Urban Life: Our Youth

night.

0048 Spicy shrimp hotpot restaurant.

Zhou Youcai and his son ordered a 98 yuan hotpot, which was very affordable and contained a lot of prawns. They also had a few bottles of Tsingtao beer and chatted while eating.

"Youcai, tell me, what happened when you went to their sales department to give her flowers this morning?" the young master asked.

The young master’s real name was Zhao Zhengyong, and he was Zhou Youcai’s classmate.

"They don't want it at all."

"Did you say anything?"

"She told me not to send her flowers or send her messages if nothing happened. Moreover, she also said that she has a boyfriend. What do you think is my problem? Am I out of luck?"

"Give me your phone and I'll take a look at your chat history."

Zhou Youcai handed the phone to the young master. The young master looked at it and said, "You have so many questions. I don't know where to start."

"Really? Why didn't I notice it at all?"

"No wonder you can't catch up with girls. You have more than one problem. You treat me to a 98-yuan hot pot meal, and you still feel like you're losing money."

"Then what do you want to eat? Just tell me next time and I'll treat you to it, okay?"

"That's more or less the same. However, you have money and we are good brothers. There is no need for me to fool you. I think you have been blocked by Zhang Chuying. You might as well give up. If you continue to entangle, there will be no results." Young Master explain.

"How can you see it?" Zhou Youcai asked.

"Take WeChat chat as an example. If a girl is interested in you at all, and you send her a message, she will usually reply instantly instead of ignoring you for a long time, except for special circumstances, such as she is really busy. In addition, you should be on the same frequency." Young Master said.

"What does 'same frequency' mean?" Zhou Youcai was a little confused.

"To put it simply, if you send her a WeChat message, she will reply to you quickly, or even several messages. Generally speaking, if there are more white fonts, it means that she has a good impression of you." Gongzi said.

"Is that right?"

"If you don't believe me, take a closer look at your chat history. He only replied to two messages in total, but you sent N messages. Do you think it's free to send messages to WeChat, so you can send them as you like, then, from now on, Let me tell you, just think that sending a WeChat message requires paying 100 yuan, which is very expensive. Generally speaking, if you send a message and the other party doesn’t reply, don’t send it again, don’t ask why, and don’t call again. Call her over and get to the bottom of it. Otherwise, it will reveal your neediness, which is too strong. Wait until the next day, and if you want to chat with her, just chat directly. It doesn’t mean that every time the chat ends, it’s a boy. The news is at the bottom, you can also take the initiative to end the conversation." Gongzi said.

"Hearing what you said, it seems to make sense."

"In addition, there is something wrong with the content of your chat. From now on, when sending messages, don't say anything like 'Are you there?', 'Are you there? ','What are you doing? ','Have you got a meal yet? ’, ‘Did you drink water? ’ and so on, these can be called invalid messages. In the relationship between men and women, the greatest charm of a man is his self-confidence. If anything happens, you just talk about it directly. If you post this, it will make you look very unconfident and a bit boring. Are you sending a hint that you miss someone but don't know what to say? You might as well just say 'I miss you', you know? "The young master said.

"I understand a little bit."