After one night, the president wants to chase me

Shang Yucheng hugged his daughter and returned to the retest apartment with Tong Xinyao. Tingting quickly regained her energy, as if what just happened had never happened.

Shang Yucheng looked at his daughter's innocent smile and sighed secretly in his heart, children are children, their world is always so simple, happiness and sadness come and go quickly.

However, he knew that some things couldn't just pass so easily. He decided to have a good talk with his daughter and let her understand that pushing and grabbing toys are wrong behaviors and will hurt others.

"Tingting, you pushed down little Lin Xinyang and kid Lin Xinyang to grab your toys today. Do you think this was right?" Shang Yucheng asked his daughter gently.

Tingting lowered her head: "No."

"Then do you know why this is?" Shang Yucheng asked next.

Tingting hesitated for a moment, then whispered: "Because it will hurt others."

"That's right," Shang Yucheng nodded, "our actions, no matter how big or small, will have an impact on others. Pushing people will hurt people, and grabbing toys will make people feel sad. We must respect other people's feelings and not do harm. Other people’s business.”

"Then what should I do to avoid hurting others?" Tingting asked curiously.

"First of all, you must learn to control your emotions," Shang Yucheng explained patiently. "When you feel like getting angry or pushing others, stop and think about the consequences of doing so. Secondly, you must learn to respect No matter how good other people's things or toys are, they belong to others and cannot be taken away without permission."

Tingting listened very seriously, her little face full of determination: "Dad, I understand, I will never push people or grab toys again."

Shang Yucheng smiled and kissed his daughter: "Very good, Tingting. Remember, each of us must be responsible for others and ourselves. We must have the courage to admit and apologize when we have done something wrong."

Tong Xinyao heard their conversation from the side and added: "Tingting, in the future there will be snacks and toys that can be shared with the children. Just like today, Lin Xinyang wants to play with you on the early education machine. You two can play together, you know?"

Tingting nodded, seeming to understand what her mother meant.

Shang Yucheng looked at his daughter's serious little face, and his heart was filled with joy: "Very good, Tingting. As you grow up, you know more and more. Remember, each of us is responsible for our own actions and must do our best. A responsible person.”

Tingting felt a little sad and asked: "Lin Xinyang said that after my parents got divorced, they no longer wanted me. Is this true?"

Shang Yucheng and Tong Xinyao looked at each other and knew in their hearts that this issue needed to be taken seriously. Shang Yucheng gently held Tingting in his arms and said softly: "Tingting, you have to believe that your parents will always love you and will always take care of you and be by your side."

Tong Xinyao said: "Dad is right, mom will always love you and stay with you."

Tingting listened to her parents' words and nodded slowly. Although she was young, she understood

After a busy afternoon, it was already dark. Shang Yucheng stood up and said, "I'm going to cook. Xinyao, you can play with the child for a while."

Tong Xinyao nodded

Shang Yucheng walked into the kitchen and started busy. He carefully prepared dinner, while Tong Xinyao played with Tingting. She told Tingting stories one after another and played with the children with building blocks.

After staying with her for a while, Tong Xinyao got up and went to the kitchen to see if there was anything she could do to help.

Tong Xinyao said: "Do you need my help?"

Shang Yucheng said: "No need."

"Do you really want to transfer Tingting to another school?"

Shang Yucheng nodded: "Today's events were watched by so many children. I'm afraid that if she stays there, she will be isolated and bullied by other children. I'm afraid that she will not be happy there."

Tong Xinyao said: "But the new environment is also full of fear for her."

Shang Yucheng said: "Then look for her slowly and let her stay at home for a while. After this matter is over, she can go to a new kindergarten. I will ask the nanny and my mother to come over tomorrow. We both have to go to work during the day. Let her They take it with them, and we come back to stay with her in the evening.”

Tong Xinyao nodded silently, she understood Shang Yucheng's mood. As parents, they all want the best for their children.

Shang Yucheng continues to be busy, his techniques are skillful, and every step is full of love for food and care for his family. While the soup was simmering, he carefully adjusted the heat to ensure the soup was rich. When cooking, he carefully controls the oil temperature to make every dish delicious in color, flavor and flavor.

Looking at Shang Yucheng's back busy in the kitchen, Tong Xinyao was filled with gratitude. She knew that this was all for her and her children. In her heart, Shang Yucheng is not only outstanding, but also a responsible father.

She walked over gently and hugged him from behind. Shang Yucheng was stunned for a moment, then smiled: "What's wrong?"

Tong Xinyao said: "I am very lucky to meet you."

Shang Yucheng turned around and hugged her gently: "Are you touched?"

Tong Xinyao nodded

Shang Yucheng gently stroked her hair: "Don't worry, Tingting is fine."

Tong Xinyao said: "Actually, today Lin Xinyang's mother said that Tingting didn't share toys and that she had a mental problem. When she pushed someone and fell, I felt very uncomfortable. Is it because we were divorced and I didn't accompany Tingting well, so she behaved like this? "

Shang Yucheng said: "This is not your fault at all, nor is it Tingting's fault. You are right in what you said."

"What?"

Shang Yucheng said: "You said that if Lin Xinyang hadn't grabbed the toy first, it's wrong. Our daughter was sitting there watching the early childhood education machine. How could she push someone? Who did she provoke? It was clearly someone else who provoked her first. Someone else's Why should I ask others to share things? My daughter has the right to refuse. She has done nothing wrong. It is very important to learn to refuse when facing unreasonable demands from others. Otherwise, others will think that my daughter is easy to bully and ask her to be a rose with thorns."

"Xinyao, think about it. If my daughter hadn't been brave enough to say no today, she might have been bullied at school because she was weak and wouldn't refuse anyone's request. Everyone would come to snatch her toys and snacks. She You dare not say anything and become the target of bullying by others. Do you think this is true?"

Tong Xinyao said: "You are right."

Shang Yucheng said: "Okay, you can go out first. The smell of cooking fumes in the kitchen is strong. I'll call you after I've finished cooking."

Tong Xinyao nodded and exited the kitchen obediently.

Soon, a sumptuous meal was placed on the table. Shang Yucheng brought out a bowl of steaming chicken soup, which was full of aroma and made people salivate. He blew it gently and handed it to Tong Xinyao.

He put his daughter on the dining chair again

"Tingting, what kind of food do you want to eat? Dad will feed it to you."

"Let her eat it by herself"

"That's okay. Whatever food Tingting wants to eat, daddy will pick it up for you."

Every time Tong Xinyao's family of three gets along, she feels really happy