Abandoning my husband and son, I raised my six daughters to live happily

“Hot Pot Base!”

Meng Xingchu puffed out her chest and confidently stated her reasons.

"Didn't Master like mushroom soup pot base and spicy pot base very much before? Mom also promised to give Master these two kinds of pot bases, so this time we will give Master a few more of the soup bases that Mom and eldest sister have researched together. In this way, I think Master will be very happy after receiving it."

After hearing this, the sisters looked at Meng Xingchu with doting eyes.

Meng Suisui raised her hand and poked Meng Xingchu between the eyebrows, and said with a smile.

"Whose little daughter is this? She's so clever and enviable."

Meng Xingchu said jumping up and down.

"Yours, I am your little daughter!"

Meng Suisui said in a gentle tone of coaxing a child.

"Ah, then I am so happy. I must be the happiest mother in the world, right?"

Meng Xingchu nodded seriously.

"Now we haven't grown up yet, and we have to rely on my mother's hard work in business to support us. I believe it will be better when we grow up. By then we can both honor our mother and make money for her. At that time, my mother must be the world The happiest mother."

Ouch, this little girl really knows how to talk.

Just with this little honey-smeared mouth, even if you can't eat meat in the social circle of the entertainment industry, you can definitely get a few sips of soup.

Meng Suisui was very moved and nodded in response.

"There's no need to wait for you to grow up and make money to support your mother. She already feels very happy to have you by her side now."

She spoke from her heart.

Since she came here and was forced to become a mother, she has been fortunate enough to experience a life of having children by her side, and being able to watch them grow up little by little and become better little by little.

Although raising children is very tiring, I have to devote a lot of energy to taking care of and accompany them. I also have to rack my brains to think of how to pass on the essence of my life experience and the Five Elements to them. I hope to do my best to give my daughters a better life experience. Better.

But gradually she discovered that raising children was not only painful and tiring, she also gained a lot of emotional value from the children.

Some things can only be obtained from one's own children.

For example, he has only her in his heart and eyes, relies on her wholeheartedly, and has [-]% trust in her.

She had only experienced this extreme feeling from getting along with these children.

She found that because of her status as "mother", she would naturally receive care and attention from her daughters, as well as many of the privileges that this status brought her.

Because she is "mother." From the moment the children are born, their identities are not equal. The biggest reason for this inequality is that before the children have the ability to survive independently, they have to please their parents to survive. .

In addition, the culture of filial piety has long been ingrained in the hearts of every Chinese son and daughter. Almost everyone believes that it is the obligation of children to be filial to their parents and elders.

Even if you know that your parents are doing something wrong, you still have to endure the torture and accept it. Even if you know that you are being foolish and filial, you still have to continue.

Otherwise, it would be treason, otherwise your parents would have given birth to you and raised you like this in vain.

It seems that as long as she assumes the identity of "mother", she can make demands on the children as a matter of course and require them to listen to her.

The feeling of being able to restrict or even completely control a person is simply not very satisfying.

As long as an elder wants to, he can do what he wants as a matter of course. If he wants, he can even destroy the lives of his children in the name of love.

She had no children in her previous life, and her surroundings and online media were filled with news that being a parent was hard and that she had to pay a lot for her children.

So she has never been able to understand why some people still have children when they clearly don't like them. Since you are unwilling, why do you want to cause yourself such trouble that you will never get rid of for the rest of your life?

Now she understands.

In fact, most people have similar attitudes towards raising children and pets.

People know that keeping pets requires time and money, but they still decide to keep them because they want to get companionship and healing from pets.

In fact, the same goes for raising children. In the eyes of most parents, children are just more complicated pets. They are more difficult to raise than pets. You can get more from children than from raising pets.

Most people think about themselves before having children.

For example, I am worried that no one will take care of me when I get older, and I want to have a child to provide for myself in old age.

For example, everyone around them has children, and those men and women of the right age need to have a child to cope with the pressure brought by society.

My parents are urging me every day, and my desire to have a grandson is very strong. There are many people around who say that they "cannot give birth to children because they have physical problems.", "There are three unfilial piety, the worst is not having children, no matter what kind of life you live, you must continue the family line.", and other rumors.

They have to use the matter of giving birth to a child to shut their mouths.

After a child is born, parents have an object over which they can exercise control.

Children cannot choose their parents, but parents have the opportunity to make their children what they want, or force them to be what they want.

When children grow up, parents can legitimately ask their children to be filial to them and treat them well, and they can morally kidnap them if they don't go their way at all.

"I'm your father, I'm your mother. I'm doing this for your own good. I didn't make you grow so big because of me pooping and peeing. If you don't listen to me, it's unfilial. I'm going to cause trouble. Everyone knows that you are not good to me..."

Parents' ability to kidnap their children seems to be innate, passed down from generation to generation.

This is probably because those who are children will also become parents in the future, so everyone acknowledges the hard work of parents, but is silent about all the benefits parents get from their children.

It was only after Meng Suisui was forced to become a mother that she realized that for most parents who are poor or not so responsible for their children, raising children can be regarded as almost a huge profit.

So she can gradually understand why so many people are willing to have children even though they know the pain and trouble it will bring to them, because having children is a better choice for their lives.

She does not deny that the love parents give to their children is great, but she resents those who, in order to cover up their selfish thoughts, only publicize the hard work of raising children and avoid mentioning everything they have gained from their children.

After being forced to become a mother, she demanded that she be a qualified mother and never kidnap her daughters with family affection.

Let them experience life instead of controlling their life.

She hopes that more and more mothers will give birth to children in the future because she thinks the world is so beautiful and wants to bring someone to experience it.

"Mom, what are you thinking about? My eldest sister has called you several times, but you haven't responded."

The third child Meng Yourong's voice reached her ears. Meng Suisui came back to her senses and shook her head.

"It's nothing, let's prepare gifts quickly."

She stood up and asked, "Boss, how much of the cooked base is left in our house? Pack it up and give it to Lao Liu's master first. Then we can eat it if we want."

Because it was about her biological sister, Meng Anyu didn't feel bad at all, and she agreed wholeheartedly.

"Okay, I was afraid it would go bad, so I put all the cooked base ingredients in the freezer. I'm going to see how much I have and take them out."

After Meng Anyu finished speaking, he quickly rummaged through the freezer.

Meng Suisui's eyes fell on the other daughters.

"Second brother, didn't I buy a few extra cartons of good cigarettes for the opening? Bring me the extra ones."

"Third brother, your Uncle Huang gave you a gift of good tea a few days ago. There seems to be one box left unopened. Please go find it quickly."

"Fourth brother, Chen Hengyuan brought a bottle of good wine here before. We never had a chance to drink it. You go and get it too."

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