Rebirth: My girlfriend is a paranoid

Is this how he talks to his adoptive father?

Xie Shu was speechless for a long time, and finally shook his head: "Don't worry about that kind of thing. The most important thing you should do now is to take action. Just thinking is useless."

Is it possible that someone else took the initiative to send it over?

It is not ruled out that some girls will take the initiative, but not all.

Just like him and Ruan Nianxi... He really felt that if he didn't take the initiative to find her in this life, she would probably keep all her thoughts to herself like in her previous life.

And some girls are shy, and it’s okay for boys to take the initiative.

Li Da scratched his head hesitantly, and it took him a long time to hold back a sentence: "Isn't this too licking?"

Thanks: "..."

Why don't he listen to what he's saying?

How can a normal pursuit be called licking?

"It's... the situation I just mentioned about you. Didn't you just lick... cough!"

"..."

good good!

He's here again, right?

Seeing Xie Shu's face darken, Li Da quickly made amends: "Father, I've never been in love, I'm inexperienced!"

Forget it, who calls him the father? Be more generous.

After a few seconds of silence, Xie Shu expressed his opinion.

In his eyes, it is normal for everyone to pursue the person they like, and some of the care and greetings during this period, including sending gifts, are all normal.

It is normal to not get an accurate reply to one or two confessions. After all, the other party also needs time to think about it. Boys are worried about meeting a scumbag, and girls are also worried about meeting a scumbag, so they will observe the confessor while they are thinking about it.

Just imagine, if you were in a good relationship and suddenly fell out of love, wouldn't you feel uncomfortable?

People with fragile hearts will probably be hurt for a long time, right?

People who really want to fall in love will worry about getting hurt. Few people will agree directly before they are sure about the true personality of the confessor. After getting along for a long time, the other party will slowly understand and will naturally agree.

Also, some people pursue fast-food love, and immediately give up and switch to the next target if they can't catch it in a day or two.

In order to avoid meeting this kind of person, some people naturally dare not agree with the other person when they confess their feelings.

Some people do succeed after confessing their love once, and the relationship will always be very good after that, but this usually happens when both parties know each other very well, such as childhood sweethearts, classmates, friends, etc. To put it bluntly, it is normal contact. There are many people who know each other's behavior and trust each other very much.

For people like Li Da and Xin Yulan, Xie Shu felt that it would be okay if their progress was slower. Both sides should know each other better.

Of course, there is another way... that is to keep hanging on to you for a long time, months or even years, without giving you a clear indication, or rejecting you at first but then giving you a little hope to feel that you can succeed. In that case...

You can give up as soon as possible.

This kind of love is not suitable.

Even if you persevere and finally succeed in pursuing the other person, there is a high probability that the love between the two parties will be unequal in the end, and there is a high probability that they will not be happy.

But, this may not always be right. Anyway, after analyzing specific matters in detail, all he can give is suggestions.

"Anyway, keep working hard. Whether you succeed or not depends on you." After Xie Shu finished his analysis, he patted Li Da on the shoulder to encourage him.

"Remember to be patient and buy whatever gifts you need. As for what to buy, it varies from person to person. Everyone has their own favorite things. You can usually pick her up on this and see what she likes and write it down. "

Regarding giving gifts, Xie Shu didn't make random suggestions.

She likes all the things he usually buys for Ruan Nianxi, but he is not sure whether others are the same as her. Everyone has their favorite color preference. He will not elaborate on this and let him ask himself.

After saying thank you, he immediately continued: "When you chase girls, sometimes you have to spend money. You can just chase them. If you are short of money or something, just come to me. As your adoptive father, I still have the obligation to help you." .”

Li Da was a little surprised: "Really?"

"Of course, just ask me. It doesn't matter whether it's thousands or tens of thousands. As long as you ask, I will definitely help you. But tens or hundreds won't work."

"why?"

"Because I really do."

"..."

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At night, the moon is white and the wind is clear.

Xie Shu chatted with Ruan Nianxi on vx as usual.

During this period, Tang Man persisted in sending several messages to Xie Shu, but Xie Shu ignored them all. He didn't even click on them and stayed with Ruan Nianxi attentively throughout the whole process.

It was probably because Ruan Nianxi hadn't had much rest in the past two days, and she felt sleepy very early that night.

Ruan Nianxi originally wanted to stay up longer and continue chatting with Xie Shu, but she couldn't help closing her eyes and fell asleep several times, and finally woke up suddenly to continue chatting with Xie Shu.

The speed of her replying messages was sometimes fast and sometimes slow. Xie Shu soon noticed something strange and sent a message asking her if she was sleepy. Ruan Nianxi didn't want to admit it at first, but after Xie Shu asked a few more times, she still told the truth. Out.

After thanking Shu, he didn't disturb her again. He said good night to her in advance and let her sleep.

Xie Shu stopped chatting with her, so Ruan Nianxi had no choice but to sleep.

Although it was already dark, it was still relatively early compared to Xie Shu's previous bedtime.

He wasn't sleepy yet, and he had done a lot of homework, but he didn't want to do it any more, so in the end he started wandering between various softwares.

I don't know how much time passed later, but the name "Tang Man" popped up on the screen of his mobile phone, and she sent another message.

I almost forgot that she had sent him a message a long time ago.

So Xie Shu quit the current software and went to Tang Man's chat box in vx to type a reply: [Sorry, I was just playing on my phone and didn't have time to reply to your message. 】

Tang Man: [...It's okay, senior, are you free now? 】

Xie Shu: [Well, I’ve had enough fun and am ready to go to bed. 】

Tang Man: [Is it so early? It's only nine o'clock! 】

This is indeed much earlier than their usual bedtime.

Xie Shu: [Well, I have classes tomorrow, so I’ll go to bed first. 】

Tang Man: [! ! I also have class tomorrow! Senior, are you in the morning or in the afternoon? By the way, when did you vote? When will you leave school? 】

Three minutes later...

Tang Man: [Senior, are you asleep? 】

ten minutes later......

Tang Man: [Are you really asleep? Why was there no warning at all? I thought the senior would say good night to me. 】

Half an hour later...

Tang Man: [Okay, good night first, senior. 】

After one night...

Tang Man: [Senior, are you awake? 】