Rebirth: 1977
Chapter 205 Using your kindness to hurt you
When Yin Yuling heard her brother ask this, she was stunned for a moment, and immediately explained in panic:
"Xiao Shui, don't misunderstand Master Zhou. We usually don't talk, but we just say a few words when handing over clothes.
I won't have any other dealings with other men. "
Yin Tianshui sighed and felt a headache. He didn't know when the eldest sister would know how to protect herself.
Being kind is not a bad thing, but what is scary is that others will use your kindness to hurt you!
He said patiently:
"Sister, I don't know anyone here. You've only been here for more than ten days. Do you know them?
But if I ask you a random question, you will immediately answer me, ‘The people in the factory are very nice’ and ‘He takes good care of you’.
You have to learn to understand others carefully.
There is no one in this world who is nice to you for no reason. "
What Yin Tianshui didn't say was that the eldest sister came to work in the factory. Some people would know through a little inquiry what connections she had.
“You have to take more time to get to know the people around you who treat you well and keep an appropriate distance.
Of course, you are kind, you are young and beautiful, and you work quickly and well. These are your advantages.
But if you don't handle it well, it may turn into a disadvantage for you. "
He patiently talked to the eldest sister in detail.
Yin Tianshui knew that he had a long road ahead, and Pingcheng would not be able to trap him in the future.
This Panjiawan was just a former 'station' in his life.
He hoped that his eldest sister would have a good life.
"How could that be? As long as I am sincerely good to others, why should they treat me badly?"
Yin Yuling asked in confusion.
Yin Tianshui knew that the eldest sister had her stubbornness in her heart.
He wanted to let it go, but what if he really left and she got into trouble?
After all, Yin Tianshui couldn't bear to let go of the 'eldest sister' who once treated him wholeheartedly and experienced twists and turns again.
Raising Grandma Pan is easy, as long as you pay enough money.
The eldest sister is different. She is young and has her own ideas. Her happiness cannot be obtained and solved by giving her money.
"Sister, do you still remember Shen Jing?
Why is she nice to you?
Have you forgotten the losses you suffered so quickly? "
He was not prepared to treat his eldest sister like a child, as that would harm her.
Although telling the truth may make the eldest sister feel uncomfortable and even complain about him in a short period of time.
Yin Tianshui still chose to tell the truth.
The sounding drum still needs heavy beating, not to mention that the eldest sister is like a ‘dumb drum’.
When Shen Jing was mentioned, Yin Yuling's face turned pale, which was the pain in her heart.
She lost more than 1000 yuan in vain!
She worked hard for three years without eating or drinking and could not earn that much.
If Yin Tianshui knew what the eldest sister was thinking, he would be even more powerless.
In order for the eldest sister to face her future life calmly earlier, he continued to stab:
"It's not a bad thing that you are young and beautiful, but you are a divorced woman, and your ex-husband is dead.
These things are not your fault, but they will be the reasons for others to spurn you and criticize you.
I asked you just now, does that man have a family?
If he has a family, his wife will be taboo about you getting close to him.
If he has no wife and is a single man, does he have any purpose in getting close to you and being nice to you?
No matter what the purpose of this man is to be nice to you, as an inspector, he loudly says that you do a good job and work quickly.
Don't tell me that you are the most skilled and the fastest in the factory.
Even if it is true, others have been doing it for several years, but you have just been working for ten days and you have surpassed them, let alone say it in your mouth. "
Yin Tianshui felt helpless when he saw that his eldest sister was not listening patiently to his teachings.
He seemed to be teaching a child, but the other party didn't listen at all.
If he hadn't known that he would be leaving soon, Yin Tianshui would not have been willing to break it down and explain it in detail to his eldest sister.
And it made her unhappy!
"Sister, he clearly knows the factory's rules and regulations, and clothes must be inspected, but he said that your clothes do not need to be inspected.
why?
He really trusts you, and it's not impossible not to test it, but he said it loudly so that everyone else could hear it.
Sister, have you ever thought about the consequences of that? "
Yin Tianshui's tone of voice gradually became harsher, making Yin Yuling feel even more uncomfortable.
"But if I refused and he didn't test it, he would definitely test it."
Yin Yuling defended.
Yin Tianshui understood that it was not the eldest sister's fault, so he would patiently remind her.
"That's the problem. Others have heard what he said, and he will test it in the end.
Then if he deliberately said this, it would only be detrimental to you!
The consequence of his doing this is that people in the workshop will misunderstand that he is closer to you than to others.
He is belittling others and promoting you, which will make people in the workshop dissatisfied with you and even jealous of you.
If you think about it further, others will misunderstand you as a divorced woman who has just come to work and is seducing men! "
Yin Tianshui himself understood that these words were not true. They were too harsh and too mean!
But his eldest sister didn't know it, so he had to warn her.
"Xiao Shui, how could you do this to me? Don't you know what kind of person I am?"
Yin Yuling cried sadly.
Yin Tianshui knew that he was impatient, but he did not have time to teach his eldest sister slowly.
She can only remember it after it stings her.
His tall figure blocked all eyes, and he didn't want the eldest sister's embarrassment to be seen in other people's eyes.
"Sister, I understand you, but others don't understand you? Do you understand what I mean?
Harmfulness is not allowed, and defensiveness is necessary!
Sister, I can't always be by your side to protect you. The last thing I want is to see you being used and hurt by others because of your kindness.
Remember the lesson of Shen Jing. Most of those who approach you for no reason have ulterior motives and bad intentions. "
“You mean I can’t contact anyone, I can’t trust anyone?
Will no one really be kind to me? "
Yin Yuling was unwilling to accept Yin Tianshui's preaching.
She was very resistant.
Her brother's words hurt her self-esteem.
It hurt her newly built self-confidence!
Yin Tianshui smiled bitterly. He had known for a long time that in front of the eldest sister, he would be unhappy if he said something serious, but if he said something light, he would not say anything.
This is why he decided to separate the family.
I originally thought that with Shen Jing's experience, the eldest sister would be more mature and cautious in dealing with others.
Now it seems that the scar is healed and the pain is forgotten.
In other words, she has not forgotten the pain, but she remains the same when facing different people.
"Don't cry. I spoke too harshly. Sister, you should know that I am doing it for your own good... I have no bad intentions."
His voice dropped.
I never imagined that one day I would say hurtful words for the sake of 'for your own good'.
Yin Tianshui thought that after all, her eldest sister was at this age and had experienced so many hardships. She had her own way of dealing with things.
You can't use your own methods to force her to accept changes.
Let her grow up slowly.
Didn't he himself live in vain?
"I know you mean it for me, but what you said makes me uncomfortable.
You feel great now and look down on me from the bottom of your heart!
rest assured!
I am not a frivolous person, nor do I want to remarry, so I don’t need you to teach me! "
Yin Yuling accused with anger.
Yin Tianshui regretted that he had done something unnecessary.
The goal was not achieved, but it hurt the eldest sister's heart.
Forget it, a loss is a blessing. I hope the eldest sister can understand her good intentions in the future.
"I was wrong. Please forgive me, eldest sister. I will never say anything that makes you sad again."
Yin Tianshui was convinced.
Yin Yuling's face looked better:
"I don't blame you, you have to believe me too."
After Yin Tianshui left, many people came to Yin Yuling's sewing machine one after another, asking for information about him.
"Yuling, is he your brother? He looks really impressive. Do you have a partner?"
"Yuling, it turns out you have such a proud younger brother. What kind of job does he do outside?"
"Yuling, please introduce your brother to my daughter. My daughter is here this year."
Inspector Zhou Pingliang also came over and asked in a friendly tone:
"Yuling, is your brother treating you well?
I seem to hear him speaking in a tone that doesn't respect you very much? "
The voices around him suddenly became quiet, and everyone looked at him. Everyone knew that Master Zhou cared about Yin Yuling.
You see, even her brother's tone is helping her to care about her.
Everyone's eyes immediately changed and they quickly left Yin Yuling's side.
Yin Yuling was originally annoying those people asking about Xiao Shui.
But why did others ignore her as soon as Master Zhou opened his mouth?
Thinking of her brother's words of warning, she carefully understood the meaning of Master Zhou's words, as if he was speaking for her.
Why does it seem to be driving a wedge between the two siblings?
She was wary, but she never spoke in a rude manner, so she just explained with a red face:
"Master Zhou, you are so far away from our siblings, can you not hear what we are saying?
My brother is known to be kind to me. He came from the city to see me today. Why would he say disrespectful words to me?
You must have heard wrong. "
"Xiao Shui, don't misunderstand Master Zhou. We usually don't talk, but we just say a few words when handing over clothes.
I won't have any other dealings with other men. "
Yin Tianshui sighed and felt a headache. He didn't know when the eldest sister would know how to protect herself.
Being kind is not a bad thing, but what is scary is that others will use your kindness to hurt you!
He said patiently:
"Sister, I don't know anyone here. You've only been here for more than ten days. Do you know them?
But if I ask you a random question, you will immediately answer me, ‘The people in the factory are very nice’ and ‘He takes good care of you’.
You have to learn to understand others carefully.
There is no one in this world who is nice to you for no reason. "
What Yin Tianshui didn't say was that the eldest sister came to work in the factory. Some people would know through a little inquiry what connections she had.
“You have to take more time to get to know the people around you who treat you well and keep an appropriate distance.
Of course, you are kind, you are young and beautiful, and you work quickly and well. These are your advantages.
But if you don't handle it well, it may turn into a disadvantage for you. "
He patiently talked to the eldest sister in detail.
Yin Tianshui knew that he had a long road ahead, and Pingcheng would not be able to trap him in the future.
This Panjiawan was just a former 'station' in his life.
He hoped that his eldest sister would have a good life.
"How could that be? As long as I am sincerely good to others, why should they treat me badly?"
Yin Yuling asked in confusion.
Yin Tianshui knew that the eldest sister had her stubbornness in her heart.
He wanted to let it go, but what if he really left and she got into trouble?
After all, Yin Tianshui couldn't bear to let go of the 'eldest sister' who once treated him wholeheartedly and experienced twists and turns again.
Raising Grandma Pan is easy, as long as you pay enough money.
The eldest sister is different. She is young and has her own ideas. Her happiness cannot be obtained and solved by giving her money.
"Sister, do you still remember Shen Jing?
Why is she nice to you?
Have you forgotten the losses you suffered so quickly? "
He was not prepared to treat his eldest sister like a child, as that would harm her.
Although telling the truth may make the eldest sister feel uncomfortable and even complain about him in a short period of time.
Yin Tianshui still chose to tell the truth.
The sounding drum still needs heavy beating, not to mention that the eldest sister is like a ‘dumb drum’.
When Shen Jing was mentioned, Yin Yuling's face turned pale, which was the pain in her heart.
She lost more than 1000 yuan in vain!
She worked hard for three years without eating or drinking and could not earn that much.
If Yin Tianshui knew what the eldest sister was thinking, he would be even more powerless.
In order for the eldest sister to face her future life calmly earlier, he continued to stab:
"It's not a bad thing that you are young and beautiful, but you are a divorced woman, and your ex-husband is dead.
These things are not your fault, but they will be the reasons for others to spurn you and criticize you.
I asked you just now, does that man have a family?
If he has a family, his wife will be taboo about you getting close to him.
If he has no wife and is a single man, does he have any purpose in getting close to you and being nice to you?
No matter what the purpose of this man is to be nice to you, as an inspector, he loudly says that you do a good job and work quickly.
Don't tell me that you are the most skilled and the fastest in the factory.
Even if it is true, others have been doing it for several years, but you have just been working for ten days and you have surpassed them, let alone say it in your mouth. "
Yin Tianshui felt helpless when he saw that his eldest sister was not listening patiently to his teachings.
He seemed to be teaching a child, but the other party didn't listen at all.
If he hadn't known that he would be leaving soon, Yin Tianshui would not have been willing to break it down and explain it in detail to his eldest sister.
And it made her unhappy!
"Sister, he clearly knows the factory's rules and regulations, and clothes must be inspected, but he said that your clothes do not need to be inspected.
why?
He really trusts you, and it's not impossible not to test it, but he said it loudly so that everyone else could hear it.
Sister, have you ever thought about the consequences of that? "
Yin Tianshui's tone of voice gradually became harsher, making Yin Yuling feel even more uncomfortable.
"But if I refused and he didn't test it, he would definitely test it."
Yin Yuling defended.
Yin Tianshui understood that it was not the eldest sister's fault, so he would patiently remind her.
"That's the problem. Others have heard what he said, and he will test it in the end.
Then if he deliberately said this, it would only be detrimental to you!
The consequence of his doing this is that people in the workshop will misunderstand that he is closer to you than to others.
He is belittling others and promoting you, which will make people in the workshop dissatisfied with you and even jealous of you.
If you think about it further, others will misunderstand you as a divorced woman who has just come to work and is seducing men! "
Yin Tianshui himself understood that these words were not true. They were too harsh and too mean!
But his eldest sister didn't know it, so he had to warn her.
"Xiao Shui, how could you do this to me? Don't you know what kind of person I am?"
Yin Yuling cried sadly.
Yin Tianshui knew that he was impatient, but he did not have time to teach his eldest sister slowly.
She can only remember it after it stings her.
His tall figure blocked all eyes, and he didn't want the eldest sister's embarrassment to be seen in other people's eyes.
"Sister, I understand you, but others don't understand you? Do you understand what I mean?
Harmfulness is not allowed, and defensiveness is necessary!
Sister, I can't always be by your side to protect you. The last thing I want is to see you being used and hurt by others because of your kindness.
Remember the lesson of Shen Jing. Most of those who approach you for no reason have ulterior motives and bad intentions. "
“You mean I can’t contact anyone, I can’t trust anyone?
Will no one really be kind to me? "
Yin Yuling was unwilling to accept Yin Tianshui's preaching.
She was very resistant.
Her brother's words hurt her self-esteem.
It hurt her newly built self-confidence!
Yin Tianshui smiled bitterly. He had known for a long time that in front of the eldest sister, he would be unhappy if he said something serious, but if he said something light, he would not say anything.
This is why he decided to separate the family.
I originally thought that with Shen Jing's experience, the eldest sister would be more mature and cautious in dealing with others.
Now it seems that the scar is healed and the pain is forgotten.
In other words, she has not forgotten the pain, but she remains the same when facing different people.
"Don't cry. I spoke too harshly. Sister, you should know that I am doing it for your own good... I have no bad intentions."
His voice dropped.
I never imagined that one day I would say hurtful words for the sake of 'for your own good'.
Yin Tianshui thought that after all, her eldest sister was at this age and had experienced so many hardships. She had her own way of dealing with things.
You can't use your own methods to force her to accept changes.
Let her grow up slowly.
Didn't he himself live in vain?
"I know you mean it for me, but what you said makes me uncomfortable.
You feel great now and look down on me from the bottom of your heart!
rest assured!
I am not a frivolous person, nor do I want to remarry, so I don’t need you to teach me! "
Yin Yuling accused with anger.
Yin Tianshui regretted that he had done something unnecessary.
The goal was not achieved, but it hurt the eldest sister's heart.
Forget it, a loss is a blessing. I hope the eldest sister can understand her good intentions in the future.
"I was wrong. Please forgive me, eldest sister. I will never say anything that makes you sad again."
Yin Tianshui was convinced.
Yin Yuling's face looked better:
"I don't blame you, you have to believe me too."
After Yin Tianshui left, many people came to Yin Yuling's sewing machine one after another, asking for information about him.
"Yuling, is he your brother? He looks really impressive. Do you have a partner?"
"Yuling, it turns out you have such a proud younger brother. What kind of job does he do outside?"
"Yuling, please introduce your brother to my daughter. My daughter is here this year."
Inspector Zhou Pingliang also came over and asked in a friendly tone:
"Yuling, is your brother treating you well?
I seem to hear him speaking in a tone that doesn't respect you very much? "
The voices around him suddenly became quiet, and everyone looked at him. Everyone knew that Master Zhou cared about Yin Yuling.
You see, even her brother's tone is helping her to care about her.
Everyone's eyes immediately changed and they quickly left Yin Yuling's side.
Yin Yuling was originally annoying those people asking about Xiao Shui.
But why did others ignore her as soon as Master Zhou opened his mouth?
Thinking of her brother's words of warning, she carefully understood the meaning of Master Zhou's words, as if he was speaking for her.
Why does it seem to be driving a wedge between the two siblings?
She was wary, but she never spoke in a rude manner, so she just explained with a red face:
"Master Zhou, you are so far away from our siblings, can you not hear what we are saying?
My brother is known to be kind to me. He came from the city to see me today. Why would he say disrespectful words to me?
You must have heard wrong. "
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