One big and one small are practicing love

After checking his pulse, Dr. Yang applied warm herbal bags to Zuo Kunmin's eyes and then performed acupuncture.

This time there are many acupuncture locations: the top of the head, chin, neck, shoulders, arms, hands, and calves. Dredge the meridians and make Qi and blood flow smoothly. Dispel evil spirits and support the movement of righteousness. Help Zuo Kunmin recover physically.

During this time, Zuo Kunmin and Dr. Yang chatted a lot intermittently.

For the first time, Zuo Kunmin let down his guard, opened up his heart, and expressed his true pain, pressure, and worries.

Dr. Yang's reply was sincere and his language was concise, powerful and full of wisdom. It brought Zuo Kunmin a lot of inspiration and emotion.

When I came out of Dr. Yang's house, my body and mind seemed to have been cleansed. I felt relaxed, clean and comfortable. As I drove home, I felt a slight sense of joy. I thought about what I had to do next, and my inner strength surged like a spring, full of hope and confidence.

Go to Shenyang! Take the team to Shenyang. Take Zuo Yan and Zuo Xu to Shenyang. Take Liu Xiaochen to Shenyang. Apologize sincerely to Liu Xiaochen, tell her true thoughts, and listen to her.

Parked the car in the underground garage, it was already 10:58.

Zuo Kunmin thought that it was too late today. She would have her final exam tomorrow and couldn't find her tonight. When she finishes the exam tomorrow night and he recovers his health, they both have time and leisure to relax and have a good chat.

Thinking about it, get off the car.

After taking just two steps, I saw a man a few steps away, bending over and vomiting into the trash can.

The figure from behind looked familiar. Zuo Kunmin took a few steps hurriedly. When he got closer, he smelled the strong smell of alcohol and food.

Sure enough, it was Li Zhiming. His face was crimson, and his body was like a puppet with its strings pulled out, limp and limp.

"How much did you drink tonight?" Zuo Kunmin asked.

Li Zhiming looked up and saw Zuo Kunmin. He smiled and was about to open his mouth to speak when he vomited again, all filled with water.

Zuo Kunmin sighed, quickly returned to the car, opened the trunk, took out a bottle of mineral water, unscrewed the cap, and handed it to Li Zhiming.

Li Zhiming had finished vomiting and leaned against the concrete pillar tiredly. He drank two sips of mineral water and said, "I haven't vomited like this in a long time. Most people can't drink it down. I didn't expect Mr. Yang and his gang to be so good at drinking." I just found out that they are all from Inner Mongolia."

Seeing Li Zhiming's look, Zuo Kunmin suddenly felt guilty.

In the past few years, Li Zhiming has been attending wine parties for him. I am leaving for Shenyang in one day, and I have been away for more than a month. I have been busy with work these days and have not had a good conversation with Li Zhiming.

Thinking about it, Zuo Kunmin put his arm around Li Zhiming's shoulders and said, "Let's go, I'll help you sober up."

Li Zhiming looked at Zuo Kunmin's arm, smiled sadly, and said, "Your suit will be deformed, and it will also smell like alcohol."

"Stop talking nonsense and come with me!" As he said that, Zuo Kunmin hugged Li Zhiming hard.

The two walked to the car shoulder to shoulder. Zuo Kunmin drove and set the navigation to the nearest porridge restaurant.

When we arrived at the porridge shop, we ordered a bowl of millet porridge, a steamed bun, a cup of hot milk, and two plates of refreshing side dishes.

Li Zhiming ate and drank heavily. Zuo Kunmin sat opposite Li Zhiming and said, "Eat slowly and chew carefully."

Li Zhiming was drinking milk. When he heard this, he suppressed a smile and swallowed the milk in his mouth. He said with a smile: "If you eat within five minutes of each meal, you say the word 'chew slowly'." It’s like one scumbag said to another scumbag, ‘Study hard’.”

Zuo Kunmin also grinned and said: "Your metaphor is quite appropriate, but I mean it seriously. Tonight, Dr. Yang told me some health knowledge. Chewing slowly is good for the human stomach. In order to be sustainable, To develop, we still have to pay attention to our physical and mental health."

"Come on!" Li Zhiming wiped his mouth with a tissue and said, "It's easy to make sense, but is it realistic? I didn't have time to observe what was going on during the wine party, so I took the opportunity to stuff myself with two mouthfuls of food, as long as I wasn't hungry. I didn't have time to chew carefully. Swallow slowly.”

Zuo Kunmin sighed and said: "You should train yourself. There are some unnecessary dinners and find someone to take over."

"Then you have to demote my position first. Every meal I attend is not for you. Except for me, the CEO, whoever comes forward will refute the opponent's reputation!" Li Zhiming said, pouring a glass of hot water and handing it to Zuo Kunmin.

"Thank you." Zuo Kunmin said naturally.

Hearing this word, Li Zhiming was stunned for a moment, and then laughed twice.

Zuo Kunmin understood why Li Zhiming was smiling and explained seriously: "Dr. Yang said that sincerely saying 'thank you' is the simplest and most practical way to transfer positive energy."

"After getting sick this time, you have become very obedient to the doctor's advice!" Li Zhiming smiled and continued: "I know how much I weigh. If it weren't for you, I wouldn't be able to sit in such a high position in such a big company. You are a person who does big things, I just accompany you to eat and drink, and convey a few truths to you. I am willing to give you the time and energy to do things."

Zuo Kunmin lowered the water glass in his hand, took the initiative to touch Li Zhiming's milk glass, and said: "When you have time in the future, come to my house for dinner often."

"Don't worry, when you go to Shenyang, whenever I have time, I will take my whole family there to have a meal and eat your share." Li Zhiming took a sip of milk with a smile and said: "These few days I see that you are very busy, so I didn’t bother to ask you, what stage are you two at now?"

"I'm afraid you won't be able to eat for more than a month." Zuo Kunmin calmly put down the water glass and said with a smile: "This time I go to Shenyang, I decided to take Yanyan, Xiaoxu and Xiaoxiao with me to train Xiaoxiao well. emotion."

Li Zhiming sighed sadly, "Oh! It seems that you are serious this time!"

"From your tone, it doesn't sound like you are happy for me. What's wrong? Are you afraid that I value sex over friends and neglect you?" Zuo Kunmin joked.

Li Zhiming's eyebrows narrowed and he said seriously: "If you are just playing around, that's okay. But if you want to be serious, then you have to think about it seriously. You are more than ten years apart, and you have different identities, experiences, and concepts. There is a big gap, and your relationship will be difficult."

Zuo Kunmin leaned back in his chair and said in a deep voice: "People of the same age, and emotions that seem to be suitable in all aspects, are there no problems and limitations? Zhiming, do you still remember the second-tier female star you introduced to me last year? ?”

"Speaking of which, I'm still puzzled. That girl fits your requirements quite well. Her appearance, figure and temperament are both outstanding. She graduated from the Royal College of Music. Her parents are both financial tycoons. You both had a crush on each other when you first met. Later, Why didn't it continue to develop?" Li Zhiming asked.

"I later made appointments with her two or three times, but she was late for more than half an hour each time. One time she wanted to eat Japanese sashimi. I had a stomachache that day and couldn't eat raw or cold seafood. She ostensibly obeyed me and went to drink porridge, but she was still confused all night. With a sullen face. After the meal, I bought her some expensive jewelry, and she talked to me normally. On the last date, she clearly told me that if we live together in the future, the two children must stay with their grandma and cannot appear in the house. She doesn’t want to be a stepmother in her life.”

"Alas!" Li Zhiming sighed and said, "Nowadays, young and beautiful girls want too much, but they don't want to take on any family responsibilities."

Zuo Kunmin said thoughtfully: "Wealth, power, beauty, figure, education and other conditions are originally the blessing of emotions and should make emotions more complete. But our greed and arrogance have made these become bigger problems. Obstacles. I have five points, but I require the other person to have eight points. I think the other person should meet the various requirements I have set. If I am not satisfied, I will blame others, give up, and look for the next one. I search again and again, confuse the bottom and bottom again and again, and lose my nature. "

Li Zhiming nodded thoughtfully, then suddenly leaned forward and asked: "Has Xiaoxiao been in love before?"

"No." Zuo Kunmin affirmed without hesitation. Seeing that Li Zhiming was suspicious, he took the initiative to explain: "I have been corresponding with her for the past six years, and her class teacher will also report her situation to me regularly."

"Oh! Why do I feel that being with you, Xiaoxiao, is like a sheep in a tiger's mouth? Kunmin, to be honest, although I am also a man. But I don't understand, what is the psychology of a middle-aged man looking for a girl to fall in love?"

"I didn't expect that I would be attracted to a little girl at my age." Zuo Kunmin said with a smile. After thinking for a moment, he said seriously: "Perhaps people of our age have experienced too much complexity, calculation, vulgarity, cruelty, and more. Can understand the importance of purity, gentleness, commitment, and sincerity.”

Just as he was talking, the waiter came over to clear away the cups and plates and brought two glasses of water.

After the waiter left, Zuo Kunmin continued: "This small appearance made me realize that we middle-aged people are strong and arrogant, greedy and harsh, and ignorant. When middle-aged people are together, they often bring out negative things in each other. It's like two people. Two ruined lives drag each other down."

Li Zhiming listened carefully and nodded silently.

"Girls are like flowers that have just bloomed, naturally exuding fragrance, light, and natural vitality. When Xiaoxiao and I are together, even when we talk or eat, we feel peaceful, relaxed, and joyful, and our bodies seem to be injected with a cool, refreshing feeling. Satisfying, nourishing energy.”

After listening, Li Zhiming lowered his head and thought for a while, and said: "Xiaorou and I have nothing to say anymore. We feel desolate and boring when we stay together. I sometimes think back to when I was in love with her when I was young, when we said no. After that, we will be very happy doing anything together. I don’t know why we are like this?"

"Dr. Yang and his wife were also each other's first love. From the time they fell in love at the age of seventeen to now they are married, their relationship has been very good for nearly thirty years."

"What's the secret?"

"Dr. Yang said that young love is like a small animal, with natural emotional adhesion such as hormones, curiosity, pure heart, and beautiful body. But after middle age, these forces will inevitably recede, and other energy supplies are needed to be able to love each other. Keep going.”

"Don't just tell me the theory, tell me the method."

"How long has it been since you had a good conversation? Apart from the exchange of money and material things, have you done anything sincere for each other? When you feel that each other needs something, do you deliberately ignore it out of laziness and selfishness, or do you take action? , try your best to satisfy each other.”

……

Zuo Kunmin told Li Zhiming all the revelations he got from Dr. Yang. This was the only time in so many years that they didn't talk about work when they were together, but just openly communicated about their emotions.