not, Liu Ping was He Daqing's daughter-in-law, that is, He Yuzhu's stepmother.

Besides, they usually get along well with each other, but in this kind of scene, outsiders must see that the family is harmonious.

Of course, this is because Liu Ping is usually a good person, otherwise He Yuzhu would not do such a thing for her face.

Of course, Wang Furong also suffered a few blows. If He Yuzhu had learned to be a cook, Wang Furong would have given him a set of high-quality kitchen utensils now.

But He Yuzhu stopped doing it. He had to buy a car for his godson, and Wang Furong couldn't afford it!

There is no way, only red envelopes represent everything.

There are only a few heads, and the rest can be avoided if possible, otherwise the trouble will last for three or four days.

So after the adult ceremony, He Yuzhu not only had an extra hat on his head, but also two more Chinese tunic suits (one for Liu Ping and one for his godmother) and two pairs of cloth shoes.

Nothing else has changed.

It's just that when we meet people, more people call him Master He, but less people call him by his name.

During this period of time, He Yuzhu was as busy as anything. When it comes time to get married, there is nothing to be busy with.

I called a few colleagues who had bicycles, got on the bike, and arrived at the door of Yu's house. I greeted the neighbors with wedding candies and cigarettes.

Then he stood at the door and shouted, "Mom, Dad, I'm here to pick up Yu Li."

It is not clear whether the shouting is for the parents or the neighbors.

After all, after shouting, the door of Yu's house opened a crack, and a little lolita came out. She stretched out her little hand and waved it towards He Yuzhu, and shouted in a charming voice: "Brother-in-law, red envelope."

He Yuzhu pretended to touch her body and scratched her head as if she didn't have a red envelope. The little girl's face was about to collapse when she saw it. He quickly took out the small red envelope that he had prepared from the top pocket of his Zhongshan suit.

When it's time to pick up my wife, if I offend my sister-in-law, I'll get into trouble.

It was because the two families were so familiar that He Yuzhu teased Haitang.

When I entered the house again, I heard my parents yelling. I was so happy that my parents laughed so hard that I couldn't even see my eyes.

Father Yu's beard must have been newly shaved, and there was a scar on his chin.

It seems that the old man is not as happy as he appears, otherwise he wouldn't have scratched his chin while shaving. After all, it was cabbage that had been raised for many years. It was about to be taken away by the pig named He Yuzhu in front of him, which must have shaken his heart.

Mother Yu was really happy and relieved. Watching my own girls falling in love, going on blind dates, and then always running to He Yuzhu's house.

To be honest, every time Yu Li comes home, Yu's mother secretly observes her girl's walking posture. I'm afraid of giving her any surprises.

From now on, the second child cannot be allowed to go out early. ~Mother Yu secretly swore, and after thinking about it, she glared at Yu Haitang. Yu Haitang was so frightened that she hurriedly handed the red envelope that her brother-in-law bribed her with to her mother.

Only then did Yu Haitang feel the sadness of her sister getting married. After her sister left, she would be the only one left. How would she survive at home?

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