The educated youth was reborn and wanted to disappear, but he was locked into a military marriage.

So I say no.

Zhu Xiaomin had no choice but to glare at him and then said: "I agree to marry you, but I have to say these things first. If you agree or disagree, you have to say something."

The premise is that you agree to get married?

Lu Mingzheng's eyes suddenly shone with light, he nodded repeatedly, sat up straight, put his hands on his knees, and looked like he was listening attentively: "You say it."

Seeing his look like this, Zhu Xiaomin didn't know where to start. After sorting out his thoughts, he said: "You are not in the army when you go to the army. In other words, even if I return to the city, I have two choices. One is The city your parents live in is my original city, right?"

Lu Mingzheng was startled, then nodded and said, "Yes!" He realized what she was talking about and was surprised, "You mean... you mean you want to go back to your home?"

They are both in the city, but their families are not in the same city. Zhu Xiaomin's family is in Hedong, which is a prefecture-level city, while Lu Mingzheng's family is in Longcheng, but it is the provincial capital. Under normal circumstances, of course, the provincial capital has more opportunities for development.

Zhu Xiaomin shook his head: "To be honest, I haven't thought about it well. I need to discuss it with my family before making a decision, but I hope I have this choice."

But the city where she lives will determine where Lu Mingzheng will change his career in the future.

Lu Mingzheng was silent for a moment and nodded slightly: "Of course you have to discuss this matter with your family, and we can discuss it again."

Hearing that he did not agree immediately, Zhu Xiaomin did not pursue him for attitude, and continued: "There is still work. I know that your family can contact a good unit, but it may not be the one I want to go to, so I don't want them to do it." Arrangements, I have to think carefully before making a decision."

She didn't want the Lu family to interfere in her life, let alone take a dominant position.

In fact, to put it bluntly, she was afraid of the Lu family.

If the people in the Lu family were like the aunts in the village, the type who behaved and acted unreasonably, she wouldn't be afraid. The scary part was that the people in the Lu family were all reasonable. Anyone who talked about reason would be arrogant. Come on, condescending teaching.

In her previous life, the incident at the ranger's hut left an indelible stain on her resume, and also made her look inferior in front of the Lu family. In such an unequal status, they arranged a job for her, stipulated the rules of her life, and finally took away her child.

She was so depressed that she was suffocating, but almost everyone was accusing her of being ungrateful. Everyone told her to think about Lu Mingzheng and her children. In her world, everyone had them, but she didn't. own.

If the Lu family hadn't put such strong pressure on her in her previous life, pushing her to the brink of collapse, she and Lu Mingzheng would not have reached the final stage.

In this life, even if she would still be with Lu Mingzheng, she still hoped to keep a distance from the Lu family and just have normal interactions, preferably without disturbing each other.

There are too many girls who ask for various help from their husband's family through marriage. Lu Mingzheng did not expect that she would put forward such a condition. After thinking about it, he asked for confirmation: "You mean, you don't want people from our family to influence you?" decision?"

Zhu Xiaomin corrected: "I don't want them to interfere in my life."

Lu Mingzheng was stunned for a while, and couldn't help but smile bitterly: "Why...I think you reject my family?"

Indeed...

Zhu Xiaomin was also stunned for a moment, pursed her lips and denied: "No, I just want to minimize the risk."

"Risk?" Lu Mingzheng was stunned, "You...you mean, there is a risk in marrying me?"

"Everyone you marry has risks." Zhu Xiaomin did not evade, "Lu Mingzheng, I have said before that it's not that you are bad, it's that I don't want to get married, I want to be free. The conditions now are to reduce the risk of marriage failure as much as possible. If you can't accept it, then I..."

"Okay, okay!" Before she could say the last sentence, Lu Mingzheng had already hurriedly responded, "I promise, you can choose your own job. I will not let my family interfere with you unless you need it." After saying that, Feeling aggrieved again, he whispered, "My family is not unreasonable."

She was just afraid that they would be reasonable.

Zhu Xiaomin was helpless: "There are many things that have nothing to do with right or wrong. You and I grew up in different environments, and our concepts will be different, and friction will inevitably arise. If they get involved too much, they will ask me to change. Let's not say whether I am willing to change or not. I am willing. If I change, then...will it still be me?"

Lu Mingzheng was silent, thinking for a while and nodded: "I understand."

"One last thing." Zhu Xiaomin felt her lips were a little dry, and she licked her lips before speaking with difficulty, "Lu Mingzheng, I... I don't actually have much confidence in marriage. If one day, you can't stand me anymore, or, I ...I can't hold on anymore, let's... let's get divorced, don't keep arguing endlessly and waste the last bit of love."

"Xiaomin?" Lu Mingzheng couldn't stand listening any more. He leaned over and grabbed her shoulders, asking in a low voice, "What are you talking about? How could I not stand you? How could we quarrel? How could we get to that point?"

How can anyone talk about divorce before they are married?

"I only said what if." Zhu Xiaomin raised her head and looked directly at him stubbornly, "Lu Mingzheng, no one can guarantee what will happen in the future. Since we are getting married, we will tie our happiness to each other. There is no one If one is happy, the other cannot be happy, I just say, if not happy, then we will separate."

In the last life, when the depression in her heart could no longer be suppressed, if he could let go, there wouldn't have been so many quarrels later, and she wouldn't have escaped.

Her tone was still so calm, as if she was just talking to him about a very ordinary matter, but through her reddish eyes, he could feel the sadness in her heart.

Lu Mingzheng's chest seemed to have been beaten by something. His breath was slightly suffocated. He gritted his teeth and finally nodded, saying with difficulty: "Okay, if...if you...you feel unhappy anymore, you can tell me, if... …If I can’t change, I’ll let you go.”

He said it hard, but very solemnly.

Zhu Xiaomin felt relieved, breathed a sigh of relief, held his hand on her shoulder with her backhand, and said softly: "That's it. The most important thing is between me and you. Even if there is a dispute, it can only be The two of us discussed it, and I refused your family’s intervention, nor did I accept their guidance, there was no discussion on this.”

"Xiaomin!" Lu Mingzheng shouted after hearing her strong words.

"I know your family is very important to you." Zhu Xiaomin responded promptly, "So, Lu Mingzheng, you can reconsider our relationship. If you can accept it, then get married. If not, I understand."