Rebirth 13, starting from the big demolition treasure hunt

Time quickly arrived at the Qingming Festival. During this year's Qingming Festival, Wu Yuansheng drove back to his hometown with Yi Xiaoyue, Wu Qi, Wu Ming and Wu Jinyi.

Wu Yun and Ding Changxi also called them and drove to visit their mother's grave.

(Two years ago, they took some time to learn how to drive, and after getting their driver’s licenses, they bought a Dongfeng Fengxing series off-road vehicle.

After all, cars are almost universal in this era, just like motorcycles once were.)

This is the first time I have brought my two children to visit my mother and ancestors’ graves.

If my mother were still alive, she would definitely be happy to see her grandchildren.

In Wu Yuansheng's view, Qingming Festival is a time for people to reflect on the past, think about the present and look forward to the future.

At this time of year every year, he will have a better understanding of life, life and death, and different age stages.

In addition to his own insights, he would also take out his mobile phone and look at other people's insights in the video.

The technological age provides people with too much convenience.

If you don't understand or are unclear about something, or if you already understand something but want to understand it more clearly, you may be able to find better answers and deeper analysis using a mobile phone.

While reading other people's insights, he searched for a while and found a few relevant messages or comments that left a deep impression on him, so he saved them.

For example, someone wrote a poem about this season:

"A bowl of water when your parents are alive is better than a thousand piles of ashes at their graves.

"Love and grace have been sung since ancient times. Don't forget the pain and sorrow of raising a child."

This is a kind of enlightenment for those who have elderly parents and young children.

Someone said:

“Qingming Festival allows us to face the dead as the living, reflect on our own life status more rationally, and constantly correct the trajectory of our life.

Let us realize how we should live in our limited life and how we should treat the elderly and the younger generations.

Don’t forget where you came from, and don’t forget where you’re going back.”

Some people say:

“Only when the Qingming Festival came did I realize that in this life, we live facing the sun, and when we die, everything is gone.

Our entire life is just a journey home. When our parents are there, our hometown is there. When our parents are gone, we are all guests in our hometown.

Life is a train heading to the grave. There will be many stops along the way, and you will meet many people and then wave goodbye.

No matter how hard you try, you can't go back to yesterday, nor can you reject tomorrow.

The meaning of Qingming Festival is to think about death. We have to think that one day we will also leave this world.

We have only one breath left in this world, so how can we live a meaningful life and feel that we have not lived in vain at the end of our lives?

Others said:

“Qingming is not only for the deceased relatives, but more importantly, it reminds us to cherish the people around us and not let being too late become an eternal regret.

We should look at ourselves from the perspective of the past, what can we say to our present selves? What can we do now when facing our future selves? "

Someone commented:

“Most people overlook a truth, that is, many things do not need to be meaningful. Eating, drinking and having fun does not mean wasting time, and working hard does not mean extraordinary meaning.

When you are anxious and mentally exhausted, please remember that life is a superposition of various experiences. As long as you want, you can do those seemingly meaningless things.

For example, daydreaming, watching the sunrise, counting the stars, sitting on the grass all day...your experience is the meaning.

Life does not necessarily require doing things that are considered meaningful by the world, nor does it require living according to mainstream social values, such as getting married and having children in your 20s, or owning a car and a house by the age of 30.

These are the meanings given by others, and whether we execute them depends on ourselves.

Everyone comes to this world for the first time. The meaning is given by ourselves. Life is a wilderness, not a track. As long as you are at ease in the moment, your life is meaningful.

I have been to this world and will eventually leave it. This process is meaningful.”

Another person commented:

“The Qingming Festival is actually just a day, a day for people to remember their loved ones, a day to remember love, and a day to bid farewell to the cold winter.

A day to see spring, a day to relax and go for an outing with the children, and a day to think about where I came from and continue on my journey.

The deceased return to our hearts on this day, and the living use this day to realize the preciousness of family affection and the beauty of life.

One after another, the people who are related to you may accompany you for a long journey or a short journey. No matter how reluctant you are, once they fade away from your life, they will never come back.

No matter how long or short life is, as long as someone remembers it, it has not been lived in vain. It is a magnificent hymn played in the memories of others.

No matter how bitter or sweet life is, as long as you can keep a clear mind despite the wind and rain, and there will still be spring flowers blooming after the frost and snow, your life will be more perfect and happy! "

Others commented:

"People who are greedy for money will die first, and birds who are greedy for food will die soon. No matter how cunning and skillful you are, you will inevitably hide in the wilderness.

Young people do not understand the meaning of "Qingming", and when they understand, they are no longer young. The longing in the "song" is still there, but I don't see my family anymore. "

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There are so many feelings and insights about Qingming Festival, but no matter what, it makes people understand life better and learn to be grateful.

Whether it is the kindness of our parents, ancestors, or the deceased who have contributed to our happy life today, we should be grateful.

In addition, Qingming Festival is also a good time to educate your family's descendants and younger generations. "Filial piety is the first of all virtues." We should let them understand traditional culture, especially the culture of "filial piety."

By watching other people's videos and comments and combining them with his own experiences, he further improved his own level.

Learning has no end, but human life is limited. Only by continuous progress can we understand more and better adapt to the times.

While watching these, he asked Yi Xiaoyue, Wu Jinyi, Wu Yun, and Ding Changxi to take a look as well.

After watching it, they will gain something from their attitude towards life and combining it with their own experiences and feelings.

When everything comes back to life, the weather warms up, and people go out for outings, everything looks so beautiful.

Wu Qi and Wu Ming returned home to worship their ancestors. They were innocent and carefree.

At their age, they cannot understand the "state of mind" of adults.

But it doesn’t matter, they are still young and have a long way to go in their lives.

At noon and in the evening, we still had dinner at my second uncle's house (each family member paid according to the number of people).

In addition to paying for the meal, Wu Yuansheng also brought two packs of good cigarettes and several bottles of good wine.

(This is similar to the previous Qingming Festival trips back to my hometown.)

I gave a pack of cigarettes to each of my relatives who smoked.

He feels that such family gatherings every year are beneficial, as at least everyone can connect with each other to a certain extent.

As he grew older and gained more experience, he became increasingly aware that human friendships are built through frequent interactions.

Everyone can see this from their interactions.

Because of the reunions in recent years, Qingming has become a more lively and intense "clan" activity than the Chinese New Year.