Entering the officialdom by mistake and getting promoted quickly

No matter in any age, having dinner with a leader is not a good job.

Whether it's for socializing or wanting to please, the natural gap in status makes people feel cautious. This restraint may not be reflected on the face, but it will be more or less present in the heart.

Human nature has always been like this.

This is determined by the genes of living things. The weak always subconsciously reveal their belly to the strong.

Even if this person cannot feel it himself and thinks that he is a person who will not give up for 5 buckets of rice, when he faces his leader, he will inadvertently reveal his weakness.

For example, if he says a sentence, he may blurt it out casually at ordinary times, but when having dinner with the leader, he must go through it in his mind before speaking.

Maybe he thought he was doing it to show his knowledge, so he thought about it in his mind before speaking, but in fact, it was because of the restraint of a weak person.

If a strong person speaks, he will appear very free and easy.

Since human beings have been civilized, communication has been a science, and this science has a higher importance within the system than outside the circle.

You can speak and do things, but you may not necessarily know how to communicate.

What is communication?

Although communication is not about observing words and expressions, communication must be about seeing through people's hearts.

When others are happy, you cheer with them. When others are upset, you know how to be silent and quiet. If others express dissatisfaction with you, you must do everything you can to reverse the situation.

Accompanying leaders to eat is a common subject in officialdom.

I cannot say that this subject is difficult, but it is definitely not easy to do well. Especially when it is the first time to visit the leader privately, and the leader is a young lesbian...

This situation is extremely difficult, and if you say one wrong sentence, you may be in trouble.

why?

the reason is simple.

Women are naturally narrow-minded and not as generous as male leaders. Most female leaders are more picky and tend to hold grudges over a single sentence.

……

Since the secretary of the county party committee was cooking in person, no one dared to sit in the living room to set up the meal. Almost everyone stood guard at the door of the kitchen cautiously, pretending to want to help pass the dishes around.

However, their attitude could easily arouse resentment, so Xia Shuo spoke in time, pretending to complain: "I'm so hungry, when can I have dinner? Gu Mingyue, why don't you go and help me. That stinky girl only cares about eating and being lazy all day long." , not at all as diligent as a girl..."

As he spoke, he changed his tone and hinted: "Look at us grown men, we are all standing guard at the door of the kitchen, ready to help!"

Gu Mingyue is smart and sensitive, how could she not know what Xia Shuo means.

But this girl deliberately refused to cooperate. A sly smile appeared on her pretty face, and she took the opportunity to say: "Do you want me to learn from Sister Mei's virtuousness? Then first call me "good wife".

Xia Shuo's face turned a little red.

However, everyone present hurriedly laughed in good faith, as if Gu Mingyue had told a very funny joke, and they all cheered: "Comrade Xia Shuo, hurry up and shout, the girl has already made a request, as a man you can't back down. .”

Xia Shuo had no choice but to obey. He called her "wife" obediently and kept winking at Gu Mingyue.

Unexpectedly, Gu Mingyue was so proud that she seemed to want to make things difficult again.

Suddenly a hand stretched out from the kitchen, gently grabbed Gu Mingyue's ear, and said with a slight scolding: "Come in and help me, and learn how to do things in the kitchen. Xia Shuo is right, you girl, you have to change your habit of being too lazy to cook. .”

Gu Mingyue's face was filled with resentment, and she was dragged into the kitchen by Mei Yu. I could vaguely hear her muttering, as if she was complaining that the rainy season shouldn't ruin her good deeds.

With this girl coming in to help, Xia Shuo had a suitable excuse, so he smiled and said to everyone: "Let's not block the door, so as not to affect the performance of the lesbians."

Everyone had this intention for a long time, but no one dared to speak. At this time, following Xia Shuo's suggestion, they immediately borrowed the donkey from the slope and said quickly: "Yes, yes, it cannot affect the performance of lesbians. Secretary Mei has Miss Gu's help, which is better than We are the rough guys.”

Xia Shuo took the opportunity to extend his hand and made an invitation gesture, saying: "Let's go sit in the living room."

Everyone followed happily and walked into the living room.

However, he did not sit down immediately, but pretended to look at the living room. Xiaolin and other four clerks picked up mops and other items and carefully began to clean up the room.

However, when they packed up one of the bedrooms, the four clerks seemed to be frightened and ran back in a panic, with uneasiness on their faces.

Secretary Cui and others were suddenly curious. Liu Weiguo reached for his full-time officer and scolded him in a low voice: "What's wrong with you? You behave like this in the leader's house? Can I take you out again in the future? It's just a shame on my face. Discredit.”

But I saw that the clerk spoke nervously, lowered his voice and shook his head, and whispered: "Inside...inside, on the bedside...on the bedside..."

Xia Shuo suddenly took over the conversation, trying his best to pretend to be relaxed, and said: "There are documents from the county committee on the bed inside, right?"

The clerk nodded cautiously.

Secretary Cui and others felt a thump in their hearts, and they were vaguely aware of the problem.

Xia Shuo hurriedly spoke again and explained: "Secretary Mei often comes here to have dinner and give me guidance on my work. But I am very stupid. I have to learn something several times before I can master it, so I often The time was delayed so late that Secretary Mei had to stay at home..."

Everyone nodded in unison, indicating that this explanation was definitely the most correct explanation.

But Xia Shuo felt guilty and couldn't help but continue to add: "Since Secretary Mei often stays here, she tidied up the bedroom. Every time she stayed there, it was Gu Mingyue. Stay with her."

Everyone nodded again, indicating that this explanation was still the most correct one.

Xia Shuo's heart was pounding, and he tried hard to make his words reasonable, and then said: "Maybe it's because I'm used to living here, and Secretary Mei likes Gu Mingyue very much, so she gradually regards this place as her home, and I feel a little uncomfortable after get off work on weekdays. The documents will also be brought here.”

Everyone continued to nod in unison, showing no signs of doubt.

Even Secretary Cui had a serious face, Township Chief Wang had an expression of admiration, and Liu Weiguo was extremely emotional. They each said: "Secretary, she is really hardworking. She has to deal with documents when she comes back from get off work. She also teaches you by the way. She is a good person." division."

In fact, everyone knew very well why these documents appeared in the bedroom.

It’s definitely not because Meiyu needs to take it home for review.

It was because of Xia Shuo that Mei Yu brought the documents back. Let a deputy section chief understand the county level in advance and face the official documents that only the county party committee secretary is qualified to handle.

This kind of cultivation method requires a lot of hard work.

From a certain perspective, Xia Shuo is like half the county party committee secretary.

On the surface, he is the deputy section chief of Qingshan Township, but privately he handles official documents with Mei Yu. With the deputy section level position, he exercises the power of county party committee secretary. Such special rights are just like being a private secretary.

As for why Meiyu always lives here?

No one dares to think about other bad aspects...

The female leader lives in the home of a male subordinate, even if the male subordinate's girlfriend is also at home, but if you think about it a little deeper, this fact is too ambiguous.

The reason is very simple. Secretary Mei just got divorced after all!

……

After discovering the bedroom of the county party secretary, Xiao Lin and others felt that they had made a big mistake. They didn't dare to clean it anymore. They all stood there fearfully.

Although Secretary Cui and others were worried in their hearts, they remained relatively calm on the surface, even pretending that nothing happened, deliberately looking for topics and pretending to have a leisurely chat.

Xia Shuo secretly sighed, knowing that this was the rule of the officialdom. Because Xiao Lin and others were too low-level, they could face serious enemies if they made a small mistake. Secretary Cui and others had some basic skills, so they could barely hold on without losing their confidence. .

He saw Xiao Lin and others looking a little pitiful in fear, and the softest place in his heart couldn't help but be touched.

Especially compare yourself with others and compare them with your own situation. If you didn't have the opportunity, I'm afraid I would be just a small officer now. So after making such a small mistake, would I be as panicked as Xiao Lin and others?

definitely!

Human nature.

After Xia Shuo figured this out, he became more sympathetic to Xiao Lin and others.

He took the initiative and waved to Xiao Lin to come to him, and said in a low and friendly voice: "There is no need to clean the house, I can clean it myself. Have you eaten tonight? Let's go out to eat something."

Within the circle within the system, if you are not above the level, you cannot squeeze into it.

Besides, even if Xia Shuo didn't say anything, Xiao Lin and others were not qualified to stay.

The reason why the officers didn't leave for the time being was because they wanted to clean the room. Although this kind of thing is not a rule, it is a relatively common unspoken rule.

According to normal circumstances, the officers follow the leaders to the door and are responsible for carrying the 'local specialties', and they will take the initiative to leave when they arrive at the door.

But if the owner allows you to enter, you must show diligence, mop the floor, do hygiene, move carefully, and be extremely attentive.

When the cleaning is done, without the need for the owner to speak, nor for their leaders to speak, these officers will say goodbye very discerningly, silently leaving the private occasion to the leaders.

Xiao Lin and others originally planned this, but something unexpected happened when they were cleaning up the house.

Everyone didn't expect that the county party secretary also lived here, so one or two of them felt that they were in big trouble.

Under such circumstances, it would be torture for them to continue to stay.

So Xia Shuo called Xiao Lin to his side and comforted him a little in a friendly tone. Then he took out 1 yuan and handed it to Xiao Lin and said: "You are my secretary, help me entertain. You take Mr. Liu with you." They can find a better restaurant and walk around the county town after eating..."

He paused for a moment, pondered for a moment and then said: "We may end up very late here, because we have to report our thoughts to Secretary Mei after dinner, so everyone's time cannot be determined. You can come back around 1 o'clock. .”

Come back after 10 o'clock. The main thing is not to ask Xiao Lin to come, but to ask Director Liu and others to come over and wait to pick up Secretary Cui and others.

It is a once-in-a-lifetime encounter within the system with a careful leader like Xia Shuo who can take the initiative to consider his subordinates, and it is unavoidable to move people.

In particular, under the influence of Xia Shuo's friendly tone, Xiao Lin's trembling and anxiety caused by making mistakes were greatly relieved. When he heard Xia Shuo's instructions, he quickly nodded to accept the order and said: "Don't worry, leader, I will definitely provide good hospitality. "

He received Xia Shuo's order, but did not receive Xia Shuo's money. No matter how hard Xia Shuo gave him, Xiao Lin always refused to accept it.

In the end, Gu Mingyue rushed out of the kitchen, stuffed the money directly into Xiao Lin's pocket, and said very forcefully: "Take it, let's go do the work."

The full-time officer was not an outsider, but a direct descendant of the leader, so Gu Mingyue did not speak to outsiders and used a tone of voice towards his own people.

Moreover, Mei Yu probably told her this in the kitchen.

Obviously Mei Yu also knew that Secretary Cui and others were coming to visit, and he would definitely want to report some thoughts to her after eating. If the officials stayed at home, it would not be appropriate for the leaders to talk.

Therefore, Mei Yu asked Gu Mingyue to come out and express her position on her behalf.