Help! She was caught up in crazy criticism

Ning Yuchu asked, "But he can also make friends and fall in love normally. He has good friends and a very kind and beautiful girlfriend."

"In my opinion, there is no problem with his interpersonal relationships."

There is no problem with his interpersonal communication, so where does the problem arise?

Chu Yubai smiled, "Yes, they usually have no problem, because your parents have passed away, so he naturally considers you to be his closest person, and he relies very much on this relationship."

"Thirteen-year-olds are in puberty and coincide with major changes. They are affected by endocrine and may have physical and psychological problems."

"Did you ask a psychiatrist for guidance at that time?"

Ning Yuchu replied, "No, he was very depressed and quiet at that time and didn't want to see outsiders, so I was the one who accompanied him more."

Chu Yubai nodded with deep approval, "It's understandable. Puberty is the age when boys and girls start to have feelings. At that time, he considered you who accompanied you as the person closest to him, so he had some twisted psychology."

Ning Yuchu frowned, twisted?

Chu Yubai explained: "He regards you as the closest person, and he does not allow anyone to destroy this close relationship. He can make friends because he knows that you hope that he is a person with a sound personality. If your If he looks away, he may not think about things so rationally."

Ning Yuchu frowned, "But he has been in a relationship for four years, affectionate and stable. They have been together in school for such a long time, and his girlfriend knows him very well. If..."

Chu Yubai interrupted her with a smile, "But people's hearts are biased, and they will always favor the person they care about more. How can a paranoid relationship be given to two people? He doesn't have two hearts."

"Some things are more convenient to change yourself than to change others. But the crux of this matter is him. If he doesn't change, I always feel that something bad will happen and his emotions will become uncontrollable."

Because Lian Xi would not give up easily, he would inevitably come into contact with her.

When Ning Yunjing saw it, he would definitely think too much.

She didn't want to go through last night's conversation again.

Chu Yubai raised his eyebrows casually, "Oh? Why do you want him to change? Don't you want to regard him as the most important person?"

Ning Yuchu looked at him quietly, "I can't stay with him forever in my life. He will be accompanied by his wife and children. If he keeps this idea for a long time, it will cause harm to his future family. A very big impact.”

Chu Yubai curled her lips, "Mr. Ning is thinking deeply."

Ning Yuchu looked at him with clear eyes, "I cannot affect his normal life in the future, and if he remains hostile to the people who appear around me, this is not what I want to see."

Chu Yubai also looked back at her, "But my suggestion is, don't forcefully change his mind, it will only be counterproductive."

"This type of person can distinguish between right and wrong. They have no difficulty in dealing with life matters, but to him, you do not belong to this category. In his view, you just belong to his sister. .”

Seeing the subtle change in Ning Yuchu's expression, he continued, "I just said that Mr. Ning has no friends. If you make friends and go out with friends, I think he will not be able to accept it."

"What kind of mentality does he have?" Ning Yuchu frowned and suddenly remembered what happened when she was fifteen.

It was a hot summer day, and he came back covered in sweat after playing basketball, while she was sitting at her desk studying questions for her senior year of high school.

He asked her at that time, "Sister, are you lonely without friends?"

She had no free time to play and had endless things to do, so she didn't feel lonely.

So her answer was, "No."

She thought Ning Yunjing was gone, but she didn't know how long it took before she felt that he was closer to her. She said in a brisk tone, "Yes, sister, I am enough."

She remembered it so clearly because he was very close to her when he was talking, looking at the questions she had done, and even dropped a drop of sweat on her question book.

"It's definitely unhealthy. After all, it's impossible for parents to control their children to this extent." Chu Yubai's words interrupted her thoughts.

She came back to her senses and asked: "In this case, if he comes to you in person, can you enlighten him?"

Chu Yubai smiled and denied, "It's best not, he will think that you think he is sick."

Chu Yubai drank tea elegantly. The two siblings really had opposite temperaments.

Should I say that she has a strong ability to withstand pressure, or that she is just indifferent.

Or maybe someone is too greedy.

When Ning Yuchu walked out of the psychological consultation room building, the mask covered most of his face, leaving only a pair of eyes exposed.

She asked the bodyguard to park the car elsewhere, and she had to walk over by herself.

Chu Yubai's meaning is very simple. It cannot be reversed by force, but how to proceed step by step?

This situation is not normal, it is pathological. If this continues, it will be impossible for them to live a normal life.

After she left, Chu Yubai loosened his tie and called Ning Yunjing.

"She left?" Ning Yunjing asked.

Chu Yubai hummed, "But your sister is nothing like you. She is very calm and calm. But you, there are waves under the calm. If you are too close to her, she will be hurt."

Ning Yunjing didn't speak, and Chu Yubai teased: "Your sister wanted you to come here for treatment, but I refused. However, as a brother-in-law, I can give you some guidance. After all, we get along well, right?"

"You probably want to die." Ning Yunjing said coldly to him.

Chu Yubai said with a hurt tone, "Oh, oh, you are so cruel."

Ning Yunjing would not accept such words, and he continued without being cold-hearted, "A calm person like your sister is very suitable for marriage."

"Shut up." Ning Yunjing scolded.

Chu Yubai said with a mean mouth, "I'm serious, she will weigh the pros and cons, right and wrong, how good is the marriage, how to treat each other equally, and respect each other as guests. If she can't do it, even if the other party goes out to steal sex, she will choose to endure it for the sake of the situation, how good it is. Marriage partner. And he won't make hysterical noises..."

"Shut up." A voice that was almost a growl interrupted Chu Yubai's tirade.

"Are you angry?" Chu Yubai just smiled faintly.

"But she has always shouldered too much and is relatively independent in character. This is also the reason for you. You are younger than her and need to rely on her, so she has to take on the responsibility of taking care of you in the saddest time. It’s very hard! She looks lonely, has no friends, and has never told anyone her true feelings. It’s really amazing that she can be so strong and not fall down!”

Ning Yunjing said in a cold tone: "She doesn't need it, it's enough for her to have me."