Life is more than just living

Since this semester, Chen Xu has come to stay with her grandma every weekend. She gave up going out to work part-time. She decided to wait for the winter and summer vacations before going to work in a clothing store, and spend more time with her grandma.

Once when three people were chatting, grandma asked Chen Xu about his future plans, "Xiao Xu, you will graduate in one year. Have you ever thought about what you will do after graduation?" Chen Xu looked at grandma and then at Han Yidao, "Grandma, actually I In the past, I always studied hard and wanted to take the civil service exam. I have had no sense of security since I was a child. I feel that although the salary is not particularly high when I enter a government agency, the income is stable and there is no sense of crisis."

The old man said: "Okay, kid, I support whatever you do, but girls don't need to work too hard. I also think that government agencies are more suitable for you." Chen Xu looked at Han Yidao with questioning eyes, and he looked at her with approval. , "You can do whatever you like, just do what you like. But I think you should sign up for a training class? I see that many people who are taking the public examination are participating in training. If you take the exam naked, you will suffer a loss."

Chen Xu said a little embarrassedly: "Actually, when the seniors graduated, their things were sold at the flea market. I bought their question banks and real test papers. They were very cheap, only a few yuan each. I think the written test, There should be no need for training, but if you are shortlisted for the interview, you may still need short-term training." Han Yidao nodded.

Every weekend is Wu Sixian's happiest time. Looking at her grandson and Chen Xu, the old man feels very satisfied. The old man often said recently that after Chen Xu graduates, when the two of them get married, they can live here and renovate the house. Chen Xu was very embarrassed to hear this, but at the same time, she was also glad that her grandmother accepted her from the bottom of her heart. she.

Han Yidao was deep in thought and remained silent.

The old man saw that Han Yidao was worried. One night, when Chen Xu was not around, grandma asked: "Last time I told you two to use this as a wedding room. You seemed unhappy. Why? Did you feel wronged by Xiao Xu, or were you afraid of you? Mom is unhappy?"

Han Yidao didn't hide it, "Grandma, I can't afford a wedding house yet, but if Chen Xu and I get married in this house, then my mother will have a deeper prejudice against you. In the past, I didn't want to go back, she always I think you are competing with her for the child. If I get married in this house, my mother will think that you are also trying to steal your daughter-in-law from her. Then the relationship between you two will be even more difficult to ease."

The old man smiled, "The relationship between her and me will never be eased in this life. It's been almost 20 years now, and she still hasn't let it go. Let's put it this way, I don't have much hope for her, so you don't have to embarrass yourself. . I think Xiaoxu’s child is not pretentious and is suitable for life. If the two of you can get together, you will be blessed in this life. I am just worried that your mother will not be able to live well. She is always thinking about finding someone who can be right with her. You have a helpful wife. I think finding a wife is about living with yourself, just a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Looking for a wife is not looking for a noble man. I don’t agree with your mother’s idea. But after all, this is your lifelong event. You make your own decision. I think you two are quite compatible, just follow your heart!"

Fang Jia and her boyfriend have entered the stage of passionate love. Every morning, the roommates will be woken up by Fang Jia's phone ringing. Her boyfriend provides wake-up service every day. Sometimes it is very late and the lights have been turned off, but Fang Jia is still using it. Chatting with boyfriend on mobile phone.

In contrast, Chen Xu felt that he and Han Yidao did not feel like they were in love, but more like an old married couple. Every night before going to bed, Han Yidao would routinely report the day's schedule on WeChat, and then end it by saying good night. I have been accepting him for some time, but Han Yidao has always been more affectionate than polite, and has never done anything out of line towards him. But that's okay, because Chen Xu was bullied as a boy, which left a shadow in Chen Xu's heart, and she was very repelled by physical intimacy. Han Yidao's way of getting along with her made her feel comfortable.