Flower Fairy's Tribulation

Wu Qianshou said: "Pull you down! I change my girlfriend every three days and still say that I have a noble character and feel sorry for myself. How shameless are you?"

Zhang Xian said: "You don't understand. I had no choice but to change girlfriends frequently because I was trying to find my true love. I changed because I couldn't find it after searching hard. Don't you think I'm pitiful?"

Everyone was speechless.

Hua Yueying asked: "Daxian, how many girlfriends have you had in total? Isn't any of them true love?"

Zhang Xian sighed and said: "It's not much, less than three digits. I'm really unlucky!"

Wu Qianshou said: "Almost three digits? How can you say that you have read countless people, and you still call yourself unlucky?"

Zhang Xian smiled and said: "No matter how many people you read, you will be unlucky if you don't have true love that suits you!"

Wu Qianshou: "How many true loves do you need?"

Zhang Xian: "It depends on the situation. The more, the better."

Hua Yueying smiled and said: "Daxian, true love is exclusive and exclusive, not overwhelming. Does it require a lot?"

Zhang Xian denied it and said, "It depends on what you think. I don't think there is any definite answer."

Hua Yueying stopped eating and said, "Oh? What about?"

Zhang Xian: "For example, I already have a confidante, but God suddenly arranges another one for me, who also likes me and what I like. If I don't accept it, it will be against heaven, so the two True love is also possible, and by analogy, it is God’s arrangement to some extent. We can only accept it and cannot refuse. This is also the practical reason why there are groups of wives and concubines, so you are wrong to say that it is exclusive or exclusive. "

Everyone shook their heads, and Lin Chenzhong said: "If a woman likes two men at the same time, and both men also like this girl, should she choose one of them or both?"

Zhang Xian said: "There is no absolute standard answer to this question. It depends on the girl's decision. She can choose one of them, or she can choose to accept two people at the same time. With different preferences, there is no right or wrong!"

Everyone was stunned, and Zhang Ying said: "Brother, are you deliberately trying to flatter the public with your remarks? There are only men with three wives and four concubines in the world, how can there be a woman who marries two husbands? Such a shameless woman must be tolerated by the world. This is not right. possibly exists."

Zhang Xian said: "You are right, there are no public cases of a woman marrying two men in our society, but in disguise, how many women cheat on men and commit adultery with others? Have you ever thought about their reasons? I think the evidence that these women are unable to be satisfied with one true love and desire more, although it is condemned and unacceptable, is real. You can't deny it, right?"

Everyone was stunned, Wu Qianshou said: "For men, adultery is called coquettishness, and they can laugh it off, but for women, adultery is called coquettishness, shameless, and they must be judged morally and legally. So do you want to teach girls to let loose?" Self, fooling around with others freely?"

Zhang Xian said: "Moral and legal standards are conventional social rules, one is non-mandatory and the other is mandatory, but in the final analysis they are all set by people. If most people's thoughts change, morals and laws will change."

"In the patriarchal society we live in, women must submit to men. When the family is poor and desperate, the husband can sell his wife for money, but the wife cannot sell her husband. This unequal power relationship is a stipulation of our social rules. Women are not born this way."

"By extension, the rules that are universally applicable in our society may not necessarily hold true in other societies. So, if men can have groups of wives and concubines, why can't women? It's just that we choose to accept the former but not the latter. That’s all.”

Lin Chenzhong said: "You are right to say that, but morals and laws are formed in society over time. They are the basis for the orderly operation of society and need to be observed by us together. If we do not abide by morals and laws, nothing will happen to us. If there is unbridled chaos, where is the bottom line? How can we establish a good relationship with others? Society will be in chaos."

"For example, if my wife gives birth to a child in the future, but I can't be sure whether the child was born by me, then I will go crazy and absolutely cannot accept this situation. Family tragedy will inevitably break out. By extension, if this happens to thousands of households, Society loses its order.”

Zhang Xian said: "You are right. When you live in a specific society, you must abide by the social rules in order to survive smoothly, but social rules are not static."

"I will give you an example. There is an ancient clan living in isolation in the deep mountains and forests of Beihai. Their form of social rights is different from the patriarchal society we live in, but a feminist world dominated by women. Their tribal marriages The form is walking marriage. When a woman is in love with the man, he can come to her house to become husband and wife at night and leave during the day, so it is called walking marriage."

"They do not have fixed husbands. The women's children live with their mothers. They only know who their mothers are and who their uncles are, but they do not know who their father is. This peculiar way of social operation is absolutely prohibited by our social rules, but It is indeed a tradition for them since ancient times. It is reasonable and indisputable. Who do you think is right and who is wrong?"

Everyone was stunned and speechless. After a long time, Wu Qianshou said: "Okay, we can't defeat you, but before, Yiyi fell in love with me and the young master at the same time. If she doesn't choose one of us, but chooses both of us at the same time, she will step on her feet." Two boats, I will never associate with her. I can't accept such a woman. Similarly, Yiyi can't accept young wives and concubines in groups, so she chose me. Although there are so many cases of three wives and four concubines in our society, I still agree with it. Xiaoying said it is exclusive and exclusive."

Hua Yueying thought: What Zhang Xian said are real social phenomena that cannot be refuted. In the final analysis, they are just excuses for his uninhibited and promiscuous behavior. It is not worth bothering with him; A Zhong is not such a boy. Don't let Ah Zhong interact with him too much, otherwise he will lead you to evil sooner or later!

Just as Lin Chenzhong was about to speak, Hua Yueying said, "Ah Zhong, let's ignore this amorous king and eat quickly. We'll leave after eating."

Lin Chenzhong suppressed his words and continued to eat.

Zhang Ying said with a smile: "Brother, the little beauty doesn't agree with your fallacies. Stop talking endlessly and eloquently and asking for boredom. There is no market for your style at our table!"

Zhang Xian sighed and said: "What a pity! Very few people know me, only the young master! You are not my close friends."

Wu Qianshou smiled and said: "Don't worry, the eldest young master is with us every day. He will never embarrass the girls by talking about such shameless topics as you just now in front of the girls, so the eldest young master is personable." A humble gentleman, you are not!”

Zhang Xian said with a smile: "The young master has a lot of beautiful wives and concubines hidden in the golden house. You turn a blind eye and think he is a good person. That is because he is cunning and insidious. He only acts but does not say it, which creates an illusion for you. I say and act again. You But he thinks that I am a ruthless king, but he doesn’t know that my behavior is much more upright than him!”

Wu Qianshou said: "Don't boast yourself, Mrs. Wang. I don't believe you dare to say this if the young master is here!"

Zhang Xian said: "It's really not a good idea to talk to you, and I really can't talk to you!" He got up and left in anger, found another table with many girls to join in the fun, and immediately mingled happily with each other.