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"That's not good. Although it looks cool and handsome, it gives people a sense of distance and makes it difficult for people to get close to it."

"Zhang Wuji once said in The Heaven Sword and Dragon Saber: He loves and hates Zhao Min; he respects and fears Zhou Zhiruo; for me, it is best if women I don't know are afraid and hate me. I don't need to make them feel that I am approachable." Yu Zhaolong said lightly.

"Love and hate? Respect and fear? This Zhao Min is Zhang Wuji's lover, and Zhou Zhiruo is his original wife." Shi Qianyu said after thinking for a while.

"What do you mean by lover and wife? Haven't you read The Heaven Sword and Dragon Sabre?" Yu Zhaolong glanced at the woman in the passenger seat again.

"I've heard of it, but I don't like watching martial arts movies. You can tell from this word. Love and hate, it's obviously the feelings towards a lover, while respect and fear is the attitude towards a wife. Love gives rise to hate, the more you love, the more you hate. Respect is because of fear, the fear that the other person will be hurt, the more you fear, the more you respect." Shi Qianyu said as a matter of course.

"I have to say you leave me speechless, and that makes sense." Yu Zhaolong shook his head with a smile on his lips.

"Love and hate are imposed on another person. It is impossible for a person to have love for himself. Respect and fear are to regard the other person as a part of oneself. How much you love yourself is how much you will love your partner. Lovers are inseparable, and husbands and wives respect each other like guests. When a lover shows her good side, you will love her, otherwise you will hate her. If a wife makes a mistake, as long as you are still willing to be husband and wife with her, you will tolerate and forgive her. Husbands and wives do not hold grudges overnight, and they will be good husband and wife again in the morning."

"Hahaha, that makes sense. Anything else?" Yu Zhaolong became interested in Shi Qianyu's random thoughts.

"Lovers are like wine, they need to be stronger and more intense, so that they are interesting and stimulating. Husband and wife are like boiled water, plainness is the truth. If the whole life is in chaos and full of troubles, it is not called life. Lovers are confidants of this life, if they are not confidants, they will not be attracted. Husband and wife are enemies of the previous life, if they are not enemies, they will not meet. There is only love between lovers, and there is no gratitude and responsibility generated by the contract. Emotion excludes reason. Husband and wife may not be without love, but at the same time, they have gratitude and responsibility, and reason controls emotion."

"That's right, well said. Anything else?"

"Being a lover is a matter between two people, and is isolated from society. The two will hide away from the crowd and play, not wanting to be disturbed by others. Being a husband and wife is not just a matter between the two of them, but also involves raising and educating their children, and taking care of both parties' parents, relatives, families, and even the nation, and managing the family, governing the country, and bringing peace to the world."

"Don't people usually say that girls with big breasts are brainless? I didn't realize you have quite a lot of ideas." Yu Zhaolong turned his face to the side again.

"Why, do you look down on me? I'm a teacher at Zhejiang University." Shi Qianyu puffed out her chest.

"So you are a top student. That's right, you are not from the Sixteenth Family. If you are not outstanding, Sun Na will not be friends with you. She is a very proud person." Although Yu Zhaolong seldom deals with Sun Na, as both are outstanding people of the younger generation of the Sixteenth Family, they are actually very familiar with each other because they are both marriage partners, but the relationship between the two of them has not developed.

Perhaps she was still not satisfied, so Shi Qianyu brought up the topic again, "When the person you love and hate becomes someone you respect and fear, it means you are willing to marry her. When you no longer want to continue your marriage with her, your feelings of respect and fear will turn into love and hate. What you love is the good life you had together, and what you hate is the embarrassing things that caused you to break up."

"Haha." Yu Zhaolong responded to Shi Qianyu's point with a smile.

"Losing a lover will make people feel regretful and empty. Losing the other half will make people feel thunderstruck and heartbroken. The lover has lost contact, she should come back, I will wait for her. The wife is missing, I will go to find her quickly, even if my feet are rubbed into electric irons." Shi Qianyu continued to express her views.

"Lover and wife." Yu Zhaolong murmured.

“Some people are very passionate when they are in love, while others are very dull. Whether it is passionate or dull, and how long the passion will last, depends on when you are willing to marry her. If you want her to be your wife at first sight, you will respect and fear her and never treat her lightly, then such a relationship will naturally be dull from the beginning, and the passion is only a matter of a moment.” Shi Qianyu couldn't help but clap her hands together.

"So you hope that your boyfriend in the future will respect and fear you, rather than love and hate you?" Yu Zhaolong asked with a smile, turning his head sideways again.

"It should be said that it changed from love and hate to respect and fear." Shi Qianyu said affirmatively.

"Okay, but what I want to say is that in the novel, Zhang Wuji likes Zhao Min, so he loves and hates her because he once misunderstood that Zhao Min killed someone very important to him; he respects and fears Zhou Zhiruo not because she is his legal wife, but because others think they are a good match, but he himself does not love her, but he is an indecisive person."

"Ah? How could there be such a man? Shameless." Shi Qianyu was dumbfounded. If that was the case, then all her bragging just now was just a slap in the face.

“But you can’t say you’re completely wrong. Zhang Wuji originally planned to marry Zhou Zhiruo, but he eloped with Zhao Min at the wedding. So it seems reasonable for you to say that Zhou Zhiruo is his original wife.” Yu Zhaolong smiled.

"There's also a scene where a woman steals the bride?" Shi Qianyu didn't want to complain anymore.

"If you're interested, you can read the original novel or the TV series."

"I won't watch it. I'm so angry. This male protagonist is too shameless. I don't like him." Shi Qianyu was angry.

"Haha, then what kind of man do you like?" Yu Zhaolong asked.

"She has a lot of money, is talented, and is gentle." Shi Qianyu blurted out.

"How specific?"

"Xia Haoyang, the third young master of the Xia family, is fine like this." Shi Qianyu hesitated for a moment, but still said it.

"The third son of the Xia family is indeed rich, talented, and gentle? He can be considered so too. People who like small animals can't have a bad personality." Yu Zhaolong gave his affirmation.

Then there was silence between the two for a few seconds.

"Why didn't you tell others that the Third Young Master of the Xia family already had a wife?" Shi Qianyu asked softly.

"You don't need me to tell you, aren't you very clear about this? The girl is a singer, and Xia Lao San seems to have made this public."

"Is he on good terms with his wife?"

"From what I understand, yes."

"I don't have the slightest chance?"

"If you really want to mess with the relationship between him and his wife, then it will be hard for him to love and hate you. It's obvious that he loves, respects and fears his celebrity wife, and he only hates you."

"Am I that bad?"

"It's not that you're bad, but that others got there first. Third Xia didn't have the chance to meet an interesting soul like you."