The evil life of Jia Erhu

Lu Zhichao explained: “For any one of us, there are usually three nodes that change our outlook on life and way of thinking.

The first node is before and after marriage.

Our initial outlook on life and way of thinking will continue from our teenage years until we become husbands or wives, because changes in the content of life and the responsibilities we shoulder will subtly change our previous inherent outlook on life and way of thinking. .

The second node is before and after giving birth to a child.

If our role in the family before getting married has always been that of children, then after getting married, our role will transform into that of husband or wife.

When we have children, we become fathers or mothers, and our outlook on life and way of thinking will be completely different from before.

The third node is after our grandchildren are born.

When we become grandfathers or grandmothers, our outlook on life and way of thinking will undergo a subversive change compared to the past. "

Xiao Jie understood immediately: "Mr. Lu, do you mean to let Mr. Jia's brother get married early?"

"That's right." Lu Zhichao explained: "His younger brother's current outlook on life and way of thinking are the result of so many years of growth and development. Unless he has experienced a special life hardship, such as sudden disability of certain parts of the body, or like him, , was thrown into prison for violating the law and lost his personal freedom.

Otherwise, it is difficult to change a person's nature with ordinary threats and slight physical harm, not to mention that you can't hurt him.

No matter what he thinks now, since he has done something to hurt Jia Erhu, your threats to him will only temporarily make him regret and regret his actions.

But once this incident is over, if there is a better opportunity, he will also choose to hurt Jia Erhu again.

There is no other reason than that his outlook on life and way of thinking have not changed. He is just temporarily restricted by external forces and will rebound as soon as he has the opportunity.

But if he gets married at this time, it will be completely different. "

Xiao Jie nodded and said: "I understand. Take Zhao Jiawei as an example. If he were not married, in his mind, he would always feel that he was his mother's child and his brother's younger brother. Once something happened, there would always be someone in the family to take care of him. Carry.

If he gets married, for him, the couple's family is his real home, and his role has changed from son and brother to husband and head of the family.

His outlook on life and way of thinking must be to take on more responsibilities as a family and as a husband, and no longer be willful and naive as a son and brother. "

Lu Zhichao nodded and said: "That's right. The reason why he dares to report with his real name now, and is even prepared to fight to the death, is because he believes that his mother will protect him with all her life, and his brother will not kill him, so there is nothing wrong with him. Others are concerned about it, so they are reckless.

Because for him, there are no consequences at all.

But if he gets married, he will have scruples. If his mother can't save him, and his brother, even if he doesn't want his life, just throws him into prison through legal means, what will his wife do?

If he has a child, his psychological burden will be even heavier when he thinks about his own growth process.

This is the direct reason why many people become less courageous and think more rationally after getting married and having children.

If Zhao Jiawei is not in love, try to get him to be with another girl if possible.

If you are already in love, you should find a way to get him married as soon as possible. "

"Okay, I understand." After hanging up the phone, Xiao Jie muttered: "We have to change him!"

Sun Chao was shocked: "Why, are you planning to marry him?"

"What are you thinking about?" Xiao Jie asked Sun Chao to park on the side of the road, picked up her mobile phone and dialed Xu Feili's number: "Director Xu, could you please tell me Su Qianqian's mobile phone number?"

Xu Feili knew that Xiao Jie had nothing to do with Su Qianqian. She must have wanted this phone number to deal with Zhao Jiawei, so she didn't ask any questions and directly told Xiao Jie Su Qianqian's mobile phone number.

Xiao Jie immediately called Su Qianqian.

Su Qianqian, who was getting ready to get off work, hesitated for a while when she saw an unfamiliar mobile phone number, then clicked on it: "Hello?"

Xiao Jie said: "Su Qianqian? I am Xiao Jie, the vice president of Red Star Company."

Of course Su Qianqian knew her, her heart tightened, and she said uneasily: "Oh, Mr. Xiao, do you have anything to do with me?"

"Please wait for me at the door of the unit. I'll be there soon."

After saying that, Xiao Jie hung up the phone.

Su Qianqian frowned, wondering why Xiao Jie suddenly came to look for her.

She knew how powerful Xiao Jie was, and even knew that Xiao Jie was Jia Erhu's lover. Su Qianqian had always had a crush on Jia Erhu, and she felt guilty and worried that Xiao Jie would find out something.

In fact, she just had a crush. Except for that night at the night market, she had almost never met Jia Erhu. Xiao Jie was not a god, so how could he know that she had a crush on Jia Erhu?

However, after Zhao Jiawei and Han Jing moved into the rental house, she often went to see Han Jing. In fact, she wanted to have a chance encounter with Jia Erhu in the rental house.

Han Jing thought she was interested in Zhao Jiawei, but Zhao Jiawei saw that her thoughts were not on her.

Su Qianqian was worried whether Xiao Jie would get any hints from Zhao Jiawei. Otherwise, why would he call her suddenly out of nowhere?

Seeing that Su Qianqian was already standing at the door of the unit, Xiao Jie asked Sun Chao to take them to the Western restaurant later, and then went to have dinner himself and wait for her call later.

After the car stopped in front of Su Qianqian, Xiao Jie asked Su Qianqian to get in the car. Su Qianqian felt even more panicked, but she still got in the car.

After Sun Chao sent them to the Western restaurant, he went to a small shop nearby to eat.

Xiao Jie led Su Qianqian into a booth in the restaurant and sat down. After ordering the meal, she looked directly at Su Qianqian and asked directly: "Do you like our Mr. Jia very much?"

Su Qianqian was so frightened that her heart almost jumped out of her chest.

She tried hard to show disdain, but the muscles on her face had stiffened, and the sneer looked more like a bitter smile of fear. She wanted to be righteous, but she defended with a rather guilty conscience: "How is it possible, how could I like him? "

Xiao Jie asked back: "If it weren't for him, how could you become the unit chief? You have seen with your own eyes that any big social figure or big boss is nothing in front of him.

You are very smart, and of course you know that as long as you become his wife, let alone the section chief, the director of the State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission will be yours from now on.

Even if you no longer stay in the system, you can still become the boss lady of Red Star Company.

am I right? "

Su Qianqian wanted to fight back, but every word Xiao Jie said hit home. That's what she really thought.

Plus she knew what kind of person Xiao Jie was, would she beat him up on the spot if he was too tough?

The panicked Su Qianqian wanted to defend herself, but her mouth was dry because of fear. She swallowed hard, but she was still speechless.