Reborn in 1993, after divorce, life became a mess

"Come here, son, mommy gives you a hug."

Zhao Yanan listened to her words and pulled Xiaodouzi into his arms.

Xiaodouzi was as stiff as a stone and pressed against his mother, looking a little at a loss.

Na Liwen sighed secretly, the child was so alienated from his mother.

In the old-fashioned education in China, hugging is what most families lack.

Most parents are not used to hugging their children.

Scientific research shows that if parents hug their children more when they are young, such children will be "social cows" when they grow up. On the contrary, they may become "social fears".

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Snowy days are the best time to eat hot pot.

The hotel opened by Ren Zhitao happens to have hot pot.

When the group arrived, Xiao Yezi was already waiting there with his son.

When Li Wen saw that the two old classmates here were all sons, he sighed secretly, why didn't any of them give birth to a girl?

It's great to have a girl, to have a caring little cotton-padded jacket.

When she was pregnant, she fully expected to have a daughter.

Even the dreams I had during my pregnancy were about picking flowers all over the mountains and fields, and picking all kinds of strange flowers.

Everyone said that this pregnancy dream meant that she was pregnant with a daughter.

Who would have thought that after giving birth, he would be found to be a fat, white, and smelly boy.

Of course, she also loves her son.

It’s just a pity that I can’t have a little cotton-padded jacket.

Ren Zhitao's son Qiuqiu is even more naughty.

People say that children who are seven or eight years old will dislike the dogs they hunt for.

And Qiuqiu has already reached that level when he is only three years old.

Na Liwen said to Ren Zhitao: "Your son will definitely have a bright future."

Ren Zhitao asked: "What do you mean, can you still predict fortune telling?"

Na Liwen laughed: "Isn't it said that good men come from naughty boys?"

Ren Zhitao laughed: "You can just say that my son is naughty.

Oops, this kid is so naughty that I have a headache.

You said I was quite naughty when I was a kid, but not to his level.

Let me tell you, you can’t keep any pets at home, they can’t resist his tenderness.

I raised two pots of Clivia, which I bought at a high price.

My son is not so good. I want to uproot him. I don’t know how strong he is..."

He was talking here, while Little Leaf looked at Little Douzi who was eating steadily and sighed with envy.

She asked Zhao Yanan: "Sister, how do you educate your children? Please teach me."

It seems that Qiuqiu has given these parents a lot of trouble.

Everyone here is talking, but there is only a "clang" sound over there.

Everyone looked around and saw Qiuqiu using a wine bottle to smash the large vase used for decoration in the private room.

The nanny stopped right next to him and blocked the bottle. The beer bottle only slightly touched the vase. Otherwise, glass shards would have been scattered everywhere.

Maybe there will be two injured on the spot.

Zhao Yanan exclaimed: “Oh!

It's naughty enough. "

“Ball!

Do you deserve another beating? "

Ren Zhitao shouted with his eyes widened.

Qiuqiu was still afraid of his father, so he threw down the beer bottle he had picked up from nowhere, turned around and ran away.

The nanny followed closely behind, but couldn't catch up with the little one.

Na Liwen: "Your son has no use for his strength. Why don't you hire a coach to teach him how to practice martial arts? When he gets tired, he will be honest."

Xiao Yezi's eyes lit up and he thought the method she said was good.

Ren Zhitao was a little worried: "After practicing martial arts, you are not allowed to go to the house to uncover the tiles."

Little Leaf: “It’s almost here now.

If you ask me, let him practice and use up his excess energy, otherwise the nanny will have to change again. "

His nanny has already run away several times.

The only nanny left was the one who had brought him up since childhood. I have to do housework and take care of the children, which is really too much to take care of.

"Then I'll contact him as soon as possible and find a better coach to train him."

Ren Zhitao agreed.

Xiaodouzi said to his mother over there: "Mom, I also want to learn martial arts."

Zhao Yanan asked: "Why do you think of learning martial arts?"

Xiaodouzi whispered: "I can't even beat the girls in the class."

"Did any of your classmates bully you?"

Na Liwen asked him warmly.

Xiaodouzi nodded.

Zhao Yanan's expression became serious: "Didn't you tell the teacher?"

Xiaodouzi: "It's useless. After telling the teacher, they will bully me even more."

Ren Zhitao was also surprised: "It's amazing that a little kid in first grade dares to bully others.

We were all very honest in the first and second grade at that time, and we didn’t dare to fight until we were in the third grade. "

Na Liwen: "I started fighting in the first grade, and it wasn't until the third grade that I finally beat up the whole class."

Ren Zhitao and everyone else were surprised.

Little Leaf: "Huh?

Sister, did you ever fight when you were a child? "

Na Liwen: “Our family is from outside.

When I was seven years old, there was an earthquake in my hometown and the house collapsed, so I moved here.

When we first came here, all the children in the village were bullies and scolded us when we met.

My sister and brother are both honest, and they dare not speak out even if they are scolded.

I'm not good at it. I can't curse, but I can beat people. I'll beat anyone who scolds me, even if I can't beat them. My head was opened with a stone, and my face was bleeding, so I rushed up.

Later, they all became afraid of me and no longer dared to bully me. "

Xiao Yezi gasped when he heard it.

Ren Zhitao: "It's like this everywhere. People bully students. Even adults are bullied when they go to other places."

Na Liwen nodded: "Yes.

My dad was very good in his hometown, but he couldn't do it here in Yabu City.

He wouldn't let us fight outside.

At that time, I was angry.

I fight to get home and get beaten, but I don’t want to be bullied outside. "

Xiao Yezi chased after him and asked, "Did you get beaten when you went home?"

Na Liwen laughed: "If my dad doesn't beat us, he just makes us stand and doesn't allow us to eat.

As for me, when I was made to stand, I would roll around at home and howl at the top of my lungs, yelling that I was bullied outside and still bullied when I came back.

My dad couldn't do anything to me. "

Xiao Yezi and Zhao Yanan laughed, and Xiaodouzi also laughed.

Ren Zhitao raised his thumb and said, "Well, Li Wen, you are this.

When I was a kid, I was scared of my dad. He would glare at me and hit me without even saying anything, scaring me to the point of peeing. "

Zhao Yanan smiled for a while and said to Li Wen: "When I was a child, I was just like you, fighting all the boys and girls in the village.

My mother gave birth to girls all the time, and people in the village laughed at us for having no sons. Even the children laughed at us and bullied our sisters. Whenever our sisters went out to play, we were bullied.

In order to protect my sister, I fought with boys and children in the village all day long, and I was not afraid of life or death.

I dared to do something cruel and copy whatever was around me.

Once, I forced a boy who was older than me to go home with a stick. He didn't dare to go out for several days. "

Xiaodouzi raised his head and asked Zhao Yanan: "Mom, is it okay if I hit my classmate with a stick?"

Before Zhao Yanan could speak, Li Wen said first: "Son, as long as it is not you who bullies them first, but they bully you first, you can just use a stick to cut them, and if they are broken, I will compensate you."

Ren Zhitao raised his hand in agreement: "Yes, fight with them. Uncle Ren will take care of you if something goes wrong."

Zhao Yanan was anxious: "No, you two can't teach my son like this..."

Xiaodouzi's eyes, which had just brightened up, darkened again.

Na Liwen whispered in his ear: "Xiao Doudou, your mother is the leader. Even if she agrees with what her godmother says in her heart, she will object on her face.

You are a smart kid, do you know what to do? "

Xiaodouzi nodded to show that he understood.

Na Liwen then said to him: "You have another way. You can show it to your classmates unintentionally and say that your mother is the leader of the city."

Xiaodouzi said in a low voice with some embarrassment: "My mother didn't let me say it."

Na Liwen waved his hand and said, "Don't listen to her. If you need to show off, show off. Then they won't dare to bully you."

Xiaodouzi nodded obediently: "Oh, then I'll listen to my godmother."

Na Liwen looked at his innocent eyes and thought, I don't know whether it is good or bad to teach him this way?

No matter, in short, we can't let him be bullied since he was a child and leave a shadow. This will not be good for his future growth.