Reborn in 1985, divorced, fished and raised a baby, and made a lot of money

The speed of the van is not very fast, but it is direct and saves the time of changing buses in the middle.

It was less than nine o'clock when we arrived at Sanyuan in the city.

Han Xiaorui took her two children into the hospital to register in the Children's Rehabilitation Department.

Fortunately, today there were experts who had studied abroad and led three doctors from our hospital to conduct comprehensive examinations and tests on Pingping and Anan.

There were no problems with the child's vocal cords and hearing. Physical causes were ruled out and he was diagnosed with autism, which was accompanied by mental retardation and poor understanding.

Expert Wang looked at the two children and then at Han Xiaorui, thinking about how to say something that would not over-stimulate the mother.

"The child's condition has been diagnosed as autism. He has delayed language development, social difficulties, stereotyped behavior, and little emotional communication."

"But fortunately, the child's eyes were focused and he made eye contact with people. He was not hyperactive or violent."

"Follow-up intervention, treatment and learning, and the cooperation of doctors and parents, can improve the child's condition."

"In some cases, those who are optimistic can not only speak, but also return to normal and live like normal people."

Han Xiaorui nodded with a serious expression, "Expert, you are the doctor. As parents, I need our cooperation as to what kind of treatment the child needs. Just tell me directly."

"I didn't understand it before, but after watching TV, I realized that my two daughters' situation can be intervened and treated. I can come to the hospital, I am mentally prepared, and I will do my best to treat the children."

Hearing this, Expert Wang breathed a sigh of relief. It's good to understand. He asked parents who couldn't accept their children's diagnosis results, "Are you having financial difficulties? If so, the Disabled Persons' Federation can reimburse part of the expenses."

If you join the Disabled Persons' Federation, it will be recorded on your child's file in the future.

Now that she has the support of her father-in-law and no shortage of money, Han Xiaorui does not want to give her child treatment through the Disabled Persons' Federation. "Thank you doctor, there is no financial difficulty for the time being. I want to treat my child first and talk about it later."

Professor Wang understands the feelings of being a parent, "Okay, next, the children need to take language classes, sensory training, personal training and precision courses."

"I'll give you fifteen classes first, three in the morning. How about a week first?"

Han Xiaorui nodded, "Let the children get used to it first, and I will gradually add more classes."

Because the child cannot speak or interact with others, he cannot even go to kindergarten.

In this case, take more classes in the hospital.

Han Xiaorui asked the doctor to help take care of the child, and she went to pay the fee.

On average, each class costs five yuan. Three classes a day in the morning will cost fifteen yuan; five days a week, it will cost seventy-five yuan.

One month, calculated as four weeks, would cost three hundred yuan.

In 1985, the per capita wage in urban areas was only a few dozen yuan.

For an ordinary family, this is indeed a huge amount of money.

If father-in-law Yang Zhigang hadn't owned a large ship and was doing some wholesale seafood business, earning hundreds of thousands a year, he wouldn't have been able to give Han Xiaorui so much living expenses and the treatment of his children.

The Children's Rehabilitation Department is a newly opened department in the hospital, and not many people come to seek medical treatment.

Expert Wang had no patients at the moment, so he came over to teach Ping Ping and An An in person, and the three students next to him studied hard.

Han Xiaorui sat at the door, looking inside through the small glass window on the door from time to time.

Under the comfort of the teacher, Ping Ping and An An sat in a regular and disciplined manner, and did some simple exercises according to the teacher's guidance.

Especially in the sensory integration class, there are some toys used as tools to coordinate with exercises and games.

After class, Han Xiaorui found that the child's face was red, his eyes were bright, and he was more energetic.

After each class, Han Xiaorui will replenish water for her children or take them to the bathroom.

Taking advantage of the break, Han Xiaorui took the initiative to ask Expert Wang, "Dr. Wang, what should I do to coordinate with your course after I go back at noon?"

Professor Wang was very happy to see that Han Xiaorui was sincere and did not hide his illness or seek medical treatment.

"Ping'an Mom, it's really great that you take the initiative to ask questions. Children are lucky to have a mother like you."

Han Xiaorui smiled. Expert Wang is indeed an expert and is very good at talking. Hearing her encouragement made Han Xiaorui more confident, "As a parent, do your best."

Expert Wang nodded and said with a smile: "After we go back at noon, we will mix meat and vegetables and try our best to let the children eat and drink well to maintain adequate nutrition."

"If children usually go to bed very late at night and have short overall sleep time, then they should not let them take a nap at noon, adjust their schedule, go to bed early at night, and maintain adequate sleep."

"If there are children of the same age and taking the initiative to play with them, their social barriers can be improved. By the way, if conditions permit, you can raise small animals such as rabbits and ducks that are not dangerous."

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Han Xiaorui took out his notebook and wrote down what Expert Wang said one by one.

Expert Wang saw that she was so serious and gave Han Xiaorui a book on the treatment of autism.

In this morning's class, the children performed very well. They showed no resistance to class and actually enjoyed it.

There are many taxis parked in front of the hospital, three-wheeled taxis that look like turtles and are called turtle taxis.

Although it was expensive, it was too difficult to squeeze into the bus at noon and she was alone with two three-year-old children who could not speak.

If the child is lost or injured, the loss outweighs the gain.

While holding a little baby in her arms, Han Xiaorui seemed to be hugging the whole world.

"Gululu..." Pingping's stomach rang. It was already half past eleven and he was hungry.

Han Xiaorui took out the calcium milk biscuits from her bag and gave two children two pieces to fill their bellies.

A large car was parked at the entrance of the village. Taxis could not get in, so Han Xiaorui paid and got off.

When leading the child through the door of Yang's house, Zhang Lili, who had already entered the house, came out of the house with a big belly.

Seeing Han Xiaorui leading her two silly daughters, she proudly showed off her big belly.

Zhang Lili was very angry, especially when she heard that her father-in-law made the decision and not only gave Han Xiaorui a house, money, land, and a boat, she had long been suffocating.

"You are about to get divorced, but you are still asking for money from the lion of the Yang family. You are a cheapie who married from afar. You are shameless. Why don't you take your idiot daughter and get out of here?"

Han Xiaorui didn't want to waste any energy on irrelevant people, but when she saw the two children, they were so scared that they hid behind her.

She decided she couldn't bear it anymore!

Han Xiaorui gently touched the heads of her two daughters and looked up at Zhang Lili with a half-smile.

"If you want to be shameless, I can't compare to you. If you seduce a married woman, you are now a mistress."

"As arrogant as you are, if I don't divorce Yang Jianming, you will always be the third party. In ancient times, that was a concubine."

"Thanks to the new society, if I don't divorce, you can't marry Yang Jianming, and you won't even have the chance to be a concubine. Yang Jianming makes half as much money as I do. If you get pregnant before we are married, the child you give birth to will not be seen in the light, and it will be a shady family. I can’t register for residence.”