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After returning from Gao Shenghai's home, Cao Rui felt very fulfilled. Lao Gao told him an unbreakable truth, which was also a blind spot in interpersonal communication.

Most of the time when people interact with each other, it's not because we don't take it seriously, don't work hard, or don't care. People are very complex animals. Often we want to have a good relationship, but things often backfire. No matter what techniques we use, No matter how much effort we put in, it ends up being in vain.

In addition, everyone's energy is actually limited. We cannot put all our energy on dealing with interpersonal relationships. In that case, people will live a very tiring life and will become increasingly deviated from the direction.

So Gao Shenghai said: "If you feel confused, just keep your head down and work hard!"

The first thing Cao Rui thought of was Su Bo. Su Bo was a typical person who put his head down and worked hard. Now his prestige in martial arts was unprecedentedly high. No matter who mentioned Secretary Su, everyone was intimidated.

How many people did Su Bo actually meet? How many social events are there? Not only did the people below report work, but they were leaders at the Standing Committee level. These people actually had very little interaction with Su Bo before. The interactions they had were with the Standing Committee and meetings, and there were not many private activities.

However, Su Bo's work in Wude was in full swing, and there was basically no resistance to the implementation of his thoughts and will. This can be said to be the art of leadership, and the key point is that Su Bo works hard on himself.

All interpersonal relationships are based on strength. If you feel that interpersonal relationships are confusing and difficult, then look inward at yourself. Lao Gao's life wisdom is too high.

Cao Rui has always wanted to have a good relationship with his teacher Wu Weimin. Wang Mo's relationship is also very important. In addition, Propaganda Minister Xie Erping is also very good to Cao Rui.

But how easy is it to maintain these relationships? Xie Erping has been in a very low mood recently, and there is nothing Cao Rui can do!

There is also the relationship between Wu Weimin and Wu Weimin. Over the past many years, the two have had a teacher-student relationship, but the relationship has never been close enough. When Cao Rui was in Yongping, he wanted to have a good relationship with Wu Weimin. Once he had this line, his affairs would go as smoothly as possible.

As a result, Wu Weimin's relationship could not be broken through, and Cao Rui could not escape Zhao Daquan's suppression in Yongping because of Wu Weimin's teacher.

But now the relationship between Cao Rui and Wu Weimin has really broken through. What did it rely on? The key is that Cao Rui's position has changed now. The things here are very subtle. In many places, it is difficult to express them in words and words, so we can only try to understand them.

After Cao Rui chewed and digested Lao Gao's suggestion, he suddenly became enlightened, and many of the miscellaneous thoughts before were gone.

Accompanying Chen Hanyue and Duoduo in the evening, he asked Chen Hanyue about the situation at home. Chen Hanyue said: "I didn't ask either, but I feel that my father is in a good mood and energy now! Every step of the way makes him wiser. The key before was that he gambled by himself. , Now that things are back to normal and the prodigal son has turned around, it shouldn’t be a big problem.”

Cao Rui thought that there was exactly one day left, so he took out his mobile phone and called Sheng Xianqiao. Sheng Xianqiao said:

"Oh, Director Cao! You always said that you would come to the county to sit down. I was hoping that the stars and the moon would be waiting for you, but I didn't wait!"

Cao Rui thought to himself that this guy was really a thousand-year-old fox. As soon as he called, he not only understood his intentions, but also handed over the ladder directly.

Cao Rui said: "Secretary Sheng, I work next to Secretary Su and I can't decide my own time! In addition, I'm worried that going to Linxian will affect your work and may have some negative effects!"

Sheng Xianqiao said: "That's nonsense! I, Sheng Xianqiao, don't have any friends or brothers? Can't I have my own personal time? Your words don't make sense logically!"

Cao Rui said: "Okay, I'll come to visit you tomorrow morning, we'll have lunch together, and I'll take the kids to play by the way!"

After Cao Rui spoke to Sheng Xianqiao, he immediately called Chen Chuxin and asked him to go to Linxian the next day.

After a night of silence, they arrived in Linxian the next day. Chen Chuxin and his wife arrived early. They did not dare to go directly to see Sheng Xianqiao, they were all waiting for Cao Rui!

Cao Rui took them to Linxian Swan Villa Farmhouse, where Sheng Xianqiao was waiting.

Not only him, but also his wife and daughter were there. He also had a granddaughter who was over five years old, a little younger than Cao Rui's daughter. Now it had the flavor of a family gathering.

There is a special independent courtyard here. Sheng Xianqiao chats with Cao Rui. The people who are busy are actually the people in charge of the reception of the county committee, but it does not make people feel out of place. It is as natural as ordinary people getting together with two families.

But Chen Chuxin was still a little cautious. Sheng Xianqiao asked him if the home appliance supermarket had opened in Linxian?

Chen Chuxin told Sheng Xianqiao which way the home appliance supermarket opened to Linxian County, and gave Sheng Xianqiao a business card.

Sheng Xianqiao took the business card in his hand and looked at it repeatedly, and said: "Then we must support! I will have someone contact you later, and first include your company in our purchasing directory..."

Chen Chuxin was particularly excited when Sheng Xianqiao said this. He came to Linxian County to open a home appliance supermarket because he wanted to do some business in government procurement and real estate procurement. Now that he can get Sheng Xianqiao's statement, he can start trading later. , the resistance is much smaller.

They just talked a few words casually, but it had nothing to do with business later. Sheng Xianqiao talked about how he was bullied by his granddaughter at home, and Cao Rui talked about how Duoduo battled wits and courage with the teacher at school.

During the meal, Cao Rui and Chen Chuxin sat on both sides of Shengxian Bridge, and then all three of them drank some wine.

While drinking, Sheng Xianqiao took the initiative to mention Wang Fei's matter. He had always relied on Wang Fei before, but after Sun Pingan's incident, Wang Fei was punished and implicated. The division of labor in Linxian County must be considered comprehensively.

Sheng Xianqiao knew that Cao Rui and Wang Fei were close, so mentioning this matter was just a brief explanation. He probably wanted to mention this matter to Cao Rui for a long time, but he never had the chance.

Cao Rui didn't answer him directly, so he told him about Wang Fei's experience when he came to Linxian from Wude. At that time, Wang Fei and Sun Ping'an didn't know each other, but Cao Rui contacted him and they got to know each other playing cards together.

We are all old friends, so we don’t need to say many things directly. We can tell each other a general story so that each other can understand the meaning.

Wang Fei's problems were entirely his own fault. Now facing a difficult situation in Linxian County, he could only think of other solutions. As the squad leader of Lin County, Sheng Xianqiao also has to consider the unity of the team. If he still re-employs Wang Fei, it will be difficult to carry out a lot of work!

As soon as this misunderstanding was eliminated, the atmosphere at the wine table sublimated. Cao Rui also felt that he had sublimated. Lao Gao was still a treasure. Cao Rui felt that he could handle interpersonal relationships more calmly, even when facing Mr. Sheng. Even for a powerful boss like Qiao, he can act freely.