Life is more than just living

Cheng Jiaojiao was silent for a long time after hearing Chen Xu's words. Chen Xu didn't ask anything, just waited silently for Cheng Jiaojiao to speak. Cheng Jiaojiao put one arm on the back of the sofa, resting her head on her hand, and said with difficulty: "Sister Xu, do you remember? When we first met, the male classmate in our class was my classmate at the time. Desk Ren Lida?"

Chen Xu nodded and said he remembered. Cheng Jiaojiao sighed, "Ren Lida and I were classmates in junior high school. Speaking of which, we studied together for six years. He wrote me many love letters. At that time, I felt inexplicable and didn't go to school at all. I didn't like him at that time. I thought he was just a nerd and he was quite boring. But not long after I was a sophomore in high school, his mother came to make trouble in front of our school. You witnessed the whole thing. The reason is that they found a diary full of love for me, saying that his happiest time was when I encountered a problem and he helped me explain the topic. His mother felt that such love would delay him. When I was studying, he came to the school gate to embarrass me. He wanted to ruin my reputation and make me feel ashamed. From that day on, I told the teacher that I changed my seat. He asked me a lot. I ignored him every time. Later, his grades dropped drastically. What's funny is that his mother once again ran to the school gate and blocked me, begging me to forgive him and be his roommate again, but I didn't agree. . Later, our teachers all did my job. After all, our teachers also hoped that someone in the class would be admitted to Tsinghua University. But I simply refused. I said that if the teacher insisted on doing this, I would transfer to another school. If not, I would rather drop out of school.”

Chen Xu looked at Cheng Jiaojiao with admiration in his eyes. This little girl knew clearly what she liked and hated, and she dared to speak and act without any hesitation.

Cheng Jiaojiao paused for a while and then said: "Later, the school organized a coming-of-age ceremony. He spoke as a student representative. Originally, his speech was reviewed by the teacher. It is not difficult to imagine that the speech should be an impassioned encouragement for everyone to study hard and strive for progress. Unexpectedly, on the day of his official speech, he threw away the speech and said loudly: "Cheng Jiaojiao, youa"

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e! In my six years of boring study life, you are the source of my happiness. Here, I want to apologize to you. My mother's selfishness and my cowardice have hurt you! I know that I am very boring and can do nothing but study. I am not worthy of you. But I still secretly liked you for six years. I like you, and this shouldn't be the reason for you to be hurt! I also despicably passed the exam and deliberately made wrong questions. The decline in my grades caused panic among teachers and parents, in order to achieve the goal of continuing to sit at the same table with you. Cheng Jiaojiao, getting admitted to Tsinghua University is the ideal of our family and teachers, and you are my ideal! 'The senior high school students at that time were overwhelmed by the countdown to the college entrance examination every day. Ren Lida's confession made these students who were overwhelmed by studying excited. The coming-of-age ceremony at that time was filled with thunderous applause and loud cheers! But the school leaders, teachers and parents looked at each other in shock. The teacher who was presiding over the coming-of-age ceremony was so anxious that he stepped forward and snatched away the microphone. This incident excited the classmates for a long time, and I was very touched at the time. My father was by my side at the time, and he said to me amidst the cheers: This young man is very brave, and I still like this very much. But it's up to you whether you like him or not. "

Cheng Jiaojiao closed her eyes, "I'm very worthless. From that moment on, my feelings towards Ren Lida changed a lot. But I didn't respond to him positively. After the college entrance examination, the classmates' homes held entrance banquets one after another. I also I received an invitation from Ren Lida, but I didn't go because my father was a public official and was not allowed to hold large-scale entrance banquets, so I invited a few of my best classmates to have a meal, and Ren Lida came uninvited that day. , I don’t know who tipped him off. This makes me feel awkward, but I feel a little bit happy in my heart. Am I hopeless? Now that the admission information has come out, he got his wish, and I got admitted to Xu. Sister, your alma mater. I am very confused now. Should I respond to his feelings? I went on a trip alone some time ago, but his figure always appeared in my mind, which made me feel very free and easy. I am quite unwilling to be tied down by him. I really want to talk to others about this matter, but my father is very busy and my mother is pregnant with the baby and has to take care of business, so I don’t dare to talk about it. The matter bothers them. So I have to talk to you. It is said that the authorities are confused. Sister Xu, what do you think about this matter?

This posed a problem for Chen Xu. She thought for a long time before saying dryly: "Jiaojiao, thank you for trusting me so much! However, my love life is relatively simple, and it is based on marriage. I am relatively I'm more passive. I may not be able to give you good advice. I think you have to follow your own heart when it comes to relationships. At your age, you can have a hearty love relationship. To put it simply, I think when you are in love, you should be more happy than troubled when you are with someone. He can provide you with emotional value and give you a sense of security. It is the premise of wronging yourself, rather than letting go of your own preferences and completely accommodating the other person's self-impression. In addition, if you feel that you don't have feelings when you are with a person, you must end the relationship as soon as possible. In hindsight, it’s just sloppy.”

Cheng Jiaojiao thought about it and smiled, "Then I'll give it a try. How will I know if it works if I don't try it? Thank you, senior sister!" After saying that, she asked Chen Xu in a sly voice: "Sister Xu, hehe, you Can you tell me about your love process? I have never been in love, and I am full of curiosity about other people's feelings." Chen Xu leaned on the sofa and thought about it, starting from the first time he met Han Yidao. Chen Xu spoke intermittently, but Cheng Jiaojiao listened with gusto. Her eyes were bright and she said with some yearning: "Sister Xu, I think your experience can be written into a novel. It's quite ups and downs." Chen Xu smiled and shook his head. He shook his head and said, "Everyone's life will have some twists and turns. It's not a big deal. The abyss of yesterday is the shallow talk of today! Little girl, enjoy your life now! You are about to enter the university campus. I hope you can work hard. Study hard and live seriously. When I look back on my campus life in the future, I will still think it is wonderful and unforgettable.”

At this time, Cheng Jiaojiao's phone rang. The moment she answered the call, Chen Xu went to the bathroom. When Chen Xu came out of the bathroom, Cheng Jiaojiao stood up and said goodbye, "Sister Xu, I'm going on a date. Wait for my good news!" Chen Xu said to find someone to take her there because there was no taxi here. Cheng Jiaojiao didn't show any pretense, thanked her and followed the arrangement.

After sending Cheng Jiaojiao away, Chen Xu returned upstairs, where Han Hui was holding Xiaohua and watching the nanny make dinner. Seeing Chen Xu come in, Han Hui said happily: "Zihan called just now and said that her parents are coming over. Your brother's marriage can be put on the agenda."