Abandoning my husband and son, I raised my six daughters to live happily

"Grandma eats it. Grandma loves to eat it. We should share the delicious food with our whole family."

"Look how sensible this child is." Old Mrs. Meng said with a doting look on her face. She put the cherries that Meng Shiyuan had placed in her hand back on the plate. She smiled softly and said, "Grandma doesn't like eating. I'm so sorry." of."

Meng Shiyuan curled her lips and said, "Grandma lied."

"Be good, don't make trouble. Grandma is really reluctant to eat such expensive things. You can eat it. As your little ones grow, I will give you a share."

Meng Shiyuan lowered her eyes and thought for a moment, then put the Cheerilee in her hand back.

"Grandma won't eat, and I won't eat either."

"why?"

Old Mrs. Meng asked puzzledly.

"Because I'm unhappy."

"why?"

"Grandma won't eat, and I won't be happy."

"Grandma doesn't eat it because it's too expensive. I want to save some money and leave it for you to eat. Grandma is doing this for your own good. Why don't you know good and evil? If you don't eat it, are you worthy of my childishness?"

When Meng Suisui saw this scene, she realized a very serious problem.

This is also a problem that occurs in many families.

Seeing that Lao Wu was about to cry after being told by her mother, Meng Suisui immediately said with a serious face.

"Mom, if our family's conditions are not as good as before, and we finally have some delicious food at home, but you are reluctant to eat it and keep it for your children, I can barely understand it, but our family's conditions have improved, and now we have enough to eat for the whole family. Everyone can eat whatever they want, there is no need for you to sacrifice your appetite like this."

"No matter how much food there is at home, if I eat less, the children can eat more. I am happy with this. Even if you can't do it as a mother, don't worry about me. You are not a good mother, but I am a good mother. Good grandma and good grandma.”

"Mom, you can't think like this. I think no matter what the family conditions are, even if there is only one steamed bun left at home, the whole family should break it up and eat it together. Everyone should share it. Even if one person has a small bite, it is good. When everyone is suffering, Bear it together and enjoy the fruits of victory together. This is the best family relationship. People like you who obviously like to eat but refuse to eat will cause your children to feel guilty and develop their selfish character. If this continues for a long time, It’s not good for children.”

Old Mrs. Meng was unhappy when she heard this and raised her eyebrows.

"I don't agree with your point of view. What you said is wrong. I am doing it for the good of the children. Isn't that what old people are like? They can't bear to eat or clothe themselves, so they keep everything for their children."

Hearing this, Meng Suisui knew that another battle would be inevitable today.

Sure enough, she and her mother would have to quarrel soon after staying together. This happened almost every time. It was really helpless.

But today she had to clarify this matter with her mother, lest her mother would do this again in the future.

Based on her experience in fighting with her mother, this matter cannot be solved without some harsh words.

In order to save face for her mother in front of her children and outsiders, Meng Suisui stood up and said.

"Mom, come into the house with me."

"What are you doing in the house?"

Old Mrs. Meng said unhappily, but she quickly got up and followed Meng Suisui into the house.

She knows her daughter too well.

She was also afraid that Meng Suisui would say something unpleasant and make her unable to step down in front of so many people.

Meng Suisui waited for Old Mrs. Meng to walk in. She closed the door, turned around and said.

"Mom, you see what you just said. If you don't eat, you will feel aggrieved. And you will often hang on the side to show how good you are to the children. To put it bluntly, you are beating them up. Under the guise of doing your best, you want your children to feel guilty towards you, thereby further controlling them. Once they do something that doesn’t go along with your wishes, you will take it out and say, I can’t bear to part with any cherries. Eat, I’ll give it all to you, I’m so good to you, but I raised you to be such a white-eyed wolf, and you say all kinds of nasty things.”

"I didn't mean that. You misunderstood me. How could you kid think of me like this?"

"I don't care if you have that intention or not, I just want you not to let them go easily in the future. The children don't want to eat less than that. Compared with the pleasure of eating that extra bite, they prefer the whole family. Enjoy the joy of delicious food together, and if they are eating delicious food, they would be very happy, but when they see you beside them, not eating anything, and insisting on leaving it to them under the guise of doing your best, It’s really disappointing, didn’t you see Lao Wu’s reaction just now?”

Meng Suisui paused and continued.

"Mom, with the current conditions of our family, are the children really short of your share? After eating your share, they will always bear the guilt. They don't need such love from their elders. Even if you For the sake of your children, please listen to what I said today, okay."

Old Mrs. Meng opened her mouth to refute, but suddenly she remembered what Lao Wu looked like just now. In the end, she didn't say anything, only a silent sigh.

After a while, Old Mrs. Meng said.

"Maybe I am really wrong, but I can't accept it for a while. I need time."

Meng Suisui knows that it is difficult to change a person's habits. Her mother is aware of the problem and is willing to take the time to change it. She feels that the result is already good.

She didn't hold back. After gathering her emotions, she opened the door and went out.

After leaving the house, Meng Suisui and Old Mrs. Meng pretended that countless things had happened and invited Song Youcai and the children to go out for dinner.

After seeing her for a long time, the children became closer to each other.

I can't help but come over to her from time to time to post messages.

In order not to disturb Meng Xingchu's preparation before the performance, they took a walk around the nearby clothing factory after eating in the afternoon.

Meng Suisui was still the same as before, she didn't feel bad about spending money at all. When she saw clothes suitable for her daughters, she bought them with a big wave of her hand.

In addition to spending money to buy clothes for her daughters, she also bought two new sets of clothes for each of her four nephews, one for daily use and the other for the Chinese New Year.

In addition, she also bought Meng Yufan and his wife a set of clothes suitable for work.

As expected, Meng Yufan will take office as the principal in the next year, so it is necessary to buy a decent outfit.

Naturally, there will be no shortage of clothes for her parents. She and the children helped choose her mother's clothes, and her mother helped choose her father's clothes.

Meng Suisui happily took her family to the mall, shopping everywhere. Song Youcai followed them, feeling indescribable envy.

This time he and Meng Suisui went on a long trip, and for the first time, he intuitively felt how good it was to have money.

He couldn't help but think of his wife who was struggling in pain, pulling her hair out and crying heartbrokenly every day.

If he is rich and hires a professional nanny to help take care of the children and reduce the burden on his wife, will his wife's condition be much better?

Ever since Meng Suisui said that postpartum depression was a disease and he learned that his wife might be sick, he had been absent-minded and wanted to go home immediately and take his wife to the hospital for treatment.

I hope he starts working hard from now on and everything is still in time.

"Song Youcai, it's almost time. It's time to go to the show. Let's go pick up the car."

Meng Suisui's voice suddenly appeared behind him, frightening him.

He reacted and responded quickly.

"Okay, let's go."

All Meng Suisui thought about was that she would be able to see her little daughter soon. She was so happy that she didn't notice that Song Youcai's face looked a little sad.