Siheyuan: Sap is the last word
Chapter 824 Being Criticized Like This
Qin Huairu frowned and retorted, "I also think Jia Zhang is always too harsh and exaggerates the housework issues. I have tried my best to do things every day and I don't deserve to be criticized like this."
After listening to the two, He Yudong realized that the root of the problem was not only the housework itself, but also the communication problem between them. He tried to mediate, "I understand your feelings, Jia Zhangshi, you want the housework to be done perfectly, and Qin Huairu, you want some flexibility. We can find a middle solution."
Jia Zhang calmed down, but the dissatisfaction on her face was still obvious. "I just hope that everyone can take housework seriously and not be careless."
Qin Huairu's voice also softened. "I'm not being unserious. I just hope everyone can understand that I have my own difficulties."
He Yudong thought about it and decided to make some specific suggestions. "Maybe we can make a housework distribution table and clearly list everyone's responsibilities, so as to avoid misunderstandings about the distribution of housework. At the same time, we can set some relatively loose standards so that everyone feels more accomplished when completing housework."
Jia Zhang and Qin Huairu exchanged glances, seemingly considering He Yudong's suggestion. After a period of silence, Jia Zhang finally nodded, "Okay, we can try this method. I am willing to accept a reasonable distribution plan as long as everyone can do their best."
Qin Huairu also agreed, "I think this suggestion is good. We can follow this plan, and maybe it will reduce some unnecessary quarrels."
He Yudong felt relieved when he saw that the two people's attitudes had eased. He continued, "Since everyone has reached a consensus, let's make a specific plan. We can arrange a small meeting at home to discuss the distribution and standards of housework. There are some new changes in the courtyard. Under the coordination of He Yudong, Jia Zhang and Qin Huairu made a housework distribution table, clarifying everyone's responsibilities and tasks. This table not only lists the specific content of each housework, but also sets some flexible adjustment space to adapt to different situations.
Once the household chores allocation table was drawn up, everyone responded positively. After seeing the reasonable arrangement, Jia Zhang became more tolerant, and Qin Huairu also felt that she had gained more understanding and support in the process. The relationship between the two gradually returned to peace through constant communication and adjustment.
However, the life in Siheyuan did not completely calm down because of this change. Changes in the external environment continued to affect all aspects of the family. He Yudong continued to actively participate in family affairs and help everyone cope with various challenges.
In the process of dealing with housework problems, He Yudong gradually realized that family harmony is not only about the fairness of distributing tasks, but also about understanding and supporting each other. In the process of helping Jia Zhangshi and Qin Huairu solve problems, he also learned how to communicate and coordinate better.
In this process, the relationship between family members becomes closer, and everyone is working hard to maintain family harmony. Every day in the courtyard is full of challenges and opportunities. Everyone gradually finds their own rhythm and direction in constant adjustment and adaptation.
As the daily life of the courtyard gradually returned to normal, everyone's response to external changes began to show results. However, Qin Huairu's mood did not seem to be completely relaxed. Because of her past experiences, she had some estrangement from her family. This emotion had always lurked in her heart, making her particularly sensitive when dealing with family affairs.
One evening, while walking in the yard, He Yudong accidentally found Qin Huairu sitting on a bench nearby, looking heavy-hearted. She looked at the flowerbed in the distance, as if thinking about something. He Yudong walked over and saw that her face was a little tired and worried.
"Qin Huairu, what's wrong with you?" He Yudong asked with concern.
Qin Huairu came back to her senses and forced a smile, "Nothing, I just feel a little tired."
He Yudong sat next to her and waited patiently for her to speak. He knew that some things were not easy for Qin Huairu to say, but he was willing to listen and understand.
After a moment of silence, Qin Huairu finally spoke, "Yuzhu, I know everyone is trying to adjust and adapt, but sometimes I find it really hard to let go of the past."
"Things from the past?" He Yudong was a little confused. "What do you mean?"
Qin Huairu took a deep breath, her eyes became complicated, "I have experienced some difficult moments, especially in the family. The experience during that time made me have a lot of concerns and uneasiness about the family. Although the living conditions are much better now than before, some emotions are always lingering. I feel a little pain in my heart. He realized that Qin Huairu's past had a profound impact on her, and this emotion was also affecting her life imperceptibly. In order to help Qin Huairu face these problems, he decided to take some measures. I can understand how you feel. It is indeed not easy to face the past experiences, but we can try to face it. Maybe through some communication and help, you can slowly release those negative emotions."
Qin Huairu looked at He Yudong, a trace of gratitude flashed in her eyes, but her expression was still a little hesitant, "Can you really understand me? Sometimes, I feel that these problems are like an invisible wall that separates me from the intimacy with my family."
He Yudong nodded and said gently, "I am willing to understand you and hope to help you. We can try some methods, such as regular family communication and sharing each other's feelings and thoughts. This will help us understand each other better and enable you to better face your emotions."
A glimmer of hope appeared in Qin Huairu's eyes, and she slowly relaxed a little, "This sounds like a good idea. Maybe this will make me feel more relaxed."
He Yudong continued, "We can start small and have some simple communication first. I can organize a family gathering where everyone can exchange feelings and ideas in a relaxed atmosphere. This will not only help you, but also help everyone understand each other better."
Qin Huairu nodded slightly, "Okay, I'm willing to try."
In the next few days, He Yudong began to prepare for the family gathering. He hoped that this way, everyone could relax and enhance mutual understanding. In order to ensure that the gathering would achieve good results, he communicated with other family members in advance, introduced Qin Huairu's feelings, and asked for everyone's support.
On the day of the party, a courtyard in the quadrangle was decorated warmly and comfortably. He Yudong carefully prepared some snacks and drinks, and everyone gathered together in a relaxed and happy atmosphere. Qin Huairu also came to the scene. Although she still had some nervousness on her face, she clearly felt that she was valued and cared for.
When everyone gathered together, He Yudong stood up and said, "Everyone, we are gathered here today to get to know each other better, especially Qin Huairu. We hope that through this relaxed communication, we can help her let go of the burden of the past and make the atmosphere at home more harmonious."
Jia Zhang and Liu Haizhong nodded to show their understanding. Liu Haizhong spoke first, "Qin Huairu, I know you have been working hard on housework and handling family affairs. We are all grateful for your efforts. If you have any thoughts or feelings, you can speak up."
Qin Huairu felt warm in her heart when she heard these words. She mustered up the courage to share her feelings, "My past experiences have made me feel uneasy about my family. Although everyone cares about me, sometimes I still find it difficult to fully integrate into this environment. I hope to adapt better and hope to get everyone's understanding."
Jia Zhangshi, Yi Zhonghai and others listened carefully, with concerned expressions on their faces. Jia Zhangshi's voice became gentle, "Qin Huairu, each of us has our own difficulties. I hope you know that we are all a family, and no matter what happens, we will support each other."
Yi Zhonghai also expressed his attitude, "Yes, we are all together and face the problems together. If you need anything, we will do our best to help you."
Qin Huairu's eyes were slightly moist, and there was a touch of emotion in her voice. "Thank you for your understanding. I really appreciate your support. I will try to make myself more relaxed, and I hope everyone can understand me."
The atmosphere of the party gradually became warm, and they exchanged each other's feelings and shared bits and pieces of life. This relaxed communication not only made Qin Huairu feel at ease, but also allowed everyone in the family to better understand each other's inner world. With the support of her family, Qin Huairu gradually overcame the shadows of the past and became more confident and relaxed. She began to take the initiative to participate in various family activities and gradually integrated into the daily life of the family. He saw the changes in Qin Huairu and knew that this was inseparable from the joint efforts of everyone.
In the life of the Siheyuan, family members have solved many problems that were not solved in the past through communication and understanding. They always maintain unity and support when facing challenges and difficulties. Although there are still many challenges in life, everyone's relationship has become closer, and the understanding and support between each other has deepened.
While daily life in the courtyard is gradually becoming stable, Xu Damao is caught in some trouble at work. Xu Damao has always been a straightforward and capable person who always performs well at work, but the recent difficulties have made him feel stressed.
The cause of the incident was that Xu Damao's company suddenly faced a major business adjustment. The project he was responsible for had major problems, resulting in slow progress and even some customer complaints.
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