Sixty-year-old only child: The system taught me how to become rich

There are really too many memories, and there are often frictions between brothers and sisters. They need to think about it.

After thinking for a long time, Liao Shuyi didn't think of any benefits.

Maybe it's because people are more deeply impressed by bad things like being wronged and quarreling. When Liao Shuyi recalled it carefully, he only remembered those usual conflicts.

Jin Jiayin could think of some better places, and she replied:

"There are still good things about it. My brothers and sisters are always very good to me. They will leave me a portion of any delicious food. And I can ask them about things that I don't know how to learn, and they will help me. "

Gu Ning nodded and said:

"That's good."

Jin Jiayin smiled and said:

"Really? There are many benefits to having brothers and sisters."

Gu Ning nodded, but still said:

"It's good, but I still prefer being an only child."

After saying that, she turned to look at Liao Shuyi and asked:

"What about you? Did you think of anything?"

Liao Shuyi paused, not knowing how to answer.

Could she say that when she thought about it carefully, the several things she remembered were all contradictory?

However, there are not many conflicts that I can think of. Looking back now, I don’t feel as angry and aggrieved as I did at that time.

how to say?

Memories can also beautify, it can beautify many things.

Liao Shuyi organized his words and replied:

"I don't know. I don't feel very good, nor very bad. There are contradictions, but there are many things in my memory that made me feel wronged, and I can no longer remember them. The only few things that come to mind, I don't care as much as I did at that time. feeling."

"There are good feelings, but if I think about it specifically, I don't remember much. But in general, I think my brothers and sisters are okay. Maybe it's because they are used to it and have feelings for them, so those Contradictions are nothing.”

Gu Ning nodded and said:

"Yes, everyone has his own merits. You think it's good to have brothers and sisters, because there are people to accompany you. I think it's good to be an only child, because you can enjoy all the love from your parents and all the things at home."

"Everyone should live their own life. There is a good saying in Zhuangzi, "A child is not a fish, how can one know the joy of a fish?" I just think it is good to be the only child in the family. You can also think it is good to have brothers and sisters. ."

"Everyone has their own feelings. After all, our experiences are different. What you think is good is good."

Maybe it's because under this situation, families that are willing to let girls go to high school are relatively open-minded and have good family conditions. Neither Liao Shuyi nor Jin Jiayin has any particularly big grievances.

But the two of them don't represent everything. At least from what Gu Ning has seen so far, families with many children will always have conflicts and frictions, especially girls.

Nowadays, the idea that it is wrong for parents to be partial is not mainstream. People generally think that parents are right no matter what.

Because they are your parents, they can do whatever you want with them.

No one would think that boys should not be favored over girls, so many favoritisms are natural and undisguised.

It's okay if the family conditions are better, but if the family conditions are not good, you have to fight for even a morsel of food at home.

It's not like Gu Ning has never seen this kind of thing before.

But being an only child does have its disadvantages in this era, at least in the brigade.

In the brigade, having more people means that the family can earn more money from farming, and they can help when encountering problems, so that they will not be bullied.

Moreover, in a place like the brigade, the effectiveness of the law is not very great. If anything happens, it is usually settled privately, without using the law.

Therefore, there will be many destitute people, and orphans and widowed mothers will be bullied.

But the situation in Gu Ning's family is different. Gu Xian and Gigi Lai both have formal jobs.

They live in the city and do not make a living from farming, nor do they follow the brigade's own rules.

In this case, it is naturally better for Gu Ning to be the only daughter.

Because she can enjoy all the resources at home and get the complete love of her parents.

She doesn't have to compete with her siblings for favor, nor does she have to deal with friction, nor does she have to face parents who are partial or favor sons over daughters.

It was also because she was an only child that 001 dared to let Gu Ning tell her parents about the system, so that Gu Ning could get cover while using the system.

Otherwise, if there were other siblings, how could 001 be sure that Gu Ning's parents would not tell anything about the system.

After all, not only Gu Ning is their child, but also other children.

If something happens to another child, leaking the system can save his life. Can parents choose not to save it?

Anyway, if the system is leaked, Gu Ning may not die.

So in general, this kind of family situation is beneficial to Gu Ning.

It can only be said that everyone's family situation is different. Gu Ning does not intend to interfere with other people's choices, and she does not like others to interfere with her.

Everyone has a personal opinion, just think it's worth it.

Liao Shuyi and Jin Jiayin were both a little dumbfounded, it seemed like this.

Liao Shuyi nodded and said:

"Indeed, we just have to live our lives well. Anyway, I think I am very lucky to be in this high school class. At least my parents are good to me."

As soon as Liao Shuyi mentioned this matter, Jin Jiayin also nodded and said:

"Yes, yes, it's good that we can continue to go to school. Gu Ning, do you know why there are so few girls in our class?"

Gu Ning nodded, shook his head, and replied:

"I have a rough guess as to why, but I don't have any definite evidence. I guess it's because my family doesn't allow it to be read."

Jin Jiayin nodded and said:

"You are right, they are not allowed to study. Let me tell you, I used to have a classmate who studied better than me and received an invitation to the high school class. But she did not come in the end because her family did not agree. "

"Her family doesn't want her to waste time studying, even if she goes to school with free tuition and no need to pay for it. They want my classmate to go out to work early, earn more money, support the family, and then get married in exchange for a bride price to give to the family."

When this topic came up, Liao Shuyi couldn't help but said:

"Yes, I also know a classmate, and she is probably in the same situation. Her family thinks that it is useless for girls to read too many books, and they will eventually get married. It is better to work for two more years and earn more money. And they I’m also worried that my classmate has read too many books and can’t control them.”

"Because this happened before. Some girls had read more books and knew how to resist, so they were no longer willing to work as hard as before."