The evil life of Jia Erhu

Gao Yide said with great emotion: "Mr. Lu, your teachings really enlightened me.

I have always believed that a person's success is mainly based on the family's strong financial strength and strong social resources. In fact, I have ignored the more important point, which is the advancement of personal ideas and concepts with the times.

Although I entered a leadership position at a very young age, I was always bound by my own inherent ideas and concepts. Regarding people's views on things, I thought I could assess the situation and adapt to changes. Although I was in a relatively closed environment in the school, I was able to And be able to integrate with society.

But after I really entered the society, I felt that my thoughts were very solid, even very narrow.

Let’s talk about my views on Teacher Wen. I stubbornly believe that she is still the teacher in the university lecture hall. In addition to devoting herself to teaching, not to mention her power and tactics, and even her social experience, she seems to be childish like a girl.

In my memory, everyone who knows her, apart from her concentration on teaching, seems to have the only advantage that she is good at cooking.

If it hadn't been for your guidance, I would never have been able to connect the Teacher Wen in front of me with the Teacher Wen in my memory. "

Lu Zhichao sighed: "Actually, what you said is absolutely right. Whether a person is successful or not is mainly based on the family's strong economic strength and strong social resources.

Because the financial strength of your family and the resources of society determine the track on which you can compete in life.

It's just like an athlete. Some people can only participate in amateur competitions. Even if they win the championship in all competitions, they are still amateur athletes.

Some people can participate in the World Athletics Golden League. Even if they are at the bottom every time, they still live a successful life and are envied and admired by most people.

Take you and me as an example. I was born in a restructured state-owned enterprise. Among my classmates, comrades-in-arms, colleagues and neighbors, I have become very rare and have become the center of conversation for everyone.

But so what? I just live at the bottom of society and look very glamorous.

Even now, they still envy me very much, because unlike them, I am not tired of work and family and spend all day traveling outside.

But the value behind my brilliance, to put it harshly, is like renewable waste in a garbage dump, compared with those big guys who drive private jets and yachts, travel around the world, and give guidance on life. Than, it's not in the same universe at all.

Take you as an example. Your ideas and concepts among the group you live in are not only advancing with the times, but can even be said to be ahead of the times.

While your peers are still concentrating on the lecture notes on their desks, worrying about whether they can get funding for their projects, and what the employment status of the students they teach is like, you have become the leader of the school.

While other school leaders were vying for power for the sake of prestige and interests, you were in the circle, but outside the circle. In terms of logistics, you sought all the benefits that a person in your position could. , and it can also be used both ways. It can be said that your humanoid life has become the most glorious one.

Even so, if the entire society is like a building, you and I are actually still in the basement, but closer to the ground than the other living beings in the basement.

Our position determines our height, as well as our insights and ideas.

Teacher Wen was originally below us, but now she has stepped onto the ground, or in other words, she is just about to step onto the ground, but has already received the sunshine, so based on your and my knowledge, it is impossible to guess what is inside her. true thoughts.

But there is one thing that can be said to be an unbreakable truth in life, that is, whether you face people or things, if you think the best of the other person, there is a high probability that you will be slapped in the face by the cruel reality.

If you think the worst about the other person and have a dark mentality, your life will always be in darkness.

So my point of view is that no matter how I deal with anyone or anything, I have beautiful visions and ideals, but I should always be careful of the traps in front of me and the cliffs behind me.

In other words, we all must be clearly aware that everyone and everything in this world has a double-sided nature to us.

As the saying goes, blessings and misfortunes rely on what they rely on, and misfortunes and blessings rely on them. Misfortunes and blessings depend on each other. "

These principles are not profound, and it is not that Gao Yide does not understand them at all. He has even told others the same principles on other occasions.

It's just that sometimes when you get deep into the situation, you can't see yourself clearly.

Just like everyone knows that staying up late is not good, and playing games all night is even worse. Losing oneself by playing with things is the biggest enemy in life.

When facing others, most people can see this problem clearly. When it is their turn, they have sufficient reasons to forget all this.

Gao Yide nodded repeatedly: "What Mr. Lu said is great. It's a pity that I wasn't very familiar with you in the past. I couldn't listen to your teachings earlier, otherwise I wouldn't have fallen to this point."

Lu Zhichao smiled and shook his head: "I'm not as miraculous as you said. We are all fans of the authorities and can only be clear to bystanders.

Although I talk endlessly and clearly, when it comes to practice, you and I are the same and cannot escape our limitations.

But having said that, because our perspectives are different and the environments we live in are also very different, if we deepen communication earlier, it can indeed serve as a reminder to each other and even knock each other out, which will help both you and me improve. "

Gao Yide smiled humbly and said: "No, no, Mr. Lu's experience can be said that every pearl is worth a thousand pieces of gold.

In addition, I have another very important thing that I would like to ask Mr. Lu for advice. Moreover, I sincerely regard you as a senior, and I also hope that you can treat me as your child and give me your advice. "

Lu Zhichao shook his head and said: "I'm serious, Xiao Gao. My family relationship with Xiao Ping is one thing, but the relationship between you and me is another.

It's rare that you and I are so speculative. If you have any questions, you can tell us and we might as well discuss it together. "

Gao Yide lowered his voice and said: "Presumably Mr. Lu knows better than me. Despite the meeting just now, Mr. Jia and Mr. Dongfang cooperated tacitly. Some things even reached the point of being in sync with each other. They even set the company's total share capital to 10 billion, just like It's as if they want to roll up their sleeves and go for a big fight. In fact, they, including the Ding Group, all have their own little calculations.

If it was just a matter of economic interests, it would be better to say that the problem was that the three families also involved the grudges of the previous generation.

In a sense, Mr. Jia's current state is that of dancing with wolves, single-handedly facing two powerful enemies that may cannibalize him.

I used to be a colleague of Teacher Wen, and Mr. Jia personally invited me here and entrusted me with the important task of general manager. Even if I don't say I repay my kindness, I can't be ungrateful.

But the problem is that the reason why I am here is very complicated and even difficult to explain.

Let me tell you this, whether I like it or not, the nature of the relationship between Mr. Jia and I is definitely not on the same page.

In other words, even if I choose to side with him, he will never treat me as a confidant.

Under such circumstances, once Dongfang Group and Ding Group join forces to cause trouble with Mr. Jia in the company, what attitude do you think I should adopt and whose standpoint do I speak from? "

Lu Zhichao was stunned for a moment: "Xiao Gao, it's normal for you to have such concerns, but what's abnormal is, why would you ask me for this question?"