Reborn in 1993, after divorce, life became a mess

Li Linna's house was small, so it was inconvenient for Li Wen to stay with her because she still had a baby who was feeding her grandma.

After discussing with Zhao Yanan, she simply invited Li Linna and her son to the villa she built next to the Huangdao cold drink factory.

In this way, Li Linna has someone to take care of her and her son can go to school.

Zhao Yanan promised her to send someone to send a car to take Mingming to and from school.

After Na Liwen stayed with Li Linna for two days, he could see that she was suffering from depression, and it was very serious.

Not only did she stay awake all night, walking around in the dark room, but she also locked herself in the room during the day, closing the curtains and not daring to see any light.

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Na Liwen asked Zhao Yanan to contact a psychiatrist in Qindao City. She accompanied Li Linna by ferry from Huangdao to Qindao to see a psychiatrist every week.

Every time he took the ferry, Na Liwen had to pick two people with good water skills from the security guards at the cold drink factory to accompany him to prevent Li Linna from getting distracted and jumping into the sea from the ferry. Someone would be there to rescue her.

Fortunately, Li Linna didn't do that.

At first, Li Linna was not willing to go out with her, let alone see a psychiatrist, and was very resistant to seeing a psychiatrist.

Na Liwen said to her, I have seen a psychiatrist before, but I stopped seeing a psychiatrist after I got married.

But after giving birth to my daughter, I felt like I was starting to have insomnia again and didn’t want to go out and meet people. I want to see a psychiatrist. You go with me and go see a psychiatrist too. There is nothing wrong with seeing a psychiatrist. It’s just a matter of chatting with a stranger and venting your sorrows.

Li Linna insisted that I was not sick and my mind was normal.

Na Liwen said, no, you definitely have.

The pace of life today is too fast, the world is changing rapidly, people are under great pressure, and many people suffer from depression.

Especially for us women, production pressure, work pressure, and family pressure come all at once, and even the strongest people sometimes cannot bear it.

There is no shame in admitting that you have a mental problem.

You see, I have always told others that I am mentally ill, and I am not afraid of others thinking that I am mentally ill. What are you afraid of?

Your desperate state of life and death is a sign of depression.

You cannot be an ostrich without facing your own problems.

Li Linna couldn't resist Na Liwen, so she had to go to see a psychiatrist with her.

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The psychiatrist told Na Liwen that your symptoms are very mild now and there is no big problem. On the contrary, it is your friend. She is very serious. You must get her medicine and urge her to take it on time. Then, she comes over twice a week for psychological intervention.

Then Li Wen nodded, and I knew that was the case.

Doctor, do many people come to see you?

The psychiatrist replied, not many. Our Chinese people don’t have a strong understanding of depression.

Most people with depressive symptoms go to the hospital to see a doctor, and the doctor diagnoses them as neurasthenia. In fact, most people with neurasthenia are patients with depression.

Na Liwen said, I know.

The psychiatrist was surprised, how did you know?

Na Liwen replied, when I gave birth to my son, I suffered from neurasthenia, a very serious kind. I took a lot of medicine and it didn't heal well. My mood has been very unstable. My partner thought I was mentally abnormal, haha.

Later, I read some books and magazines and realized that I probably had postpartum depression.

The psychiatrist nodded and said, yes, many women are prone to depression during pregnancy and childbirth due to hormonal changes, coupled with changes in identity and role, which make them unable to adapt.

Currently, the number of female patients suffering from depression is much higher than that of male patients.

In the south, depression has attracted people's attention. According to an authoritative medical survey, there are 7% of depression patients in Shenzhen City alone.

Sanmao, Haizi, and my brother all suffer from depression.

Na Liwen said, I knew that my brother jumped from the building because of depression, but I didn't expect that Sanmao and Haizi were also depressed.

Psychiatrists say that there are many celebrities who suffer from depression. Great people like Hemingway, Van Gogh, and even Churchill also suffered from severe depression.

Na Liwen nodded, and I finally understood why Van Gogh cut off his own ear. It turned out that he was suffering from depression.

The psychiatrist said that in the end he could not bear the pain and shot himself.

Before leaving, the psychiatrist suggested that you not only take medicine, but also come to my place twice a week, go out more often, and participate in some useful group activities, such as learning to dance, sing, and report your interests. classes and the like.

Li Linna loves dancing and singing even more.

After returning home, Na Liwen first had a long talk with Li Linna's son Mingming. Then, he used the spacious area of ​​​​his home to build a family dance hall and singing room, invited some friends to hold a banquet at home, and sang and danced.

Occasionally, he and Zhao Yanan would take Li Linna to dance halls, karaoke bars, and bars outside, and they obviously no longer objected.

Every morning, Na Liwen would pull her up for a morning run. If she didn't want to go, Li Wen would sacrifice her son, and the two of them would pull her and force her to go.

Gradually, Li Linna's condition got better and better, and a smile gradually appeared on her sad face.

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During May Day, Gao Xiang came to Huangdao.

At the same time, Yangyang was also brought over.

When he came, Li Linna had recovered a lot, but she still shocked him.

Gao Xiang secretly said to Na Liwen: "Xiao Bailing was so fat when he was in school that he could fit the two of you. Now he is like a stick in the bodyguard industry. We are completely different after not seeing each other for so many years. If we meet on the road, I will I definitely won’t recognize her.”

Na Liwen: "So, when I came to see her, I became depressed.

You know, I'm seeing a psychiatrist right now with her.

Huh~

I want to get a psychiatrist qualification certificate. You don’t know that consultation fees are very expensive. It costs 200 cents an hour. "

Gao Xiang quickly advised her: "Don't do it. Psychiatrists are like trash cans. All they accept are negative emotions. You can't do that job. Maybe psychiatrists themselves can become depressed."

Na Liwen: "Yeah, forget it, I don't want to deal with people who have negative emotions."

Gao Xiang said, "You are such a good mother, but you can educate Yangyang to be so cheerful and optimistic."

Na Liwen sighed: "Thanks to Yangyang by my side, I can be strong and get out of depression."

Gao Xiang said, your heart is stronger, Li Linna is too fragile, thanks to her two good friends, you and Zhao Yanan, by her side.

Na Liwen remembered that after his divorce in his previous life, he had no relatives or friends around him. He struggled alone for two years. He often walked alone on the street in the middle of the night, walking for several hours.

Countless times I felt discouraged and despaired, thinking of my young son gritting his teeth and surviving day after day.

Those dark days were really difficult.

Because she felt the same way, she would do her best to help enlighten the current Li Linna.

The most intuitive impact of the arrival of Gao Xiang and Yang Yang was Li Linna's son Mingming.