The evil life of Jia Erhu

Jia Erhu said: "Because I saw you don't have a bag."

Cao Yadan blinked again, but didn't say anything, but thought in her heart: What's the reason for you to buy it if I don't pack it? There are so many people in the world who don’t have bags. You wouldn’t buy one for everyone you meet, right?

Jia Erhu continued: "Some people don't buy what they need, but they want to have what they see others have, and it must be better than what others have.

Let’s just talk about this bag that you girls use. Depending on your current age, it’s okay not to carry this small bag. If you have this hobby, especially when you are resting or going out for a visit, it’s okay to carry this small bag. Acts as an embellishment.

In other words, this small bag should be optional.

It doesn't look like you're carrying a small bag like this when you're in school.

But when you go out to do errands with us, this small bag can also improve your taste and maturity.

Originally, I could buy you something more expensive, or even go to a brand store and buy a brand bag that costs 10,000 to 20,000 yuan each.

The reason why I didn't buy the most expensive thing just now, and even paid her back half the price, is to tell you one thing: when we buy something, we must first see if we need it, and secondly, buy the right one as well as the expensive one. "

Cao Yadan laughed: "Just tell me, no matter what you play, just buy the right ones, not the expensive ones, and don't pay that kind of IQ tax, right?

You have been wandering around for a long time, but those who don’t know think that you have no money, or that you are reluctant to spend money, but you make nonsense of it. "

Jia Erhu also smiled: "Yadan, you are my mother's goddaughter now. It turns out that you are my adopted sister. If nothing else, I am absolutely willing to spend tens of thousands of dollars to buy you a bag." .

The reason why I didn't do that and took this opportunity to express my thoughts is mainly to tell you one thing, that is, as your adopted brother, I will do my best to help you when you need it most.

My help to you will only be to help you solve your difficulties, not to let you show off in front of others. "

Cao Yadan tilted her head and asked, "Are we just sworn brothers and sworn sisters?"

Jia Erhu smiled: "This is another question. Let's discuss it again when we have the opportunity. What I want to tell you today, no matter how successful you are in the future, how much money you can make, or whether you marry a very Rich husband, you should live in your own happiness instead of living in the envy of others.

Envy is often the root of jealousy and hate. Once you arouse everyone's envy, it is not far away from arousing everyone's jealousy, hate, or even anger. "

Cao Yadan nodded: "But I have never thought of making others envious and jealous. I just don't want to be looked down upon by others."

Jia Erhu smiled and said: "No one in this world will look down on you because you are really bad. If you are ugly, poor, and a girl from the countryside, most people will only pity and pity you.

If you feel that someone is looking down on you now, it is because you are prettier than others, or because you have rejected other people's advances, so they will find ways to attack and belittle you.

You are a beautiful rural girl who has passed the university through hard work. Others really have nothing to disparage you. They will only say that you are from the countryside and your family is poor.

But you mistakenly believe that because you come from a rural area and your family is poor, you are inferior to others.

In fact, you don't understand that anyone who criticizes your origin is someone who is not as good as you, or even less diligent than you.

Take me for example. People in today's society, as long as they have strength, will admire and respect me.

Only those cowards who can't do anything to me, or even see me like a mouse to a cat, will call me a country bumpkin behind my back.

So no matter you or I, there is no need to take those people seriously, and there is no need to confirm anything to them.

Look at Zhao Xuerui, not only does she not look down on you, but she has become your good friend, and she is always trying to protect you from anyone. "

Cao Yadan nodded first, then suddenly felt that something was wrong. She frowned and asked, "Do you mean to say that Zhao Xuerui is prettier than me?"

Jia Erhu smiled: "I mean, she is more confident than you. If I didn't have a girlfriend, I would like you more."

Cao Yadan smiled, but not very happily.

She felt that Jia Erhu was comforting herself. From the moment Jia Erhu mentioned Zhao Xuerui, she knew that in Jia Erhu's mind, Zhao Xuerui must be better-looking than herself.

If Wen Ruyu were not his girlfriend, he would definitely pursue Zhao Xuerui instead of himself, which would hurt Cao Yadan's self-esteem somewhat.

However, Cao Yadan is not jealous of Zhao Xuerui. Even if she is not confident, she still knows it.

"Besides," Jia Erhu said, "Once your classmates ask you how much this bag costs, just say tens of dollars. Never tell the actual price."

Cao Yadan asked in confusion: "Why?"

Jia Erhu explained: "Most people in this world don't tell the truth, they only tell lies. But the same lies are told differently by people who are confident and those who lack confidence.

Just talk about your bag. A person who lacks self-confidence will only tell others that this bag cost thousands because she is afraid that others will look down on her.

Only someone who is not short of money and is confident will tell the price at a low price to prevent others from thinking that she looks down on others.

If your classmates are all from the countryside and you quote a high price, not only will you not win the envy of others, but you will also attract hatred, and others will stay farther and farther away from you in the future. "

Cao Yadan looked at Jia Erhu in surprise: "Have you studied psychology? Why do you know the psychology of my roommates and classmates?"

Jia Erhu smiled and said: "Don't forget, I am also a poor person, and I don't know what the poor really think. It's okay for everyone to be poor together, but whoever is rich is our enemy."

Cao Yadan smiled and touched Jia Erhu's shoulder with her head: "How are you?"

"why?"

"Don't tell you!"

Seeing Cao Yadan's innocent and cute shy expression, Jia Erhu's heart skipped a beat.

He prayed secretly in his heart: Such a lovely girl, I really hope she can live in happiness all her life!

If anyone hurts her, God will not tolerate it!

There happens to be a small midnight snack market not far away, with many stalls set up on the roadside.

They came to a barbecue stall and saw that Cao Yadan was a little embarrassed. Jia Erhu said, "Just order whatever you want to eat. There is no need to be reserved in front of me."

Cao Yadan asked shyly: "What do you like to eat?"

Jia Erhu said: "I'm not afraid of your jokes, because my family was poor when I was young, I had never had barbecue, and I didn't know what was delicious.

I'll eat whatever you order. Don't save money for me. If you save money for me, you won't let me eat good food. "

Cao Yadan's eyes lit up and she glanced at the things on the stall, feeling that everything was delicious.