The evil life of Jia Erhu

Tu Yalan sighed: "Through these few days of contact, I have learned that although your personality is not as public as some lesbians, in your restrained reserve, there is a kind of fortitude hidden in the sea.

You are a person with strong principles and a view of the overall situation. In this regard, Bai Jieping is not as good as you.

But now that Bai Jieping is the deputy director of the development zone, she still feels that she is overqualified and should have a broader future.

What I mean is that as long as you enter the official career, your character's appeal and influence will be enough to make you fully qualified for a leadership position at the municipal level.

If you didn't have this innate temperament and ability, I wouldn't be chatting with you today. I'm afraid you wouldn't be able to come to the provincial capital to study, let alone go to the Fourth and Ninth Cities. "

Wen Ruyu lowered her head in embarrassment and looked at her toes.

Tu Yalan continued: “In this world, a person’s ambition is usually greater than his or her ability.

If you have this ability, I think you will have greater ambitions. In the past, you just suffered from no opportunities. Now that you have the opportunity, you let it go to waste. I really don’t know what to say to you. "

Wen Ruyu hesitated for a while and said: "Leader Tu, to tell you the truth, I did have ambitions. Of course, leaders at the municipal level did not dare to hope for it. Even if I got the position of vice principal with your help, I never had it." Thought about it.

The original ideal was just to become the youngest professor at Hainan University like Jia Dalong.

After Jieping became a leader, she felt that I could do it, and I thought I was better than her, so she also thought about becoming the leader of the school's administrative department.

Because of your help, I feel extremely excited and proud, but also a little scared.

I haven't completely come out of this state yet, and now I'm asked to study in Sijiu City. After graduation, I may become a city-level leader.

To tell you the truth, I was nervous all day yesterday until Erhu came. After we discussed giving up this opportunity, although I felt a little regretful, it was really a relief, like a heavy burden had been lifted. "

Tu Yalan asked: "In other words, you still regret giving up this opportunity, but between this opportunity and eventually marrying Jia Erhu, you chose the latter.

Is it right? "

Wen Ruyu nodded.

"why?"

Wen Ruyu's cheeks were slightly red and she said nothing.

"As I just said, we are now talking between women and sisters. I hope you can express your true thoughts and reasons openly and honestly."

Wen Ruyu hesitated for a moment and explained: "To be honest, as a woman, although I have had various ideals and ambitions since childhood, my ultimate ideal is to be able to marry a satisfactory husband and have a happy life. A well-behaved and promising child, the family lives a happy life.

Whether as a vice principal or a city leader, if it does not affect my marriage with Jia Erhu, it will be the icing on the cake and a strong guarantee for our happiness.

In fact, when I came to the province to study this time, I was worried that being too prominent would affect my marriage with Jia Erhu, but I still had a lucky mentality.

After all, there is still a slight gap between school and society. What if no one gossips about what happened between me and him?

But this time it's different.

Before Mr. Zhou planned to help, he had already told Jia Erhu that if I entered the official career, Jia Erhu and I would never be together.

My struggle in career is for a happy marriage and a happy life. If I cannot achieve this goal, what is the value of my struggle in career, even if I am successful? "

Tu Yalan nodded: "Although you usually behave very rationally, in the face of big issues of right and wrong, you still reveal the weakness or characteristic of us women, which is that we are too emotional.

I think you should look back and think about it. After you enter the official career, it means that you cannot be with Jia Erhu. As you said, you will not get the happy marriage and happy life you want.

But if you give up your career and marry Jia Erhu, will your marriage be happy and your life happy? "

Wen Ruyu was stunned for a moment.

Tu Yalan continued: "You didn't live happily with Jia Dalong in the past, but now you feel very happy with Jia Erhu, and you are willing to give everything for him.

Even if you don't have to work, have children at home, take care of your husband and raise children, you will have no regrets in this life. That's because compared to Jia Dalong, Jia Erhu is so outstanding.

And his excellence will last forever.

At the same time, it would be difficult for people of his age to find someone better than him. You can't have a better choice, so he is your best and only choice.

But what about him? "

Wen Ruyu was startled and looked at Tu Yalan with confusion.

Tu Yalan said: "I believe that among the women he can come into contact with now, you are the best, even the most beautiful.

To him, your excellence lies in the fact that you are not too old but can become a lecturer in the university. It can be said that you have an aura of excellence.

If you can become a vice principal or even a city-level leader, the brightness of your aura will not only increase, but also affect him for a long time, making him always regard you as the eternal god in his heart.

But if you give up all this and become a housewife, or the boss's wife in his company, the two of you will spend every day together, bumping into each other.

Do you think he will still love you as much as he does now after the aura that once emanated from you, which was what attracted him the most, is exhausted in your daily chores? "

Wen Ruyu thinks so, because she believes that there is a basis of affection between herself and Jia Erhu, and Jia Erhu will never be an ungrateful person.

But before she could answer, Tu Yalan continued: "As the saying goes, a man is thirty-one flowers and a woman is thirty-year-old dregs.

Even if living conditions are better now and people's life span is longer, this sentence can be changed to "forty-one flowers for men and forty-year-old dregs for women".

Jia Erhu is six or seven years younger than you. How many years are left before you turn 40? Add to this the worries of having children, caring for a husband and raising children, household chores, and even the company's operating conditions.

It is not difficult to imagine that in a few years, you are likely to become a temperamental woman and a housewife like a shrew. And when the years accelerate, will Jia Erhu still love you as much as he does now?

Not to mention that as a boss, he will come into contact with all kinds of different women. There will always be young and beautiful girls surrounding him. There are also temperamental women from various departments and units who will have sex with him more or less frequently. touch.

Do you think he will still love you as much as he does now and will never change his heart? Doesn't that go against normal human nature?

The most terrifying thing is that when he is in his prime, has a successful career, or is even flourishing, you are gradually getting older in his mind. Don’t you think this is terrible? "