Reborn in the 70s, the ascetic soldier dotes on him every night

But there are only a few days to learn something, and today is the last day. If they don’t cherish it, they will miss it forever.

"In that case, let me talk about women's diplomacy." An Yinan nodded, looking at everyone with eyes full of warmth.

It is no longer as sharp and scrutinizing as on the first day.

That’s right, on the first day, the scrutinizing gaze sounded a wake-up call in everyone’s heart.

"Our leaders have been constantly reiterating that women hold up half the sky."

"but……"

"Women do have disadvantages in some aspects."

"Women are inherently weaker than men."

“When women go abroad, they are exposed to more darkness than men.”

When An Yinan said this, he looked at the female comrades. There were more than thirty people in the room, but there were only three female comrades.

"but……"

She smiled and looked into three pairs of eager eyes.

“Women also have things that men cannot compare to.”

"Women's perspectives are more discerning and they are more careful than men."

"And women can make negotiators let down their guard."

“These are all the advantages of women.”

Everyone below was constantly thinking. The men were thinking about what was right and what was wrong, and the women were thinking about what they should do in the future.

"The issue of men and women is an eternal issue. It has never been resolved since the beginning of humankind."

"I don't think I have the ability to solve this problem for everyone."

"Women are special forces soldiers, women are doctors, women are leaders, and women can run businesses."

"For example, I can stand here and give you a lecture. Is what you see my gender?"

She asked the question with a smile.

Everyone below shook their heads and even thought of the first day when Teacher An was so domineering. How could she be like a woman?

But the gender is beyond doubt, Teacher An is a woman.

An Yinan couldn't help laughing when he saw their expressions.

That domineering makeup seemed insignificant when she smiled from the bottom of her heart.

She originally had a soft and pitiful smiling face, and now her red lips were slightly raised, with curved eyebrows. Although she was wearing a professional suit, her bright smile could make people forget her clothes, and many people were stunned.

In the end, An Xiangbei coughed twice to prevent these people from losing their composure.

"Teacher An, you are so beautiful." A girl said with starry eyes.

An Yinan smiled and said, "Thank you."

She nodded, tilted her head, and said thank you softly, which made everyone fall in love with her again.

In this state, who dares to say that she is not a woman?

Damn, she’s actually a woman!

The people below were all devastated.

"Look, I'm a woman, but when my momentum reaches a certain point, can you ignore my gender?"

The people below kept nodding their heads like chicks pecking at rice.

It is a recognition that comes from the heart.

"so……"

“Does gender matter?”

"In ancient times, Hua Mulan joined the army, and before that, Comrade Liu was martyred. What about women?"

An Yinan looked at them. The eyes of the three confused girls now lit up, and each of them seemed to have broken free from their confusion.

Everyone has moments of confusion in life.

She will too.

Even if she thinks she is mature enough, even if she thinks she is rational enough, she is a human being, she will be sentimental, confused and at a loss as to the way forward.

She gave herself time to be confused, but not for long.

She always believes that the road is right under your feet. When you feel confused, you might as well keep moving forward. Maybe there will be a bright future ahead.

"I think you have found the answer in your heart, so let's continue with today's topic and switch positions."

"What is transposition?"

"For example, just now, when we were talking about men and women, men, have you considered the position of women? How do they think? Why are they confused? Why are they anxious? Why do they ask these questions?"

An Yinan stretched out a finger and shook it in front of everyone, "You don't have it."

"To change your position, first you have to think about whether you would have such concerns if you were a woman."

“This is a gender reversal.”

"When a child cries, as a parent, shouldn't we think about why the child is crying? Is it because the child is uncomfortable? Is it because what he wants is not met?"

"Adults and children switch places."

"The leader said something ambiguous today, and you will keep thinking, what does the leader mean?"

“The exchange of positions between leaders and subordinates.”

An Yinan smiled and looked at them.

"You must not understand, what does this have to do with me?"

She just smiled, but seemed to be able to see through people's hearts. When this question came out, many people lowered their heads because this was their inner thoughts.

“When attitude determines the plan and skills determine the process, then changing one’s position may affect the result.”

Everyone's eyes widened. Would changing positions affect the results?

Everyone's curiosity was aroused. An Xiangbei thought of what his sister had told him before, and a line seemed to be connected in his brain. Is this really the case?

He has learned more than any of them. These days, his sister gives him lessons every day. Even if the journey is far and his sister is in the compound, he insists on going home.

"Putting yourself in someone else's shoes is also called thinking from someone else's perspective. What are you thinking about? If you were in this situation, what level of negotiation would you accept? This is also called the bottom line."

An Yinan was smiling as he spoke one sentence at a time, starting with the simplest examples and moving on to slightly more complex examples.

From each failed and successful case, let them understand the value of reversing the bottom line, that is, putting themselves in other people’s shoes.

"Putting yourself in someone else's shoes can be done anywhere, at any time, in dealing with people, in diplomatic etiquette, in all places."

The clear voice brings a feeling like a spring breeze.

The younger generation in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs is influencing a group of people.

Just three short classes, but they influenced their lives.

They learned attitudes, learned skills, and learned empathy.

It was almost noon and everyone went to have lunch, and the class came to an end.

Wang Yunzhi and Wang Dazhi were standing outside. An Yinan felt it, but she didn't say anything, nor did she alert the people in the room who were concentrating.

"It's the last class, let's talk about something as usual."

She tapped the table with her finger and looked at the pairs of inquiring eyes below.

"In the first class, I taught you attitude, the attitude towards being a person, the attitude towards diplomacy, and the attitude towards the country. I said that this determines our bottom line and the foundation."

"In the second class, I taught you skills, negotiation skills, darkness, and the importance of being on guard against others. This determines the process."