The group gods who retired to fish in Genshin Impact

Today is September 9st. Time flies so fast. The two-month summer vacation has passed without me noticing.

Although summer vacation doesn’t mean much to me, it should be of great significance to you.

After all, the two-month long vacation only exists among students. Once you leave school, you will never be able to enjoy such a long vacation again.

Normally, many people would start school on September 9st, but this year due to the hot weather and the slogan in recent years to reduce the pressure on students.

Therefore, many places have become more humane in terms of holidays and school starts. For example, September 9st this year falls on a Sunday, so schools in many places have changed the start time to September 2nd, which is Monday.

I don’t know how many times you’ve experienced this, but in my memory, it didn’t matter what day of the week we went to school. As long as we knew the school would start, we had to go to school and stay there for a day.

Even if you have nothing to do, you have to sit there and wait until the school opening process is over, and then new books and workbooks will be sent to you.

Sometimes it may be delayed, sometimes it may be sent on the same day, but whether it is sent or not, you have to stay there until the school lets you go.

Then whether we should continue with classes or be given another two days off until school starts again depends on what the school thinks.

好了好。然后我看了一下，除了在9月2号开学的，也有9月8号开学的，也有在9月1号就开学的。

The times are different, but from your perspective, the later the school starts, the better.

My space updates and friend circles were flooded with messages today, all of which were wailing about not wanting to go to school and wanting to die at home.

You are still too young. You are just in school now, but you feel so uncomfortable. If you work in the future, you will not want to go to work every day and want to die at home.

At least there are still a few months of vacation after school, although I have never liked going to school and I feel that working is more comfortable than going to school.

However, it is undeniable that many office workers do not have the unique summer and winter vacations during school hours. It can even be said that no company in the world dares to give its employees such a long vacation every year.

Therefore, you must cherish your summer and winter vacations during your student years, even though the evil schools and teachers have assigned you winter and summer vacation homework to take up your vacation time.

But you must believe in your own abilities and your ability to withstand beatings. As long as you don't write and can withstand the beatings from teachers and parents, you will be the best student who can freely control your own holidays.

But now it seems that there are no teachers who beat students, after all, there are so many rules. Nowadays, teachers just want to get by, who cares so much about students.

Finish the class quickly and run away. It doesn't matter how much salary you pay per month or whether you get more or less attention.

This can be said to be a drawback of our modern education reform.

As the saying goes, the ancients were not fools. If there were better ways of discipline than beating, they would have used it long ago. How could it have continued for so many years?

Nowadays teachers are not allowed to punish or hit students, which has led to many minors becoming lawless.

The cost of making mistakes and the consequences they should bear for making mistakes are directly eliminated or passed on to others, which encourages their evil thoughts.

I think this is a drawback of modern education reform. They do not clearly realize what consequences they should bear when they make mistakes or do bad things.

Unlike before, when you would be beaten if you made a mistake, now you know clearly that you should not do this and what the consequences will be if you do it.

Even if some people really don't repent, I dare say that most people will clearly know that they shouldn't have done this after being beaten.

But these are just my thoughts. They have nothing to do with what I want to say. What I want to say is that you have all started school, and you should all have easy or difficult studies.

Here no matter when you saw it, no matter you have seen it or not, no matter you are in grade 123 of junior high school or grade 123 of high school, or in a certain grade in college.

In short, cherish your student days. After all, time flies by in the blink of an eye, and six or seven years is neither long nor short.

Maybe you haven't even noticed the passage of time, and it passes by in a daze.

Whether you want to go to school or not, calm down. This is the freest and most relaxing time in your life. After graduation, whether you have a job or not, you will have more and more worries.

At least during this time you still have your own happiness, cherish this happiness, no matter whether you have finished your homework or not, no matter what grade you are in.

Don’t think that starting school is a bad thing. Think about it in a positive way. At least you have plenty of time to sleep in class or play games in your free time.

Even though I will be controlled by my parents, it is better than being exhausted after work and not even wanting to open my eyes when I get home at night, let alone entertainment.

This is a sentimental statement. For most people, they will regret after they enter society and think that school was the easiest time. But for me, I still think that work is easier than studying.

It’s just that this book has been updated for more than two years. Some readers have gone from high school to college, some have gone from junior high school to high school, some have gone from elementary school to junior high school, and some have graduated from college and started working.

I can be said to have accompanied many people through a certain stage in their lives.

As someone who has a little more experience than you, let me give you some advice: don't think that the future is too far away, even if it may be 10 years away.

You must start thinking about your future destination very early, whether it is dropping out of high school to work, or working hard to get into college and find a job to make a living.

We need to start thinking about these things a long time ago, because society is becoming more and more complex and chaotic.

Most people can only hope to have enough food and clothing. Don't be too ambitious and dream of getting rich. It's good enough to have a job that can provide a stable life.

As for finding a partner, I can only say that you should avoid looking for one if you can, even if the other person can provide you with a lot of strength.

In today's society, it's difficult to get anywhere without money. Let me take something that happens around me as an example.

I had a classmate who dated for three years, almost from the time they entered school until we started working. After the engagement photos were taken, they broke up in less than a month.

The reason is that they are unable to face the pressure of life together, and some things in life lead to disagreements between the two.

Another friend of mine found a partner. They got married and had a child. How much does it cost per month?

He told me that the most money was spent when we were expecting a child, especially when we were 10 months pregnant and when the child was just born. The monthly expenses were about ~.

Their combined income is about 8000 yuan a month. His wife was unable to work during her pregnancy, and she was not allowed to go out to work during her confinement. He was almost the only one who supported her.

His formal job requires him to work 10 hours a day, which earns him 4500 yuan a month, and then he has to do other odd jobs after work.

He barely earns six or seven thousand a month, and he is so tired that he looks like a sick ghost.

After enduring for more than a year, my family finally recovered. I went out to find a job and the financial pressure was relieved. However, I became sick due to overwork and spent a lot of money on medical treatment.

The combined monthly salary of two people is eight or nine thousand, which I would say is no longer considered low-income in this society.

Except in the first-tier cities, four or five thousand is definitely enough to live in ordinary cities, and you can live a relatively comfortable life.

However, once two people get married and have children, the expenses increase exponentially. In addition, the other person will not be able to work for a period of time and will have to bear certain risks. It can be said that many families begin to have disagreements and cracks from this time, which eventually become irreparable.

Have you not made the corresponding mental preparation? If you rashly take the child and are unable to shoulder the responsibility, the two of you will end up breaking up.

Relying on their youth, they got married and had a child at the age of 19 or 20, but they ended up not having a stable job or a stable income.

On the one hand, they have to ask for money from their partner's family, and on the other hand, they have to deal with some problems of their partner, including the trivial matters of taking care of children.

In the end, the pressure was too great and he had a mental breakdown. They quarreled about everything from daily necessities to their family backgrounds, and finally they broke up.

Not only did this waste several years of youth, but it also caused suffering for the child as his parents got divorced right after the child was born. No matter which parent was awarded the child, he would be a single child.

Moreover, neither of them was prepared to take on the responsibility of a family and take care of children. It can be said that they made a mess of taking care of the children. If it weren't for the help of the elderly, it could be said that both the adults and the children would have starved to death on the streets.

These are all bloody lessons. Today's society is no longer the same as before when one person could support a whole family with a salary of two or three thousand.

Nowadays, even if two people earn 1 yuan a month, they may be in debt and unable to afford household expenses after having children.

So I am here to give you a piece of advice, don’t think about getting married and having children until you have a stable job and income, and especially until you have savings and a good family environment.

You can date, but you must make sure that you are able to afford the family expenses and take on the responsibilities of the family before deciding to get married and have children.

Don't do it on impulse or just because you feel good. That would be irresponsible to yourself, your children, your family, the other person's family, and yourself.

Let me give you another example. I have a classmate who got married right after graduation, and then her child was born just 10 months after the marriage. It means she got pregnant right after getting married.

At that time, we had just graduated and I was still working outside. What about the other classmates?

Some continued to do the work assigned by the school, some resigned to find other jobs, and some felt that the work was too tiring and didn't want to do it anymore, so they quit their jobs and went back to school to continue their studies, and then asked their families for money.

No matter how bad that classmate's family environment is, it shouldn't be that bad. After all, he lives in Shanghai and can marry someone there. So no matter how you think about it, his family environment is not bad.

After having a child, the whole person changes drastically, just like a city beauty turning into a rural peasant woman.

Ageing very fast.

Including a friend who lives in the community where I live now. I can’t really say she is a friend. Our two families knew each other before, but we were not very familiar with each other. And she and I went to the same school.

We were just not in the same major. We would chat occasionally when we met at school. She got married during the Chinese New Year last year or the year before.

My impression of her has always been that although she likes to play and hang out with a bunch of hooligans, she is a person who is sensible, has her own opinions, and is very imposing.

Normally, people who play with her follow behind her.

Then people like this also choose to get married right after graduation. She studied two years longer than me and was admitted to a junior college, while I didn't even finish junior college before I went out to work.

Then after I got married, I heard the news that she was getting married. I was thinking that I should be in a hurry to get married at such a young age, but what happened is that I ran into her in the building within two days.

Her appearance has changed so much that she doesn't look like the one I know at all.