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Ah Lun stared at Shen Xi blankly without saying anything.

Shen Xi continued to question Ah Lun's mother: "Why do you have to share? If the child doesn't want to share, why do you force him?"

"Just so you can have a reputation as someone who can educate children?"

Ah Lun's mother's face changed: "You are talking nonsense!"

"I don't know if it's nonsense or not." Shen Xi smiled: "I only know that your Ah Lun is more timid than when I first saw him, and he depends more on the adults' expressions."

Also more...like to please others.

This was too hurtful to the child, so Shen Xi didn't say it out loud.

Sharing is indeed a virtue, but this kind of sharing should be what the children want to share. Adults can guide but cannot force.

Why do we have to let others share the things we like to play and eat?

This kind of coercion is very hegemonic in itself.

Why don’t you share your favorite clothes and your money?

Children also have a desire for exclusivity. If this desire is not satisfied when they are young, how much time, money and energy will they spend to make up for this shortcoming of their childhood when they grow up?

Some children may even become people-pleasing people because of this. Isn't it tiring to live like this?

Why can’t children give when they want to and not give when they don’t want to? Why can’t they say no?

Don’t children have their own ideas?

Should they be bullied like this just because they are young?

Why? Because you are a parent?

Shen Xi could not agree with the educational philosophy of a parent like A Lun's mother, and what he disapproved even more was her complacency.

She thinks she is very good at educating children. Her children are very generous and willing to share everything with others.

What about the child’s wishes?

Ah Lun's mother looked very unhappy. After a few heavy gasps, she said, "People with different beliefs cannot work together. I am too lazy to talk to you!"

He bent down, picked up the child, turned and walked away.

Ah Lun stared at Shen Xi blankly, with an expression that contained an... indescribable feeling.

Who says children don’t understand?

They actually understand it, they just can't express it.

Shen Xi reached out and stroked Caibao's face: "Bao'er, if you want to let others play with it, then give it to them. If you don't want us to play with it, then just say no. Got it?"

Caibao had been leaning on the steering wheel with her chubby hands on her chin, quietly watching her mother quarreling for her. When she heard what her mother said, she immediately smiled and nodded.

Mom is awesome, baby feels so safe.

The quarrel was only temporary, and soon the children gathered around the treasure car again, touching it and having a lot of fun.

Shen Xi took a few steps back so as not to disturb the children playing.

An auntie who was familiar with him came over and advised: "Xiao Shen, don't bother with A Lun's mother. She is just like that."

Another auntie also said: "Yes, I think if she continues to raise the child like that, she will really ruin him."

Any child playing here could take her son's toys and food. If the child refused to give them, she would criticize him. As time went on, A Lun became more and more timid. He would not dare to say a word when others took his things.

At the same time, he also likes to take other people's things...

Because he doesn't know that this is wrong.

"You don't know, her mother-in-law and husband are very powerful, she herself has no job, and I heard that her family is also poor and powerless, so she blames her husband's family. How can she have a say in her husband's family?"

An auntie who knew the inside story came out to expose the information.

Ah Lun's mother has to listen to her mother-in-law and husband at home, and dares not offend anyone outside. Even her child has become a people-pleasing person.

After listening to this, Shen Xi sighed in his heart.

Before children go to school, most of their education comes from their parents. The children will mostly develop the same character as their parents.

For example, A Lun, he watched his mother being timid and submissive in front of his father and grandmother every day, and doing whatever they said. He also became sensitive and timid, fearing that he had done something wrong.

How can a child brought up like this have confidence?

Although Shen Xi does not agree with A Lun's family's educational methods, he is someone else's child. Everyone has their own way of educating their children, as long as they think it is good.

She didn't want to comment on anything.

If it weren't for A Lun's mother jumping out to talk about treasure today, Shen Xi would not have bothered to pay attention to her.

She watched her daughter play with the other children silently, and Caibao herself would handle the relationships with the children who wanted to play with her toys.

She would make the rules.

You can play, but you have to get her consent.

She won't give it to you, and she won't give it to you no matter what you say.

The children also listened to her and behaved well.

Shen Xi stepped back a few steps and walked to her husband's side. Chen Chuan was playing games on his phone. When his wife came back, he didn't even raise his head and asked with a smile, "Are you relieved?"

"Huh? What?"

"Your daughter is a very principled person and won't be easily deceived by others."

"So, Ms. Shen, you don't have to worry about her being cheated by Huang Mao in the future."

He is so smart, it is hard to deceive him. The yellow-haired guy can only deceive the stupid girl.

cut.

Shen Xi looked at him with disdain. He was just starting out, but how could he be so confident and certain?

but--

She saw others bring a bunch of delicious and fun things to Caibao, and curry favor with them. Only then did Caibao allow them to touch the car with a painful look on his face...

What is she doing? She is doing an equal exchange, waiting for the value in the treasure's heart.

The key is that his acting skills are on his face.

The children who were allowed to touch the cars were as happy as if it were New Year’s Day, and they were happy and proud.

It seems like I've gotten a huge bargain.

Shen Xi:......

She also felt that Caibao was such a smart kid since he was young, it would be hard to cheat him... It was just a car.

Yes, she looks like Chen Chuan. Who can deceive Chen Chuan?

Shen Xi was relieved.

Seeing Chen Chuan so calm, she began to reflect, and felt that she should learn more from him in the future, not be surprised by praise or criticism, not be upset, and keep a calm mind -

Let go of the ghost!!

When Shen Xi got up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, she suddenly found that her husband and daughter were gone.

Well, thinking about my daughter’s big meal at night, I guess she went to poop again.

This child is a typical eater and pooper. Only Chen Chuan has the patience. When Caibao poops, he will stay by her side and tell her stories.

Mysophobia? Your own child’s poop doesn’t smell at all.

As soon as she walked to the bathroom door, she heard Chen Chuan's magnetic voice.

"Bao'er, look, these people are all bad guys. If you see them next time, just stay away from them, okay?"

"Oh, ummm~~" Caibao nodded, clenched his fists and sat on his toilet.

Huh? Instead of telling stories today, are we going to spread some safety knowledge?

Shen Xi curiously stood on tiptoe to take a look——

Ha ha ha ha! !

Chen Chuan took an apple pie and showed it in front of the treasure.

On the screen, one photo after another was sliding by, all of them were non-mainstream pictures of people with yellow, purple, and red hair...even people with green hair were not spared.