Rebirth 13, starting from the big demolition treasure hunt

During the Qingming Festival, everything revives and flowers bloom.

On April 4, Wu Yuansheng took his family back to his hometown.

This time of year feels like the best time of the year.

Returning to the countryside, away from the hustle and bustle of the city, calming down and watching some scenes can help people see the past, life, and life and death more clearly.

At an intersection, there was a temporary shed set up to sell incense paper, ghost coins, flowers, firecrackers and other ancestor worship items. There were long lines of people shopping here.

Wu Yuansheng stopped the car and bought some.

(He once heard someone say that these days are the best time of the year for selling ancestor worship items.

Some businessmen, selling these items in good locations, can earn thousands in net income per day.

If calculated this way, it would be tens of thousands of yuan a week, which is much better than his previous job as a security guard.

If he was not living in a demolition area or a garbage dump, and if he found it too troublesome, he would want to wholesale some paper money, ghost coins, fake flowers for visiting graves, firecrackers, ingots and other items, and drive a van to find a place to sell them.

It doesn't matter if you can't sell it all. Just make an agreement with the wholesale store owner and return it to them.

As a security guard, he had never thought of this.

To make money, you need to find the right direction, observe more, and take real action. )

Another year, when I visited the grave, I saw that the grave was once again covered with weeds and trees.

Like last year, they cleaned the surface of the grave for a while.

He has thought about his mother's grave and his ancestral graves. Around the Qingming Festival next year, he will spend money to find someone to come and wrap them up properly and carve tombstones.

During this period, I met some relatives of my family while worshiping my ancestors.

They also came to visit the grave today.

Last year, everyone did not get together.

After meeting, they all greeted each other and talked about the past or recent events.

When chatting with a cousin who is 6 years older than him, the cousin said that he did some stupid things some time ago and wasted a lot of money.

Everyone was curious about the stupid things he said.

He didn't hide anything and told the story:

He said that six months ago, he met a woman three years younger than him at a friend's dinner party, and she was also single.

Later, various contact information was added.

Considering that I am no longer young, I tried to "date" with this woman.

More than two months ago, just before the Chinese New Year, the woman's mobile phone was not working, so she asked him to accompany her to look at the mobile phone. At that time, she fell in love with one worth about 2000.

When he was about to pay, he rushed to pay.

The woman didn't say anything, just took the phone and went back to use it.

Later, the two started going on "dates" to go shopping and watch movies, and he bought a lot of things.

These are not the main things. The key is to hang out with that woman. She won't even let him hold her hand, let alone the following things.

Recently he confessed his love to that woman and mentioned marriage.

This woman seemed shocked. She said that she had never thought about marrying him at all, and it was not even a "dating".

He also said that buying a mobile phone and going out to play are all things he is willing to do, and they are also things he likes to do and is happy to do.

The woman said she wasted a lot of time by going out with him.

It seemed as if just looking at her would make him very satisfied!

After listening to what the woman said, he realized that she was 100% not interested in him.

"Associating" with him is not a real relationship.

This is just a one-sided fantasy on his part.

In addition, he also knew the character of this woman. Someone who could do such a thing would definitely not be a good person.

If you don't associate with others, don't accept things from others.

Later he sobered up and thought of some details.

When this woman buys something, she usually finds fault with it. Even if it is good, she will say this is not good or that is not good.

(I just like to find trouble.)

One time she bought a set of headphones, but when she got home she said she had lost money. Later she went to a store to replace them four or five times, finding faults every time.

It made everyone in the store annoy her.

Even the mobile phone he bought for her before, the clothes he bought while shopping, etc.

After a few days, she couldn't tell.

He also exchanged it with others, deliberately looking for trouble.

In addition, treat her to a meal or milk tea, whatever is expensive, please order.

(Listening to what his cousin said, Wu Yuansheng felt that this woman was somewhat similar to the former Fang Fen.

But when Fang Fen was in a bad mood during that period, his character seemed even worse.

People who like to make trouble for nothing, and as my cousin said, spend other people's money and make sarcastic remarks, can only be said to have serious problems with their character.

Either you don't spend other people's money, don't plan to date, and just make things clear. )

The two had a falling out, and he asked the woman to compensate for some expenses, even half of it.

But people said that he held her hand and even extended his hand in a subtle way.

It means no money will be given.

He spent money but didn't get any advantage, which made him feel unusually depressed.

It has the meaning of "spending money to find suffering".

Even calling the police would probably be useless for this kind of thing.

Later, he deleted all the contact information of the woman and could only admit that he was unlucky.

I also thought about taking violent measures, but I felt that it was not worth it for a woman. After all, I still have parents, brothers and sisters at home.

After listening to my cousin's narration, everyone felt that he was indeed quite confused and spent money without confirming the relationship.

But he can't be completely blamed for this. There are actually very few women like what he said. Most people will not accept gifts from others casually.

Among the relatives of that woman, two people who worked with her cousin had also seen her.

She is said to be a "discard" and "trash". When others talk to her, they won't even talk about going together.

You say one thing, and she says the other, which is totally wrong.

They also persuaded their cousin not to have any contact with the woman.

But he couldn't listen to it at the time. Besides being old, he just wanted to find a woman to get married to.

Now it seems that you can't just look for someone. If you find someone with a bad character, even if you get married, your life will not be easy in the future.

That woman, when others spend money on her, she must be aware of it.

It can only be said that he is pretending to be confused, and his character is quite bad.

My cousin now feels a little uncomfortable because he spent thousands of dollars and got nothing done with that woman, and was maliciously "blackmailed and bullied" by her.

In addition, he also blamed himself for being hot-headed in the beginning, having bad luck, and being too simple-minded. He just happened to meet such a "good" and such an unruly woman.

After hearing this incident, Wu Yuansheng also realized more deeply that people are different. The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds.

In the following chat, everyone also said some words of relief to their cousin, saying that luckily they found out in time, such a woman cannot be married back home.

A wise man learns from every experience, and I guess he won't be so naive again in the future.