Marry first and try love: After a flash marriage, the boss becomes wild and promiscuous

Although Deng Wenjun was married, her marriage was just like a child's play. Fan Like didn't bother her at all about the betrothal gifts and dowry.

He just handed her a card and the amount of money inside scared her to death.

It doesn't matter if she is a dowry or not, he can afford to support his wife anyway, no matter how much money she spends with him, there is no need for her.

Therefore, Deng Wenjun’s experience in this area is zero.

But this matter, even a simple person like Deng Wenjun couldn't tell what was wrong after listening to it, but it seemed that something was wrong.

Qiao Yu is a big star with a net worth of over 100 million. How does she know about the betrothal gifts and dowries for ordinary men and women like this? He stared innocently at Wen Jing and Shen Xi.

The two looked at each other. Shen Xi had a good relationship with Deng Wenjun, so she spoke.

"Of course something is wrong. This man's family is too scheming. Let your sister be careful."

"Ah?" Deng Wenjun looked at her doubtfully: "Scheming? Why?"

Chen Xi stuffed another piece of fruit pulp into his mouth, clapped his hands reluctantly, cleared away the peeling residue, and then snapped his fingers towards the card table: "Old Zhou, come here, let Wenjun learn some science."

Zhou Yunxiao threw out a piece of cake, and Fan Like said "bump" and took the piece of cake over happily.

He smiled and told everyone in a soft voice: "In this case, the man's family is guarding against the woman. According to the law, if the money is transferred from the parents' account to the man's account, and then given to the woman as a bride price. In the event of a divorce in the future, this money will need to be returned in full to the man’s parents.”

"What?" Deng Wenjun was stunned: "But this is a betrothal gift, why should it be returned?"

Zhou Yunxiao still smiled cordially and explained gently and carefully: "Let's not talk about whether the divorce gift can be refunded or not according to the current legal regulations. Let's just talk about this money. If it is paid into the man's account by the man's parents, then legally Just admit it, this is a loan, not a gift.”

"In other words, the money was lent to the couple by the man's parents. No matter what they used it for, once they divorce, the man's parents can recover it, and the law also supports it."

"As for the woman's dowry, unless she deposits it into a card before marriage, she can only get it in and out. Otherwise, once the money is used after marriage, it will become the joint property of the husband and wife. In the future, the man can claim for division of."

"what?"

Not only was Deng Wenjun dumbfounded, but Wen Jing and Qiao Yu were also dumbfounded.

They are all relatively simple, or should be said to be relatively happy. They have not encountered scheming men, and they do not understand the sophistication of these people and the sinister hearts of these people.

"Actually, it should be said that the man is not cunning enough. If he did it directly and then sent the money to cousin Ling, they probably wouldn't think there was anything wrong. But he just said it again."

Deng Wenjun replied nonchalantly: "Actually, I accidentally let it slip..."

Zhou Yunxiao smiled at her: "You can also think of it as God's warning."

A blessed girl will not enter the door of unblessed people.

"They originally thought they had found a good husband's family. After all, they even admitted to renovating the wedding room..."

This silly girl, I guess the relatives of Deng Wenjun's family are relatively simple people, that's why she was tricked so miserably.

She added: "The thing that moved your cousin half to death is that she doesn't like decoration after marriage. You can decorate it according to her wishes. It's clear that you want to cheat her of the decoration fee."

"If you are really sincere, why don't you redecorate before marriage? I just want the woman to pay for it, and I pretend to be considerate and considerate to deceive you. You know, the money for decoration is quite a lot now, it can easily cost hundreds of thousands. At that time, the man said, "I will decorate according to your wishes, and the money will be used for the wedding. If you don't contribute, will your cousin take the money or not?"

Take it, you have to spend your own money, the house doesn't have her name on it yet.

Don't take it, people will say you don't treat them as a family, you are too fussy.

Finally, I gave you the decoration money. If you get divorced, you won’t be able to take any of the decoration money with you.

The electrical appliances, furniture, etc. are all worn out and cannot be sold at a high price. At best, I am so angry that I just shovel off the walls and take them away. There is no benefit at all except venting your anger.

What's more, they even help the man dismantle them into rough parts so that he can trick his next wife into redecorating...

"Although no one gets married with the intention of getting divorced, you must not have the intention of harming others, and you must have the intention of being on guard against others."

Zhou Yunxiao looked at the girls and smiled, handsome and gentle: "As lawyers, we have seen too many girls who were calculated until the end and had nothing. Every one of them is devoted to love, to their husbands, to their families, and to the family. Good expectations, thinking about the family and not worrying too much.”

The more you are willing to give, the more you will give. When the sunk cost is high, leaving is not an easy thing.

Because, I won’t be reconciled.

"Only when you are divorced can you really know whether your partner is a human or a ghost. When the relationship is good, it is actually difficult to tell."

Deng Wenjun was silent.

Her cousin had called her so happily to share that she had found a good home. There are so many couples who break up because of the failure to agree on the bride price, but her boyfriend didn't hesitate at all when discussing the bride price.

Her father-in-law and mother-in-law looked good, and she was lamenting her good luck.

Who knows, the murder knife is hidden in the dark.

Qiao Yu slammed the table angrily: "Break up! Who dares to marry such a calculating man?"

From here to there, in the days to come, there will be more than just one or two things planned.

Deng Wenjun couldn't say the words to persuade others to break up. She looked at Shen Xi for help: "Xiaoxi..."

"You don't have to persuade her to break up. Just tell her what Lao Zhou said as it is, and suggest to her that it's best to listen to the opinions of her family on this matter. That's all."

We are all adults and can make our own decisions.

If you advise someone to break up, they may not be willing to listen. Even if I listen, if I don't live well in the future, I will think about it, if I hadn't broken up at the beginning, would my life be better than now?

Then it was you who persuaded me, and you are the culprit. Because it’s better to blame others than yourself, so you won’t feel guilty.

Shen Xi never advises others to break up. Whether they are relatives or friends, they must have a sense of boundaries.

Some people may say that you are not a real friend.

But, to be honest, her friend helped her analyze the stakes and then let her make the decision. It's not like you decide for her.

At the same time, we must also learn to respect other people's choices.

Just like Ye Zhenzhen and Wang Haidong were now in a quarrel that was almost turning into a bloody family drama, Shen Xi still didn't persuade them to break up.

Because people will always over-beautify the choice they didn't make and then regret it later.

If you want to use human nature to test friendship, how many friends will you have left?

It's not because friendship is not strong enough, but because we are all human beings and have weaknesses and shortcomings.