Quick travel to save a miserable life

The family of three stayed in Shanghai for five days. Not only did they visit the most famous attractions, but they also strolled around some historic streets and visited several old buildings. All in all, it was a worthwhile trip. .

It could be seen that it was already a month ago and it was already November. The weather forecast said there would be cold air next week, so they just started to return.

From Ningcheng to Magic City, they walked for a month when they went there, but when they went back, they took the expressway and it only took more than three hours.

The trunk of the car was filled with various souvenirs from this trip, most of which were purchased by Mother Lin, such as silk scarves, hairpins, and cheongsam.

At first, Father Lin sneered at Mother Lin's behavior of asking for whatever she saw, but later he couldn't hold it back and bought a lot of things, such as tea sets, copper coins, and even a few small bamboo toys.

Lin Hui asked him why he bought those small toys. Father Lin confidently said that he bought them for his grandson to play with after he was born!

She was so amused by this pair of old children. The child was still four or five months away from being born. He would have to wait until at least one year old to be able to play with that kind of toys. It was too early to prepare.

However, she could not stop grandparents from loving their children.

Within two days of coming back, the temperature started to cool down. Although I didn’t turn on the air conditioner, I had to put on a thick coat in the morning and evening.

This is the case in Zhejiang Province. Autumn is short, and it has only been cold for less than two weeks. The temperature dropped again. The daytime temperature only dropped to about ten degrees, and the lowest temperature dropped to zero degrees. Ningcheng entered winter overnight.

As soon as the weather changed, her parents began to restrict Lin Hui from going out. They were afraid that she would catch a cold. They were worried that it would be inconvenient for the child to take medicine, so they could only hold on. In the end, it was she who suffered.

Sometimes Lin Hui felt that she couldn't understand it. Obviously, Lin's father and Lin's mother had worked in government agencies all their lives. They had some cultural knowledge and were not ignorant and thoughtless fools. Moreover, they had no idea when they were young. With so many restrictions on the original body, why did he become so coercive and dictatorial in front of Lin Hui when he got old?

Perhaps it was because they were getting older, had retired from their jobs, shifted their focus in life, and had changes in their thoughts, or perhaps because Lin Hui had previously insisted on having children and refused to get married again, which gave them a sense of powerlessness. I feel that I have lost control over my child's life, so I have to grasp everything in front of me and have the right to speak.

Or, in fact, they have lost control since the original person violated their wishes and insisted on marrying Zhang Zhiwei. Lin Hui chose IVF instead of remarry, which once again shattered their hopes. .

Therefore, the two old men have now taken over all aspects of Lin Hui's life. They almost control her from head to toe. They are like taking care of a baby who cannot take care of herself. They make everything for her. After all, she is a person who has experienced multiple worlds. The "old monster" who has actually lived for many years cannot accept such a deep restraint.

Lin Hui found an opportunity and had a deep talk with her parents, hoping to change their current relationship so that they would no longer "care" about her so much, both on behalf of herself and her original self.

Lin Hui believes that even if the original person is still there, facing the current situation, he will still accept such "good intentions" from his parents.

The conversation lasted for nearly two hours. Lin Hui first analyzed her mental journey over the years, detailed her gains and losses, frankly admitted her impulsiveness and lack of consideration when she married Zhang Zhiwei, and then talked about the recent restrictions placed on her by her parents. caused confusion and stated his expectations.

Parents are parents after all. No matter what, they still love their children, especially Lin Hui, who is their only child.

Although the two old men did not formally admit their mistakes or apologize to Lin Hui, their attitudes softened obviously. It was obvious that they listened to Lin Hui's words, and starting from the next day, they responded to Lin Hui's words. The attitude gradually improved.

Being open and honest is the best way to communicate, especially among family members. There is no need to be secretive and talk in a roundabout way. This will not only cause low communication efficiency, but may also have the opposite effect.

Now Lin Hui finally had some freedom, no longer restricted everywhere, and she felt much more relaxed.

This year’s Chinese New Year is in January, but because Lin Hui’s due date is February, her belly is already very big at this time, so she is no longer allowed to visit relatives. Instead, Lin’s father and mother go by themselves, and after dinner He hurried back, fearing that something might happen to Lin Hui at home alone, with no one around.

In fact, Lin Hui's pregnancy situation has always been good. She is always paying attention to the situation, and there will be no such accidents. Everything is a groundless worry of the Lin family.

In late February of the Gregorian calendar and the end of the first month of the lunar calendar, Lin Hui gave birth to a six-pound boy in the hospital.

This child has red skin, cute eyebrows, long hands and feet, and a head of black fetal hair. He is a very cute baby.

Because Lin Hui had good diet control during pregnancy and the baby was not big, the labor process went smoothly without any tears or side cuts. She only slept for two hours and felt a lot of energy restored. She was one of the few mothers in the room who had given birth. of.

Seeing that Lin Hui was in good condition, the two elders turned their attention to the child. They held their newborn grandson and looked around, not to mention the joy.

However, when the family members of the pregnant woman in the same room saw that there were only the pregnant woman and her parents in their house, but not the male head of the family, some people couldn't help but ask curious questions.

Mother Lin was a little embarrassed and just when she was about to not know how to answer, Lin Hui spoke first: "The child's father has passed away."

Don't be too outspoken to strangers and insist on telling all the truth. Apart from exposing your privacy and adding more talking points, there is no other benefit.

The hospital ward was really tight. There were three mothers in a three-person room, and each family had at least two or three family members. The whole room was very noisy and chaotic.

Therefore, the next afternoon, after the doctor said that Lin Hui was fine, she was immediately discharged from the hospital and took her child home.

The invited confinement nanny also returned home. In fact, Lin's mother still had some objections to Lin Hui's appointment of a confinement nanny. She felt that the three adults in their family did not go to work and only took care of one child. How could they take good care of them? What else could they do? I want to invite a confinement sister-in-law to live at home again. It will be uncomfortable to have so many outsiders.

But when Sister Zhou, the confinement sister-in-law, came home and saw how other people took care of their children, Mother Lin had to be convinced. Her way of doing things was already out of date, and the professional ones were just different!

The little baby was taken turns to play with in Sister Zhou's hands, but she never cried or fussed, and was so well-behaved that people were amazed!