Life is more than just living

Chen Xu also felt that the matter was not that simple. She frowned and thought for a moment and said, "Could it be that someone sent them a message that only my eldest brother could help with this? It's possible that someone wanted to use this to get a handle on eldest brother. They couldn't find out what happened in the past, and they didn't want to let brother go, so they made trouble here. Gao Shan, you have to be extra careful in what you say and do in the future." Gao Shan nodded in agreement. Chen Xu is very satisfied with Gao Shan's performance today. Gao Shan is not stupid, but he has a straightforward personality, likes to go straight when doing things, and does not want to think too much. If he thinks hard, he can still understand the stakes of many things.

Because of the delay on the road, Xiaohua was already asleep when Chen Xu returned home. Chen Xu greeted the nanny and quickly brought the food over, letting Chen Xu eat first. Han Hui sat opposite Chen Xu. Chen Xu looked at her with complicated emotions. Han Hui took care of the family wholeheartedly. Dressed in home clothes, she was completely different from the glamorous star-like figure when Chen Xu first met her.

After dinner, Chen Xu went to the house to look after the children. She came back from the hard work at noon just to feed the baby, but the baby was still asleep. She walked to the baby's bed, carefully lay down next to the baby, lifted up her clothes, and stuffed the nipple into the baby's mouth. Although the baby was asleep, she , but the reflex is to suck hard. Han Huixiao, is this okay?

Chen Xu whispered: "Mom, I think Xiaohua should be weaned. Now that I have been at work all morning, my milk has not increased. Otherwise, I should wean myself. This will save me the trouble of running back and forth at noon and having to go to the mountains for transportation." Han Hui nodded in agreement. , "This is good, it also saves the child from always thinking about this milk and not liking to eat complementary food. He is more than one year old, has ten teeth, and can eat a lot of food. You don't need it at lunch. After running back so hard, Chen Xu looked at the time after feeding the baby. It was still more than 20 minutes before the time agreed with Gao Shan. She walked to Han Hui, took her hand and said, "Mom, You have worked so hard in the past two years! I heard from Gao Shan that the sixth floor is being cleaned up quickly. When it is done, you can take care of the children together, so you don’t have to keep an eye on it all the time. Everyone can take turns to rest. You have done so much for me. How long has it been since you bought new clothes? I feel really sorry and distressed."

Han Hui said angrily: "Why are you so polite to me, kid? I am also over 50 years old. I couldn't open a beauty salon before. I had to dress myself up to be convincing. Now I am What's the use of an old woman who's about to retire being so fancy? This is so down-to-earth! You see, Niuniu, her grandmother and Xiangxiang's grandma often bring their children to play. If I still act like I did before, how dare they come? Do you want to follow the local customs and sing whatever songs you want on any mountain? I shouldn’t have said that, but my mother-in-law named Gao Tian is different from these people. She makes herself look like a noble lady every day and is incompatible with everyone. She could have done it. There's nothing wrong with being herself, but that child has no playmates since she was a child. Will she be lonely when she grows up? I'm really worried about that child, don't be like your little brother anymore!"

Chen Xu frowned, "No way? That Song Huiying is different from us. Although she is not warm to others, her personality is not bad."

Chen Xu saw that the time was up and went downstairs to meet Gao Shan. As soon as he got in the car, Gao Shan complained, "I'm really drunk too. My brother's old mother-in-law is really weird. She heard that we all want to raise our children together, and she firmly disagreed. For this reason, my sister-in-law I have argued with her several times. My brother and sister-in-law are really shooting themselves in the foot. It is easy to ask God to send God away, but it is difficult to send God away. This old woman plans to stay here for a long time. When it comes to raising children, she has everything to do with her. I can't get a word in, so I have to listen to her in everything. When I came out just now, I heard my sister-in-law arguing with her again. There's really nothing I can do about it with such a mother!" Chen Xu smiled, and she couldn't comment on other people's family affairs. view.

What Chen Xu didn't expect was that it was time to wean the child, and the milk was extremely abundant. His chest hurt due to swelling, so he had to go to the drugstore to buy milk medicine. Xiaohua cried aggrievedly when he saw her. Chen Xu felt a little soft-hearted, so he discussed with Han Yidao whether he should let the child eat for a while longer. Han Yidao objected: "It's better not to delay, he is already so old, he should be weaned. Besides, the older the child is, the more hesitant he is, and it will be more difficult to wean him." Although Chen Xu knew Han Yidao It makes sense, but when I see the child's begging eyes, I still can't stand it. When the child cried, she also wiped her tears. When Han Hui saw it, she had to take Xiaohua downstairs to live.

Han Yidao came back late today, and Chen Xu was alone at home, so she picked up her mobile phone and talked about her feelings about weaning her child in a group of girlfriends. On this point, Zhang Jiaqi and Cheng Qi, who have experienced it, have a better say.

Cheng Qi: My family was weaned from breastfeeding at nine months, and his father was quite cruel. However, children do forget quickly when they are young and are not so annoying.

Zhang Jiaqi complained: Fathers seem to have little resistance to their daughters. Guo Jian always disagreed when I said weaning the child. My Niuniu had to be weaned until I was pregnant with my second child.

Wang Xue also said weakly: I saw your speech just now, and I asked Gao Shan when he would wean his child. What do you think the elder brother said? He said he would wait until Xiangxiang didn’t want to eat it (face covering emoji).

Everyone thought that Zhao Yuhan would not express any opinions on this topic. After all, her children have not met yet, so it is too early to say this. And she is pregnant now, so she probably doesn't look at her phone very often.

But soon, Zhao Yuhan also sent a message: Seeing what you said was so lively, I just asked my old Lin, and his answer was: If it is a girl, you can feed it for a while; if it is a boy, feed it for four to five months. That's almost it. Sure enough, the father dotes on his daughter more.

Zhang Jiaqi sighed: Today's times are so good, people's concepts have changed. The preference for boys over girls is no longer so strong, and many boys even prefer girls. When I was a child, my parents still disliked me for not being a boy!

Chen Xu suddenly fell silent. If he were a boy, would his parents still divorce? Or even if you get divorced, you won't turn a blind eye to your children. Thinking of this, Chen Xu felt very annoyed. After she raised the topic, her friends were still talking with interest, but she was not in the mood to participate.

Since Lin Zhiyuan was not working for the time being, Chen Xu had to be taken by Guo Jian to and from get off work. Chen Xu felt that it was useless to bother people like this all the time, so he thought about buying a mobility scooter worth RMB 180,000. Unexpectedly, they encountered unanimous opposition from everyone. Lin Zhiyuan and Han Yidao were worried, saying that they should be extra careful especially in this special period.

When Chen Xu and Zhao Yuhan were chatting, they said: "Am I too useless? You see, Lin Zihan is three years younger than me. Look at how independent he is. He always drives in and out by himself. And he even went abroad to study by himself before."