The evil life of Jia Erhu

Xiao Jie smiled and said, "You are so smart and have such a high emotional intelligence, how come you can't even turn this corner?"

Jia Erhu smiled self-deprecatingly: "I have never felt that my IQ and EQ are higher than ordinary people, not to mention that the authorities are confused and the bystanders are clear.

If this problem occurs in other people's families, maybe I can analyze it rationally. Now that this problem involves my mother and younger brother, it is really difficult for me to calm down and think about it. "

Xiao Jie sighed: "Let's talk about Cao Yadan first. She not only likes you, she even treats you as the only one in her life.

It's just that she can position herself correctly and knows that you can't belong to her, so she buries her love for you silently in her heart and can sacrifice everything for you.

In other words, no matter what you ask her to do, she will do it without hesitation. "

Jia Erhu nodded and said: "What you mean is that if I let her marry my brother, she will not have any conditions, but she will not really love my brother in this life.

In the future, we became a family, and even if she and I would not have any relationship, her love for me that was buried deep in her bones would always be revealed inadvertently.

Once my mother or my brother realize this, I'm afraid my family will never be at peace? "

"Don't you understand very well?" Xiao Jie said: "Although you and your brother are twins, your temperaments are very different.

This is like if Wen Ruyu also had a twin sister, and if she fell in love with another man and asked you to marry her sister, would you do it? "

Jia Erhu nodded and said: "I understand. Even if I marry her sister, it is so that I can have more opportunities to see her in a big family.

As long as she is in need or in an inappropriate place, even if her sister becomes my wife, if her sister conflicts with her, I will not hesitate to stand by her side. "

Xiao Jie said: "Same reason. Your brother likes me, not just because of my appearance or temperament, it should include these two factors, but more importantly, a feeling.

This feeling usually has a specific object. Even if the substitute you are looking for exceeds this specific object in all aspects, it is impossible to transfer his feeling towards this specific object.

Cao Yadan is younger than me and more beautiful than me.

But in your brother's eyes, I'm afraid she is just a little girl. Judging from your brother's feelings for me, he is very much like you in that he likes mature women very much.

In fact, Chen Lingyan is really no worse than Wen Ruyu, but you chose the latter between the two.

If I hit an inappropriate place, even if Wen Ruyu can't marry you in this life, I'm afraid you won't marry Chen Lingyan. "

Jia Erhu nodded and said: "So my brother likes you specifically. Even if you cannot marry him, he will not think of marrying Cao Yadan."

Xiao Jie said: "Of course. Your brother is afraid of you and knows that you can determine the future direction of his life.

For the sake of his own life and future, he may give in to you and marry the woman you designate for him, but it has nothing to do with love.

If he marries Cao Yadan, it will be like tying two people together who are not willing to live with each other at all.

Their married life is undoubtedly like a zombie. They all have their own love in their hearts. In the fantasy-filled expectation, even if they fail to achieve their goals, they will break the pot and find their own fun. They will never because of The bondage of marriage makes them try to accept each other.

If they are together, in your big Jia family, there are two people living with different dreams, but one of them is thinking about you every day, and your brother and mother will realize this sooner or later. What do you think of the atmosphere of your whole big family? Will it be okay?

Will life be happy? "

Jia Erhu said: "Then according to what you say, as long as my brother fails to marry you, he will not be happy marrying anyone?"

Xiao Jie explained: "If he is unhappy when he marries someone else, that is his business and has nothing to do with you. But if he is unhappy when he marries Cao Yadan, the culprit is you, because the person Cao Yadan likes is you.

As for me, your brother will not be happy whether you marry me or not. "

Jia Erhu asked: "Why?"

Xiao Jie said: "I don't know when your brother started to fall in love with me at first sight. People like your brother are probably very similar to you in some aspects, and that is what they are sure of, and no one can change it.

He likes me now, and no matter what kind of woman I am, it is impossible to keep him away.

You told him about my past experience, and I even showed him the pregnancy test report, but he was indifferent.

The reason why he still refuses to give up is not because of how persistent his love is, nor how deep his feelings for me are. In a sense, it is because of his own vanity.

Because giving up on me based on just a few words between you and me, wouldn’t it prove that his previous choice was wrong?

In order to prove that he was never wrong, he would definitely marry me even if I was the worst scumbag in the world.

But after marrying, you will definitely regret it.

Because he will find that what is not obtained is beautiful, and once it is obtained, it is nothing more than that.

If he meets someone younger and more beautiful than me, he will fall in love with her without hesitation.

If the other party takes the initiative to pursue him, he will accept it without hesitation and then part ways with me.

This is not a high probability, but a 100% certainty that it will happen.

But if I don't let him marry me, he will regret it for the rest of his life. "

Jia Erhu nodded and said: "It is true. This is just like when we were children, we fantasized about delicacies from the mountains and seas every day, and always felt that they were the most delicious dishes in the world.

But once I had the conditions to taste it, I felt that it was just like that.

But if you never have the conditions to taste it, you will miss it for the rest of your life. "

Xiao Jie said: "So my advice to you is, not only Cao Yadan, you must not interfere with your brother's marriage, at least don't take the initiative to introduce him to a girlfriend, let alone force him to accept someone.

As for me, you have two choices. "

Jia Erhu glared: "Stop doing this! Stay at home honestly, let the child be born safely, and then let him grow up happily!"

Xiao Jie smiled and said, "Can you hear me out?"

"No!" Because Jia Erhu knew what Xiao Jie was going to say.

Xiao Jie said: "There is a problem, are you aware of it? There are many patients with depression now. If this matter is not handled well, your brother will easily suffer from depression."

Jia Erhu squinted at Xiao Jie.