Starting from you are my glory

"Eiko is your child."

Liu Jing's expression didn't change. She smiled and looked at Song Qian, who looked unhappy, "Parents must hope that their children will surpass themselves."

"This transcendence does not refer to academic performance, nor does it refer to university rankings, but any good transcendence from any angle or direction."

Part of Song Qian's control over Qiao Yingzi stemmed from wanting to prove to Qiao Weidong that she could take care of and raise good children without him. The other part is to give her own comfort.

After being betrayed by my husband, I lived a good life myself, and I also educated my children well.

A two-pronged approach proves that Qiao Weidong's existence is meaningless. This is actually the meaning of Qiao Yingzi's entrustment.

"Last time we were in the planetarium." Song Qian fell into deep thought, but Liu Jing continued without interrupting: "You have also seen the kind of confidence that Yingzi, a kid, shows in the field that he loves and pursues. The temperament is so fascinating and comforting.”

"Peking University is right next to my home. It's close to home. I can take care of you if you need anything."

This is Song Qian's reason, Song Qian's defense, Song Qian's own reason for convincing her. Unfortunately, others do not agree.

Liu Jing listened patiently and smiled, "Yangyang likes racing. Although he didn't say it, his father and I both know that he will study this major in college and then work in this field after graduation."

"Aren't you going to take the public exam?!" As soon as Song Qian's subconscious words came out, Tong Wenjie also looked at Liu Jing in confusion.

After all, there is a father who is a leader in the system. Ji Yangyang's future path will definitely be much better than trying to find a new path by himself. I don't understand why Liu Jing thinks so. Are the children's thoughts important at this time? !

"Yangyang has his own ideas."

"As a parent, you just need to ensure that your child's ideas are legal and legal. He will have to walk his own path in the future. No matter how much you talk or prepare, it actually means nothing."

"What if his life in the future is unsatisfactory?" Tong Wenjie couldn't help but asked, "Everything is up to the children. The ups and downs we have gone through, the detours we have taken, the hardships we have endured, we should tell them in advance. Wouldn't it be better to help them avoid it?"

Yes, we have obviously gone through this impassable road, why not let the children not choose this road or take a detour?

"It's useless." Liu Jing's tone revealed a kind of tolerance and tolerance that sees through the world.

"The kettle that has just been boiled is very hot. If you tell your child, he will not avoid the kettle as you think. He will only know that he cannot touch it after he actually touches the kettle."

"Then what's the point of our hard work?" Tong Wenjie was a little confused. She and Fangyuan had endured so much hardship for so many years, and the reason for perseverance was all because of the child.

Now according to Liu Jing's words, this is meaningless. No matter how well they do, children will always try and make mistakes according to their own ideas to arrange their own lives.

"We are the lower limit." Liu Jing looked at the confused Tong Wenjie and Song Qian and patted their hands. "The efforts of our generation are to give children more room to choose, no matter what path they choose. Wrong, they will all go on their own, and we, the parents, play the role of covering up.”

"The upper limit we strive to reach is to give children a starting point to realize their dreams without any worries."

Starting point?

Song Qian and Tong Wenjie fell into thinking. Liu Jing's words were too realistic, speaking of love and being loved in reality. This was an aspect that they had not realized before.

"After all, we and our children are not the same generation."

Song Qian was confused, but Liu Jing clearly held her hand, "Children have their own ideas and their own pursuits. As parents, to be honest, we just need to do the logistics well. Excessive interference and self-righteous decisions will only lead to self-deception if we look at it over time.”

"But what if she goes to Nanda and doesn't know how to take care of herself?"

Song Qian's last resistance made Tong Wenjie roll her eyes. Why, the university doesn't take care of herself, so you still go to study with her? Then if you go to work in the future, will you still work with her? After getting married and starting a family, you still go to live with her? !

She rolled her eyes so hard that Song Qian who said this knew that what she said was inappropriate, but this was her last persistence and her last stubbornness.

"You can go to Nanjing University." Liu Jing's way of speaking was completely different from Tong Wenjie's. Tong Wenjie would have thrown in a sarcastic tone, but Liu Jing couldn't do it and kept her calm tone.

"But I think when children grow up, they always have to spread their wings and fly."

"Whether it's Nanjing or Beijing, it's just a matter of geographical location. Are you worried that Yingzi will ignore you after she leaves Beijing, or are you worried that you won't know how to live alone after Yingzi leaves?!"

Do you know how to live alone?

Song Qian didn't know that in her life, she had parents, ex-husband, and children, but she was not alone. Liu Jing's words touched the bottom of her heart.

Qiao Yingzi, is she your daughter or the one you rely on for survival? !

"Let her go to NTU. The young eagle has to fly on its own. We actually have no control over the children's choices. We can only give our opinions. They have their own ideas and are fighting for their own future."

"Is the future you see necessarily what the children want?!"

"Without going through wind and rain, where would the rainbow appear?!"

Song Qian was silent after listening, and Liu Jing did not rush her, but drank tea slowly, waiting for her to make her own decision.

……

"It's been so long, why haven't you come back yet?"

At Fangyuan's house, Qiao Weidong walked around the living room as if his butt was on fire, never being quiet for a moment.

"Everyone has gone, what can you do to remind me?" Fangyuan changed the tea bag and brewed it in hot water leisurely.

"If you had not divorced back then, Yingzi would have had a happy family, and all the worries and worries you have now would be nothing."

"I've already told you that I was framed for what happened back then!"

"Why are you talking to me? Go talk to Song Qian!"

"No, Song Qian doesn't listen to me either!" Qiao Weidong clapped his hands in frustration, "If she had listened to me, she wouldn't be like this now!"

"So in the final analysis, this is between you and your ex-wife." Fang Yuan poured the brewed tea for Ji Shengli and said with a smile: "You, a client, are urging us outsiders to speed up the progress. Although you are shameless, but You can’t be so shameless, right?!”

"Aren't I worried?" Qiao Weidong picked up the tea cup in front of Fangyuan and drank it in one gulp: "You also know that Song Qian is not that easy to talk to."

"You are lucky to get it, but you will lose your life." Ji Shengli moved the teacup in front of him to Fang Yuan and looked at Qiao Weidong, "If you think you tried your best, it doesn't matter what the result is."

"If you feel that you haven't tried your best, you can go to Song Qian's place while you still have time!"

"Ahem, I'm just worried."

Qiao Weidong was so thick-skinned that Fangyuan could only roll his eyes and continue without any words.

……

"For more than a month, Yingzi has been alone in Nanjing, and I can't take care of him. What should I do?"

As soon as Song Qian said these words, Tong Wenjie and Liu Jing looked at each other and smiled, knowing that the matter was settled.

“Nanjing isn’t that far away either!”

Tong Wenjie took out her phone and checked the distance, "Whether it's by plane or train, there are direct connections."

"Besides, the winter camps are all under centralized management and there is no time to run out. What else do you have to worry about?!"

Song Qian is not worried, she is just struggling for her own role in the end, trying to prove that without her, Yingzi may not live a good life.

It's a pity that we found the wrong person. Tong Wenjie and Liu Jing are both sons, and Yingzi's performance over the years is very reassuring, so there is nothing to worry about.

"If you are really worried, you can go to Nanjing to see Yingzi if you have nothing to do!"

Tong Wenjie handed the searched mobile page to Song Qian, "Soon, if you leave after get off work, you can arrive in the evening, and you can even take Yingzi to dinner!"

Her best friend had already considered it so well for her. Song Qian couldn't find any reason to shirk or refuse, so she could only nod her head, "Okay, I'll tell Yingzi when she comes back tonight!"

"What night are you waiting for!" Tong Wenjie stood up and grabbed Song Qian, "They are still in class now, go directly to school, sign the application form and it's over! Don't worry about anything else!"

There is only one weakling here, and that is Qiao Weidong. Tong Wenjie loves and feels sorry for Yingzi. As for Qiao Weidong?

Stay wherever it's cool!